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My friend and I like the same boy.


Question Posted Tuesday October 16 2007, 6:05 pm

My friend and I like the same boy. I dont know what to do really. Does anyone have advice for me, because i don't want to hurt her but i really like him. My age is 14 and I am a Female.

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Jaime answered Tuesday October 16 2007, 9:33 pm:
First off if you really charish your friendship you wount let a boy come in the middle of it and tarnish it. i have seen this in a lot of friendships and it kind of pathetic. i think you should tell her but let her know that you dont want him to come in between the two of you.

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Erinn_the_bamf answered Tuesday October 16 2007, 8:56 pm:
He should be off limits to both of you. When you're 14 every little pain in the world of relationships feels worse, due to hormones running around making you emotional. As a result, there's no way for one of you to be happy without the other one getting hurt. This would really ruin your friendship. Honestly, your relationship with this boy probably wouldn't last long, therefore, there's no point to kill a friendship over some silly boy.

If you friend starts liking a new guy and is completely over this one THEN AND ONLY THEN can you go for him.

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beloved answered Tuesday October 16 2007, 7:41 pm:
i have the same exact problem u do...im even female and 14...what country/state do u live in?

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tootsierollsweet999 answered Tuesday October 16 2007, 7:11 pm:
well if you have a clear shot at him.. like he likes you back, sit her down and explain it to her before someone else has the chance.


if he's ifyy.. and ur not really sure how he feels wait until ur posstive!No reason ruining a friendship over a guy that never liked u.
NOY SAYING IT WILL

but if it does get her angry explain it more. and dont bring this up ina casual conversation.. maybe cry a little. might help

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