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Penetration part 2
Hi, I am a 21 year old Canadian female. If you remember the last question about my friend who couldn't get her bfs penis into her. She went and bought some sex toys and she is using them to try and penetrate herself. The first time she used a vibrator with no batteries and worked her way in, but there was quite a bit of blood. The second time she used her bullet(vibrating ball) on every part of her vagina getting herself nice and relaxed then she used the vibrator along with it and she still found lots of blood that seems to come out while penetrating. How long does it take to penetrate? Is all this blood a bad thing or does it mean that her cherry isn't fully popped. How will she know when it is? She is very worried. Advice please?
Thank you.
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I agree she should go and see a doctor...it could be nothing...but that does not sound normal
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If a lot of blood is coming out of her vagina, repeatedly, then she really does need to see a doctor. There are medical conditions which affect a small number of people, making penetration difficult.
She should make an appointment to see her gyno, who can offer her more info and advice.
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Hopefully she is not giving herself an infection, since she may not be aware of the damage that can be caused in her experimentation. Sounds like a search and destroy mission! Yikes! There really is not that much blood involved in losing one's virginity, so she should make an appointment at her doctor's office (preferably a Gynocologist) and figure out what the problem is. One more thing, the vagina is an amazing muscular structure that can change shape and size to accomodate child birth and then return to normal size, so she really should not be having that much trouble with Mr. Big. If everything checks out with her physician, then it may be a lubrication problem. There are condoms that have lubrication and spermicide jelly, which she should be making her boyfriend wear for her protection and his. I don't know the age of your friend, but she may not be ready for sex if she and her boyfriend are not willing to take the responsibilities that go along with intercourse. Be a good friend, and suggest the doctor visit first.
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If she is truthfully having that much of a problem she needs to seek medical advice.
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