Member Since: October 18, 2007
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Last Update: October 19, 2007
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15/f
I don't know what to do anymore I really like him but he seems to be interested in my best friend. I've tried everything but I'm about to just give up because what ever I seem to do isn't working. I've already talked to her and she respects my feelings but she still flirts with him he says he doesn't like her but yet he flirts back with her. It just hurts because I really like him. I don't know what to do. (link)
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ok sweetie what you need to do first of all is let your friend know your really like him (make it clear to her) and that you dont like the idea of her flirting with him. If shes a true friend then she will respect your wishes. The second thing you need to do is stop giving this guy so much attention if you play this game right he might be yours. Most often guys want what they cant have and if you act like your not so into him then he could possible want you. Good luck and let me know how it goes.
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I have everything I wont in a family like a great mom,step dad,Brothers,sisters and a dad but he is in prison right now.But We do fun thing lke a family but before I go to bed I think that there is something miising in my life and its like I have a hole in my heart I know that sounds weird but it is true.I can't figure out what this is can anyone mabe tell me pleez b/c it is always bugging me. (link)
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I know how you feel because I feel that way to. That feeling has to do with love, you feel the need for that special someone in your life so you can be complete. Family is always number one but sometimes we feel empty inside because we havent found that special someone that gets us so well and is always by our side no matter what. Dont worry everything will fall into place you just have to be patient. Believe me love will come your way all in time, in the mean time enjoy the joyous moments with your family that create the most precious memories in life.
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17/f.(really long, but please read) I was supposed to have a doctor's appointment next week because I have been having panic attacks, and my mother thinks I'm depressed(I think it may be bipolar, and I pretty much said that to her but she doesn't care), and for a bunch of other things. Well, my mother canceled the appointment because she has something to do. So, she told me that I pretty much can not get into the doctor's for three weeks! It's bullsh*t! I know I have to see someone before something bad happens. But it feels like my parents do not give a damn. They truly don't. The only reason she made an appointment was because my grades dropped because of everything. All she cares about is my grades, and college. Well, for me to get into college, I need to fix what is happening right now to bring up my grades. She doesn't see that. It feels like she is always blowing this off, like I'm faking or something. I know what a panic attack is, and that's what is happening. The only reason I know-I actually talk to someone once in awhile. I talk to my teacher from last year. I had a bad panic attack in his room before and he talked with me. Helped me understand some things and it felt better talking to someone. I've talked to him a few times. He understands what is going on with the panic attacks and he knows I have mood swings. So he knows almost everything that is going on. But I told myself that I won't talk to him anymore after I went to the doctor's, because....well that's just how I am.....I'm like convincing myself that he is getting irrtated with me and doesn't want to hear anymore. I always tell myself things like that...I don't know why. I feel comfortable talking to him though, I don't know if I would if I talked to like a social worker or something. I don't know what to do now that I don't have an appointment. I feel so awful and like no one cares. I'm falling fast. I'm starting to hurt myself too now. Snapping a hair tie on my wrist til it goes red and numb, and today I scratched my arm til it went red and numb. I'm really afraid that I'm going to do more, more often. I honestly don't know what to do anymore. It feels like I have no one to talk to, no one cares. I'm lost. (link)
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Listen sweetie I know how you feel I get panic attacks to. You need to relax. Stop thinking negative thoughts, dont drink anything with caffeine and stay away from to much salt because all these things can make your attacks stronger. Try and avoid all the negativity in your life if possible and focus on the positive. I know you feel like no one gets what your going through or that no one cares but you can stop thinking that because I care and you can always talk to me. If you have any questions write to me. Take care of yourself and stop trying to hurt yourself you should know that someone does care about you and that someone is me.
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You know how love can be based on looks,personality,interest,etc.etc.?
well can it be based only one?I think so,but I want your opinion too,like some girls just love a guy cause he looks hot and then only get to know him further,and some girls like guys that play guitar.
anywayws,i met this gal online,and we did not see each other at all,after talking for quite a while we logged off.then the following day we chatted again for hours.She then told me that she likes me and really loves my personality and the way I talk and asked me to be her bf.
So the question is this,is that love? or maybe like?(If love is too strong a word).In this situation,can it be counted that this girl actually likes me? or is it not counted as a crush/love/like since she has not seen me at all but just talked to me?
thanks (link)
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Well your right love is a strong word and no its not love but it does mean she likes you. You dont have to see a person inorder to start liking them sometimes the way a person speaks in other words expresses their feelings can be much more attractive. The truth is when you someone face to face you cant always be yourself but when you talk to them over the phone or etc then its easier to be yourself. Anyway if you like her to then go for it and goodluck.
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I'm having a crisis of faith at the moment.
I've been dating this guy for over a year. And I guess things are getting a little stale.
I've met this boy Dan, who is very similar to me.
And to me, he's more attractive than my current boyfriend. He has a lip ring and a mohawk, and thus more my'type'.
And lately I've been feeling really attached to him, and I think I like him.
It's just, I have a really great thing going with my current boyfriend,and I don't know what i should do. (link)
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Well sweetie the truth is many people feel the way that you feel but most of the time they are to afraid to admit it. Its a good thing that ur admiting your true feelings. Your not a bad person just because you feel this way but what you need to do is really think about this, dont rush into anything. You need to figure out which guy means more to you? I know that deep down you have the answer to that question. If the other guy means more to you then you need to let your boyfriend know because its not fair to him. If your afraid of the other guy rejecting you and thats whats holding you back from breaking up with your boyfriend then you should still end things with him because the truth is you dont love him enough.
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Hi well I am a little over wight and I want to lose it before I go to high school which is next year so What kind of diet should I go on and I dont want to like starve my self u know. (link)
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what we did when we wanted to lose weight was avoid eating to much junk food, drink only water, avoid pepsi, coke or anything that has to much sodium. Besides you should not feel the need to lose weight just because you want to fit in. Trust us it is better to be an outsider then pretend to be someone you are not just to fit in.
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so theres this guy and i like him a lot. but the problem is i dont talk to him that much. i went out with him last year and i liked him ever since. but hes a huge jerk and dumped me bcuz i didnt make out with him right away. i was over h
im but theres just something about him that is just adorable. what should i do about it.? (link)
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well sweetie...the answer is short and simple, this guy is not worth your time. If he does not care enough to respect your feelings then you should not waste your life dwelling over him when there are millions of other guys out there who will love you for you.
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