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Why doesnt he love me?
13/f
I've been dating this guy for sometime now. It was an internet relationship, but i didnt care. He was sweet and made me feel so much better about myself in so many ways. We used to say to tell each other that we loved each other everytime we talked. But recently i he wasnt on for a while. I kept on loving him. There was a place to put if you had a special person, so I put his picture on there saying that i always will love him. When he got back on he said he didnt love me anymore. I was crushed and we've been talking about it. Now he is saying that he isnt the same type of guy and that i should judt forget about him, and he doesnt get why i still love him. the question is, why all of the sudden does he not love me? Is it because the natural male instince to run when a woman says she loves a guy?
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The reason why he stopped contacting you is he alredy got caught by Chris Hansen from Dateline NBC a few months ago. The truth is he is actually a 42 year old man that has moved on to dating boys on the internet. If you would like to contact another internet friend try Tanman45@aol.com
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I'm honestly tired of the answers that are against internet relationships.
I don't encourage them, but seriously, this is ridiculous. If you know the person by Phone, email, web-camera, and so on, theres really no reason you shouldn't talk to someone. The important thing is that when you decide you're in love over the net, you might be setting yourself up for major heart-break because you honestly don't know what the person is doing. So you pretty much have to be trusting or you will fall apart and ON TOP OF THAT- If you ever decide to meet someone, make an adult or someone else go with you.
Anyway, the point is that your age doesn't have much to do with this. Being thirteen doesn't mean you can't feel love. The truth is that it's not you. This guy is probably not feeling like any of this is real since it's online. But what you should do is accept that he's moving on and yes it will hurt you a lot to go on, but you have to. For someone better. I promise that this will all get better no matter how much it hurts:(
-TheTeenGirl
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You might receive all your answers and more from there.
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No, you're not.
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Well, since you're 13, neither of you probably really "love" eachother. Maybe he did get scared that you were so serious.
Or, maybe he's really some 50 year old man who used you for some entertainment, got bored, moved onto the next unsuspecting girl, and wants to remove all evidence of your relationship before the police arrest him.
It's strange to be so adament about you forgetting him. It's like he's trying to hurt your feelings just so you'll move on with your life.
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He probably doesnt know why he doesnt live you anymore feelings are something unexplained it just happens.
At least hes not pretending that he still likes you and he has the decency to tell you.
It will probably some time to get over it because it never esay to get over someone but you will and hten youll find someone else.
hope this helps
xxx
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It is not a natural male instinct to run when a girl says she loves him. Some men spend their lives searching for a girl who will utter those words. Don't try make 'love' a gender specific experience. It don't work like that.
Why doesn't he love you? No one knows. HE probably doesn't know. You could ask him again and again, and he could answer you a million different ways, but none of his answers will satisfy you.
If he says he doesn't, he just doesn't. He can make excuses, try to say he is just all wrong for you or such, but the real truth is he just doesn't want to be in the relationship. The reasons don't matter.
Love doesn't respond to reason. He is going to change his mind. Accept it. Move on.
I promise you, this will happen again in your life. You might even find yourself in his position and just not caring about a person anymore. We can't control our feelings, we must simply live with them.
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This isn't what you want to hear. So if you want a sugarcoated answer, look away.
You are thirteen years old, and you are having an internet relationship. This guy can be anybody. He can lie and say anything. It's the internet: no one knows who you are. His real personality could be 100% different than who he is online. Furthermore, since you are so young, he probably felt that he could take advantage of you.
Why doesn't he love you anymore? Because he realized that you can't base a relationship off of who someone is online. You need to know them in person to be sure you can trust and love them.
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1st of all its an online relationship sweetyy; hes probablyy an Old man using a yOung bOys pic & feels bad fOr lieing tO you sO hes sayin that you shOuldnt lOve him. hOnestly i think men r asshOles. he prObably didnt even lOve you he was prObably just bOred & decided to play with sOme1nz emOtiOns yOu neverr know !
hOpe i helpd
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