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Question Posted Wednesday September 6 2006, 9:09 pm

Hi, it's me again about, I like my best friends brother, Travis. Um, well my friend Danielle (his sister, my bff) keeps asking him out for me and I dont want her to. It's really embaressing because now he knows that i like him. I want to ask him out myself, but I dont know how to. And should I tell him that everything my friend has been telling him is'nt true? I really need help.

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karenR answered Wednesday September 6 2006, 10:48 pm:
It is best that Danielle stay out of it. You're right about that! It may embarrass her brother for her to be saying that to him. That could turn him off big time!

I think you need to talk to him. Tell him you like him but that you did NOT give Danielle any messages
to give him, nor did you ask her to say anything at all to him about it. Hopefully he feels the same and you can go from there.

Unless what she said was untrue don't tell him it wasn't. Just that you did not TELL her to say anything to him about it.

Now, a piece of advice you didn't ask for. :)

IF you get together and date your friends brother,
remember always that what goes on between you and Travis is none of Danielle's business. This can be hard since she is your friend. You will naturally want to talk to her about your boyfriend.

However, If she and Travis get into an argument at home, she might start teasing him about something you've told her. That will only lead to trouble between you and Travis. So you may have to keep some things to yourself if you date Travis. Danielle may get mad about it should that happen. Just be prepared. This relationship, should it become one may not be all smooth sailing. I'm sure you can handle it though.

Good luck. :)

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