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Hi, it's me again about, I like my best friends brother, Travis. Um, well my friend Danielle (his sister, my bff) keeps asking him out for me and I dont want her to. It's really embaressing because now he knows that i like him. I want to ask him out myself, but I dont know how to. And should I tell him that everything my friend has been telling him is'nt true? I really need help. (link)
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It is best that Danielle stay out of it. You're right about that! It may embarrass her brother for her to be saying that to him. That could turn him off big time!
I think you need to talk to him. Tell him you like him but that you did NOT give Danielle any messages
to give him, nor did you ask her to say anything at all to him about it. Hopefully he feels the same and you can go from there.
Unless what she said was untrue don't tell him it wasn't. Just that you did not TELL her to say anything to him about it.
Now, a piece of advice you didn't ask for. :)
IF you get together and date your friends brother,
remember always that what goes on between you and Travis is none of Danielle's business. This can be hard since she is your friend. You will naturally want to talk to her about your boyfriend.
However, If she and Travis get into an argument at home, she might start teasing him about something you've told her. That will only lead to trouble between you and Travis. So you may have to keep some things to yourself if you date Travis. Danielle may get mad about it should that happen. Just be prepared. This relationship, should it become one may not be all smooth sailing. I'm sure you can handle it though.
Good luck. :)
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im 21 and my wife is 18 and we are trying to have a baby and when i cum inside her most of my cum come back out is this normal? (link)
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Its perfectly normal. Plenty of sperm will get to where they are supposed to be going. Don't worry. :)
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Like what would happen if i overdosed on pills . like on purpose.. wha would actually happen to me ? Like would i die right away , would i pass out , be weak get sick .. ? what ? k thanks =] (link)
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If you aren't found you could die. Probably after puking your guts up. Your heart will stop. Someone who loves you will be traumatized for life having found you dead in a puddle of vomit. No you probably wouldn't necessarily die right away. There would be loss of all your body functions too. Not real pretty.
Of course you could be found. Sometimes that can be an even worse fate believe it or not. You will probably have suffered irreversible brain damage. Kidney and liver damage, all that stuff. Making whats left of your life...well, not much of one.
Not a real good idea either way. Tomorrow you will find your reasons for wanting to OD to be really insignificant. Would you really want a parent or sibling to find you like that? Do you dislike them enough to want to cause them that kind of pain?
Please seek medical advice as soon as possible. Show your letter to a parent or someone who can help you with the pain that is causing you to think like this. Show them so they know how serious you are. Get some help and get better. You have a long life ahead of you that can be wonderful if you are well.
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If you dont have sex for a long time can your hymen grow back? If so how long would it take?Because I didnt have sex for 1 year and when i did i bled like my hymen broke and i was really sore and swollen for about 2 days and then after that my period came straight on for 1 week. (link)
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Your hymen will not grow back. It is possible that it didn't get torn completely the first time. Some
are just tougher than others.
I don't know why you would have been swollen but you shouldn't have the problem again. If you do then follow up with your doctor. :)
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Me and my boyfriend had sex on Monday august 28th. it was unprotected and he was only in me for a few seconds because we realised the risks of pregnancy (STD's are not a worry).
He didn't cum but we know about pre-cum and thats whats worrying us.
Now im worrying incase im pregnant. I occasionally get a pain in my stomache now.. and im discharging more than usual and my urine is a dark yellow. im drinking plenty of water so thats not the cause for discolouring..
My period had been gone for about 7 days when we had sex i dont know if that could count for anything? like increase or lessen my chances of being pregnant?
what could it be? and what are the chances that im pregnant. (link)
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http://www.coolnurse.com/pregnancy.htm
There are a lot of good articles on this site. This link will open to the symptoms page. Look around while here and you should find all your answers. :)
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how do u get a yeast infection?
thanks (link)
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The causes are many! From taking antibiotics to clothes you wear. Here is a site with all the info.
http://www.msu.edu/~eisthen/yeast/causes.html
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A really nice guy is hitting on me right now. He's very complimentary. The only thing that worries me is that he says he has Asperger's Syndrome. Does anyone know anything about this syndrome? Is it dangerous to be around/date people who have it? I don't have any type of mental problem. I want to go out with him but I'm a little scared of what he might do... (not sexually) He also says that he has a photographic memory and he cannot think in words. Is this going to be a problem in our relationship?
please give me advice. (link)
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I found a good read on the disorder. He may have a form of it that isn't real severe. Here is a site for you. I hope it is helpful.
http://www.answers.com/Asperger's+syndrome?gwp=11&ver=2.0.0.453&method=3
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before i begin i would like to say soory for spelling mistakes i cant really think straight at the moment
my friend hannah is the shyest person you could ever meet.i have known her my whole entire life but yet she still holds back her real feelings and or thoughts.I am her bestfriend she only has one other friend besides me because her shyness makes it hard to meet new people.Her other friend is not reallly there for her emotionally.her mom has cancer right now stage 4 and is in the hospital because she was/is pucking up blood her mom has not known she has had cancer for long so it has come as a huge shock hannah has no one else in her family she doesnt/isnt ready for her mom to die i have this horrible feeling she will soon and hannah has not even really said goodbye.I always tell hannah that i am here for her but the fact is in the past year i have changed and that scares hannah i have recently moved back where she lives so i think that helps but how can i help her should i wait for her to bring it up or what if i do wait i am afraid she wont because she will think i dont want to talk about it (link)
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Always ask her how her mom is doing today. That will give her the opportunity to talk about it if she wants to. It will also show you care and are there if she wants to talk about it. You can also tell her
that.
She may not want to talk about it yet. When she does though she will know you are there for her.
The best you can do for her is to be a good listener. That's what she will need more than anything. :)
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after you have sex do you bleed???
14/f (link)
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Some girls will after the first time. Not all will.
After the first time though you shouldn't. :)
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when do you ovulate? i have a very irregular period, is it before the white stuff comes out of you or after........is after the stuff comes out then you can become pregnant really easy or before ? (link)
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You can get pregnant at any time. Do not even attempt to use any kind of "rhythm method" because you will probably get pregnant. You have to keep very detailed charts to use that method of birth control and your periods have to be regular. Most
who use it become pregnant anyway.
Those TRYING to conceive use it because it is the MOST fertile time. Those who have no problems getting pregnant will get pregnant any time.
Here is a site that will tell you your ovulation days. Notice though that it is geared toward GETTING
pregnant and not preventing.
http://www.marchofdimes.com/pnhec/1808_1904.asp
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I'm only 2weeks pregnant. I'm a young expecting mom, But I have a great way to work this out.
I'm living with my boyfriend (He has a job & goes to college) and getting help from my parents and my boyfriends parents. Its all working out pretty good.
I clean houses as a little job, right now. My boyfriend doesn't want me to have a real job.
I'm already picking out names, and going to baby stores looking clothes, you know. Its early but its fun to hangout with my friends.
But I'm afraid of being a bad mom to this child.
What will this child think when it may find out I didn't want the them at first, That i needed help to raise them from my parents?
I should be able to raise a baby, I took the chances of getting pregnant by having sex.
its my fault. (link)
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So long as you love your child you will be a great mom! Don't even worry about that.
Lots of people don't want a baby when it happens. That is something the child need never know about.
Lots of people have to have help in the early years,
that is not a big deal either. It is necessary to keep the baby's dad in school so that he can provide for you in the future. Its a good thing if you can get help with that. Not a bad thing at all.
All the best for you now and in the future! :)
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Will something happen to your knuckle joints if you pop them? (link)
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No. Nothing at all will happen. People used to say it would give you arthritis but that has been found to be untrue. :)
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What does it mean when someone answers a question and then puts EDIT- and writes something different? (link)
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Everyone else has answered you correctly. I just want to add that an edit like the one Yish mentions
will get an account banned if caught. So if you see or get something like that in an edit (or feedback)
file an abuse report.
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I have pain or burning in the tailbone area. I don't remember injuring it in any way. It just started slowly. When I press on the tailbone it is alittle sore. How can I treat it myself. No pain when walking or laying down. I don't know how I got it. If I sit up straight in a chair it feels fine. Just when I lean back.
Thankyou for any advice.
I am about 75 with heart disease. I am a male and alittle overweight. Six ft. tall and 225 lbs. (link)
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There probably isn't a lot you can do on your own since you don't know what the cause of the pain is.
Talk to your doctor about it and he/she will let you know exactly what you need to do to make it stop hurting you. :)
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Does alcohol decrease the effectiveness of birth control? Also, if you forget to take one of your birth control pills one day, how many days should you wait to have sex before it gains it's full effectiveness and is back on track again? Thanks. (link)
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Alcohol does not decrease the effectiveness of birth control.
If you forget to take one of your pills you might call your doctors office and talk to the nurse. I believe they will tell you to take it as soon as you realize you missed it. If you have been on them for a while, like maybe a year, missing one probably isn't going to have much of an effect. Less than that consult your doctors nurse. They will be very helpful and will answer any question you may have without charging you for it. :)
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okay this might sound kind of funny but im just making sure! ive probably been on birth control for about a year now..not for sex or anything but for my period. is there different kinds of birth control? like..if i wanted to have sex with a guy would taking my birth control still be effective, or is there like birth control just for sex and just for your period? im just wondering like..im scared to have sex obviously because im scared of pregnancy and all that other stuff! so if i ever find a right boy that i love and when i feel the time is right i want to make sure im as protected as i can be =)
im just wondering with all this stuff..
THANKS (link)
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There are different brand names and different types but all birth control pills prevent pregnancy the same. They also regulate your periods. Two great benefits in one!
You are as safe as you can be for pregnancy. Because
there are STDs out there, and some like the AIDs virus can change your life forever, you should still insist that your partner wear a condom.
Here is a good website that covers lots of subjects of interest to teens. It answers a lot of questions you might have and info good to know before you become sexually active. :)
http://www.coolnurse.com/
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okay well this will be an outcome of two total situations in which i need help of.
firstoff: i have a boyfriend of 9 months, and he is completely utterly in deep love with me. [ im 14 hes going on 16.] he always calls me and wants to be with me, and he always tells me how he cant live without me, and would never want us to break up. how we're perfect for eachother, and how we are the ideal couple. how perfect i am [which im seriously not]and even how he wants to marry me soon, and live together forever. well, my dilema is that he like is obsessed, and he gets mad / jealous and stuff when another guy talks to me because he is so insecure about himself. i feel like ihave no space at all, and im trapped with him, and stuck with him forever. idk what to do, please help. also, its not like idont love him, because dont get me wrong ido, but he puts me through so much useless things; i mean like SO MUCH, and idk if i can take much anymore. now, i dont wanna tell him that because then he'll start interrogating me. Please Help Me With This.
Secondly: i know his best friend, and ive always been fond of him. fond meaning hes attractive, we've been cool. well i talk to him online and stuff. and i know he is / he was looking for a girlfriend. and i kinda set him up with my friend. my good friend. and they like give each other " (link)
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OK. About the boyfriend. I know you don't want to say anything to him but you might have to. I know exactly what you are talking about. You love the guy but he is smothering you. It ends a lot of relationships because it can get to be just to much.
You are going to have to talk to him and explain what you are feeling. If you can't or don't want to
talk about it because you fear interrogation...write it all down and have him read it. That way you get your say without being interrupted. You won't forget to mention anything and you can tell him how you feel and still have time to think out what you want to say. Reassure him you want to stay together.
Also make sure he understands that if changes aren't made you may not be able to take it much longer.
As far as his friend goes...he might like you. It sounds as if he might. Problem is will he risk losing his friend by going out with you? If you guys got together it might be something you couldn't pursue right away because of hurt feeling on your friends parts.
If you really like him then I see no reason you can't be good friends. Get to know each other better. If things don't work out with the current boyfriend then maybe in the future you will get together. You have to be careful that you aren't being attracted to him because there are problems in the relationship you are in now. That can always make someone else look more appealing.
So, if you think there is a chance with the current boyfriend, see if he can change. If he
doesn't then you might see what happens.
I hope that didn't just confuse you more! I wish you good luck with whatever you do. If you need more help come on back. The door is always open. :)
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ok im almost 17 and i wanted to know what happens when you go on birth control...i know it probably varies from girl to girl but i mean generally speaking. Ive heard your boobs get bigger and ive also heard you gain a lot of weight..is this true? (link)
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You may possible gain 2-3 lbs. nothing major.
You boobs do not grow. Nothing changes really. Your periods are more regular. That's about it. :)
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How long does it take for birth control to become effective so that a condom is unnecessary? (link)
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Usually you doctor will advise you to taking them for at least 30 days before having unprotected sex.
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Hi, I am a 21 year old Canadian female. If you remember the last question about my friend who couldn't get her bfs penis into her. She went and bought some sex toys and she is using them to try and penetrate herself. The first time she used a vibrator with no batteries and worked her way in, but there was quite a bit of blood. The second time she used her bullet(vibrating ball) on every part of her vagina getting herself nice and relaxed then she used the vibrator along with it and she still found lots of blood that seems to come out while penetrating. How long does it take to penetrate? Is all this blood a bad thing or does it mean that her cherry isn't fully popped. How will she know when it is? She is very worried. Advice please?
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If she is truthfully having that much of a problem she needs to seek medical advice.
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