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my friends dyeing mom
before i begin i would like to say soory for spelling mistakes i cant really think straight at the moment
my friend hannah is the shyest person you could ever meet.i have known her my whole entire life but yet she still holds back her real feelings and or thoughts.I am her bestfriend she only has one other friend besides me because her shyness makes it hard to meet new people.Her other friend is not reallly there for her emotionally.her mom has cancer right now stage 4 and is in the hospital because she was/is pucking up blood her mom has not known she has had cancer for long so it has come as a huge shock hannah has no one else in her family she doesnt/isnt ready for her mom to die i have this horrible feeling she will soon and hannah has not even really said goodbye.I always tell hannah that i am here for her but the fact is in the past year i have changed and that scares hannah i have recently moved back where she lives so i think that helps but how can i help her should i wait for her to bring it up or what if i do wait i am afraid she wont because she will think i dont want to talk about it
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dont bring it up directly to her just let her know that your there for her nomatter what. tell her straight forward if she wants or needs to talk with you about her mom she can. your her best friend so it shouldnt feel weird telling her that.
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ill pray 4 here cry infont of your friend like about if my mom had that then she will cry and it would make her feel better of u can take here out even with her mom and have fun DONT DONT speak of cancer kk
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Always ask her how her mom is doing today. That will give her the opportunity to talk about it if she wants to. It will also show you care and are there if she wants to talk about it. You can also tell her
that.
She may not want to talk about it yet. When she does though she will know you are there for her.
The best you can do for her is to be a good listener. That's what she will need more than anything. :)
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