15/f
I don't know what to do anymore I really like him but he seems to be interested in my best friend. I've tried everything but I'm about to just give up because what ever I seem to do isn't working. I've already talked to her and she respects my feelings but she still flirts with him he says he doesn't like her but yet he flirts back with her. It just hurts because I really like him. I don't know what to do.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? 2for1 answered Friday October 19 2007, 4:26 pm: ok sweetie what you need to do first of all is let your friend know your really like him (make it clear to her) and that you dont like the idea of her flirting with him. If shes a true friend then she will respect your wishes. The second thing you need to do is stop giving this guy so much attention if you play this game right he might be yours. Most often guys want what they cant have and if you act like your not so into him then he could possible want you. Good luck and let me know how it goes. [ 2for1's advice column | Ask 2for1 A Question ]
VixenLuna answered Friday October 19 2007, 11:59 am: well sweety this is a serious problem, and sometimes and it cant be helped. Not all best friends will respect your feelings. She may have a crush on this boy as well. But no one can control their feelings. No one. You cant make him like you, and the only thing you can do at the moment is dont tell this friend of yours any of your secrets and to tell her to stay away from him. It will make her feel more powerful. The only thing right now, is to move on and ignore him, so enough he will feel that u have no interest in you, and try to get your attention. But then again, hes probably flirting with that friend of yours because he wants to make you mad and make you not like him anymore. there are many reasons. hope ive helped a bit, but if i havnt i have more ideas, muahhhh
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wisemen answered Thursday October 18 2007, 7:58 pm: well have you tried being yourself and not anyone else as in flirting or something. it probably just seems like they're flirting but just talking and telling jokes because they got to be friends not anything more and since you seem to have talked to him before then ask him if he would like to go somewhere. Hope all goes well! [ wisemen's advice column | Ask wisemen A Question ]
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