I (27) like this girl (25), got along great until I found out she had a boyfriend, i did subject myself to meet him (in her company). Honastly, if he turned out to be a ass wipe i would have moved in.
He seemed pretty descent, so i backed off.
Couple of months later (keeping once a month or so contact with her) I find out they made out, I know through sources, but only after declining a invite to a outing with her. But then I didn't want to see her and the (now ex) boyfriend doing...whatever.
Now that I do know however, she doesn't seem to be taking my calls (four in a row).
I can take that it has only been a month since the breakup, but she is a REALLY awesome girl, arty, intelligent, gorgeous and (perhaps seemingly) pure. I'm kinda afraid another guy would move in.
Do i keep hammering against the wall (like maybe once or twice a week), or do i back off.
By the way, if I don't get her on a date/outing I won't probably wont see her again.
scootermclisle answered Tuesday October 16 2007, 7:33 pm: Call her just once more and straight up say that you are afrid if you don't get her on a date/outing that you won't see her again. Be direct. Then, the ball's in her court and you'll just have to wait and see what happens. [ scootermclisle's advice column | Ask scootermclisle A Question ]
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