|
loving/liking your best guy friend
i am completely lost and confused. i first had a crush on a guy starting in may last year going till about juneish..or so i thought. turns out i dont' think i've ever stoped liking him. and he turns out to be one of my best guy friends. and i'm scared to tell him i like him and ruin a friendship. so please what should a 17 year old girl do about liking her really good basically best guy friend.
[and i heard he had a crush on me last year but i'm not sure if it was true or not]
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
tell him that you like him and that you don't want to ruin your friendship. Remaining friends while still in a relationship is something few are able to do, which is why there are so many divorces and break-ups today. It is very important to be best friends with the person you are in a relationship with. Being that you two are really close, then you both already know each other, you already know if the other is involved or not, you already know some likes and dislikes- that's a start to a great, nurturing, mature relationship.
Call him up, and say hey, you wanna go do something today? once he says yes.. go to the park and walk a little bit, hell, why not have a pic-nic and take that time to express how you feel about him.
Don't bring up the fact that you heard he liked you or had a crush on you last year because that was a year ago and you didn't pursue it then, which could lead to questions of why now? you feel me? so let's just avoid that period.
If he doesn't like you back on that level then you still have your friendship. If he does like you on that level, then go for it. OR you could just down load some songs on a cd for him and give him the cd if you aren't good at just coming out with it.
Listen to Floetry Live - Have Faith is the name of the song. They have another song called feelings, and check on Mary J Blige - A friend of mine.
Good Luck, and I hope that you two do get together, I think it will be perfect!
]
well if some one told you he had a crush on you, you should take that to consideration, its possible that it may be true, because i too have a really big crush on my best friend and he likes me too, we've been liking each other for three years already and im 18 now, but we never went out, our friendship is great and hes the most trusted person i know, so it think at the moment keep your crush to yourself and let it grow more and more, and at times flirt and if he flirts back then hes interested, just don't rush it, and trust your heart and mind, keep your friendship closer and if it passes a year or a couple of month, do those little flirty comments like "when we having a baby" and "love ya" that type of crap and if he plays along instead of telling you to stop then you can keep your head up high and look toward a good relationship with him. WHo knows, me and my best friend might end up getting married tee hee
]
More Questions: |