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im 14..female and i weigh 124 lbs...i hav curves definatly...well im nto happy with my body..i want to be size 00 and small...all the guys like small gurls..i look like a cow in a bathing suit and am starting to get cellulate on thighs/butt...i feel fat in anything i wear now...my point is is that im thinkin about going annorexic...bc i have a really pretty face and a ugly body if i go annorexic i will be pretty...maybe not full blown annorexic..but like not alot of food...a little bites here and there...but not alot @ all...and not makeing myself throw up..just not eating....how soon do u think i will lose weight...plz dont say "dont do this blah blah" bc i just want to know how much weight do u think i will lose in 2wks? plz answer that ?!! (Indeed)
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You'll die.
I bet all the guys will love you then won't they.
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I am soo frustrated about homecomming. I never been to a dance even though im gonna be a junior this year. Its not until mid october but I been trying on dresses today. EVERY dress I try on I feel so FAT! Its like you can see my rolls right through it! I cant go to homecomming feeling like a watermelon. Im 16 years old and im 5"4' and I weigh 115 pound. I dont know if thats normal but I makes me soo frustrated that I wanna cry. Maybe I can go on a diet for the next month and a half. I have to do something because my friends are making me go. Do you know any good diets Or do you think I should even go? Yeah, Maybe I should just "be sick" that day? Do you think im over reacting, if so what should I do becasue Im going crazy about my apperance Soory for all the complaining :( (Indeed)
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I'm not a fan of dieting, unless its a healthy balanced normal diet. I really don't believe in any of the crazy diets that force you remove things, like fruit, or only eat fruit - weird diets like that.
I can suggest that if you want to feel healthier, get yourself into an exercise schedule that you make for yourself, go jogging, do crunches, play some sports, walk places. Everything active helps and it makes you feel so much better. On top of this, cut out junk food and greasy fatty foods. Get yourself a copy of the reccommended daily intake servings of the different food groups and make fruits, vegetables, dairy products and drink a lot of water. If you actually stick to this, you'll not only feel better about yourself but you'll also see a change in your body too.
As for a dress, don't feel like you can't go and don't make yourself feel horrible for the way you look. There is nothing wrong with you. Find a dress that you love and make sure that when you wear it - you feel amazing. When you find this dress, just be happy that you have a really nice dress and go to this dance and feel really good about yourself and have fun with your friends. If you spend all of your time worrying about what you look like in that dress, you'll miss all of the fun.
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Hey, Fern, whats up, its Victoria ( jokerzgrl) I'm in dire need of advice from a female point of view, and yes, it involves boys. Do you think guys are intimidated by a girl who just outright asks them out? I love saying whats on my mind, but sometimes when it comes to asking them out or telling them that I like them, I freeze up, and run off like a dog with my tail between my legs. I think the problem is that intemidate (Indeed)
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Oh dude, guys are easily intimidated. The thing is - its not a bad thing for you to be like this. Not at all. There are guys who are looking specifically for this type of girl, someone who can hold her own, and someone that they won't constantly have to be taking care of. However, some guys are into having control over who they are with and a girl like you or me, won't really allow that. A guy looking for someone to take care of, someone to have control over or someone that needs them won't really be interested in us. But ya know what - thats okay, because the last thing a strong person like yourself needs is a guy who is not ok with you being an independent and self reliant individual. So, I would say that yes, some guys are intimidated by girls such as yourself, but this is a good sure fire way to weed out guys that won't be any good for you anyways. If a guy finds that he loves your outspoken attitude, he won't be intimidated, but in fact, he'll fall in love with that and THIS is the kind of guy you want. The guy that recognizes that your strength is something positive, and thus can feel like an equal with you because he doesn't need to always be your safety or saviour or help.
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the guy i am interested in told me that the only way he would consider going out with me is if i have sex with him 1st. i like this guy but i am a virgin i just dont know if it is worth it. what shoul i do? :( (Indeed)
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Here is what you should do:
Kick the living crap out of that bag of scum.
The guy isn't worth ANYTHING let alone your virginity. He doesn't care about you and I doubt if he'll go out with you after you've had sex with him. He is going to use you. Do you want to be used? I would hope not. Tell this guy that you are not some cheap whore and there are plenty of guys who are willing to actually respect you AND love you.
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k this is stupid but me n this kid are gunna hook up but hes a foot and 1 inch taller than me and i no thats not weird but i dutn no what to do i jus need sum advice (Indeed)
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Well, I'm sure he won't have a problem leaning. You could also consider wearing heels or a shoe with a platform. Go somewhere together where you'll be sitting down`.
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how can I get my dog trained fast (stuff like doing his business outside and stuff) without paying money for it??
ps. I RATE REALLY WELL!!! (Indeed)
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Ok well, if you spend a lot of the time with the dog outside, eventually, its going to have to 'do his business' as you so elegantly put it. Play outdoors with the dog a lot and if he does make use of the outdoors, then reward him. Put him outside regularly so he knows that he has to be out there before he can expel anything from his body.
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i was talking to this guy i like (he likes me too)about personal stuff, and he said that he was more submissive. and it was really random...do you think he was trying to tell me something, like getting me to make the first move? or was he just saying that. (Indeed)
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Ask him. Ask him what he meant by that when he told you. If hes kind of shy/embarassed by the question, then he probably was trying to drop some subtle hints for you.
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I'm a female who is 15 years old. I'm going to be a sophomore in high school starting September. My question is, I can not seem to ever find a guy that is worth my time. Don't get me wrong, I'm on pom squad, I'm not a geek or anything. I just can't seem to find a steady boyfriend. I usually date older guys but I'm trying to find someone more my age. Any ideas on how to become more approachable to guys? (Indeed)
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Hey, geeks are still hot. Guys are attracted to all different types of girls, so the best possible thing you can do is be yourself and eventually, a guy who is attracted to your natural behaviour and personality will begin to like you. Guys will find you approachable if you are able to act normally around them and then they can see you as a friend, and perhaps, possibly more.
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how do u update ur colum? plz help! thanx!
:)
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http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?mode=columns
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OK here it goes!...Me n my boyfriend have just started havin sex...n well once he has had it once he has to have it all the time...well sometime i really dont want to...but he will force me into it or beg me to have it until i give in...n i love my boyfriend so much we have been dating now for 4 months...i keep saying no over and over but he keep it going when i finally give in he says baby im sorry for doin that to you...but he still does it anyways he promised me that would be the last time but that wasnt the first time he did it either! What should i do and say to him w/ having to break up with him? Please help me! (Indeed)
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He may be apologizing, but inside he doesn't really mean what hes saying. He's hurting you and he can't be allowed to do that. Are you familiar with the cycle of abuse? There are three stages - 1st: Pressure building (in your case this would be where he is forcing you or pressuring you to have sex with him) the 2nd: Breaking point (in your case this is where you give in or he forces you to have sex with him) 3rd: The 'Honeymoon' stage (in your case this is where he apologizes like crazy and says that magical sentence 'it'll never happen again')
He is abusing you, mentally and physically. You may love him, but the main thing in a relationship is trust and you can't trust someone that constantly hurts you mentally and you can't trust someone that has absolutely no respect for you as a person or your body. This is not a healthy relationship and believe it or not there are guys out there who know when no means no. Get out of this relationship while you are still able to.
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hello. i'm going into 7th grade and i weigh 153. i'm 5'3". i want to run cross country, but i don't want to get a physical cause you get weighed. for one reason, my mom is skinny and is always preaching to loose weight and i did, 5lbs. reason two, i don't want the coachs, and definatley other runners to see it. what should i do? I only have till next thursday. please help. i rate HIGH!
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If you want to run cross country then run cross country. Your mom won't have to know what you weighed in at and you don't have to weighed when the other runners are there. Your mom will probably be happy that you are doing something healthy that will exercise your body.
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What are some good snacks? I'm trying to stay away from packaged snacks or sugary snacks. (Indeed)
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Slice some cheese into squares, get some vegetable crackers and some dill pickles. Cut the pickles into a desired width and eat everything. Its good.
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i havnt had my period for a month now...i have been having sex w/ my bf too...m i pregnant????? (Indeed)
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Its possible. Would you be able to get a home pregnancy test? Because that would be the best thing, or to see your doctor. If you've only had it for a few years theres a chance it could be really unpredicatable but the best thing to do and not take any chances would be to get a test done from either a drugstore or one with your doctor. That is the only way to know for certain.
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Ok.. Basically, I REALLY like my best friend. (Yes its a guy.) But..I'm like a totally shy person..I get nervous before i even call him. So how could I tell him I like him with out getting nervous? I want to tell him really bad. I just dont know how too.
=) thanks! (Indeed)
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Well, the sucky thing about this is - no matter what, you're going to be incredibly nervous. Remember something though, this guy is your BEST FRIEND. That means you guys are probably comfortable with each other and you trust him a lot. When you get to the point where you're going to tell him, look at him as just a guy that YOU'RE doing a favour to by letting him know someone as good as you likes him. If that doesn't give you enough confidence to do it, pretend you're an actress in a movie and this is just the scene where you tell this guy you care about him. If you really play it out in your head, you'll feel like no matter what the outcome or his reaction - it won't matter because its just pretend right? Give it a try, and remember that he IS just a guy :)
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Hey yall! Peroxide doesn't help make your black arm hair turn blonde I tried it over and over again and it doesn't work...what else do yall think will work, anything around the house? if not what can I go buy, where can I get it, how much does it cost, and in what cities do they have it in??? Plz and thx I appreciate yalls help! And I will rate yall! l8er! (Indeed)
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I found some answers to this question by using a google search. Heres a site I found with some answers.
http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Answered/Question51594-3.asp?Page=1
I would suggest you be careful when waxing, it hurts a lot on eyebrows and I would imagine your arm would hurt a lot also.
As for picking up a bleaching kit that will really work, try a local drugstore.
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I am a 13 year old white girl (almost 14). I am intrested in this black kid. some of my friends are ok with it but one of my best friends think i shouldnt like him because he is black. he is one of the nicest and sweetest people i know. i just dont understand why she cant see him for an amazing person and not just him being black. What can i do to get through to her? (Indeed)
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Some people are jerks like that. Go on liking him, if he is a good person then there is absolutely nothing wrong with having feelings for someone who is a wonderful individual. What matters most is how YOU feel. Perhaps if your friend got to know the guy then maybe she'd begin to understand that he is nice and then she'd think twice about judging people based on outward appearances.
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ok well my friend **** is always hangin out with me but when my sister is with us (( shes 21)) it seems like she just hangs out with her not me like she likes her beter when shes with me( idk what 2 do b.c i dont want to lose this friend))
*'help'*
XoX 'Bee' XoX (Indeed)
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This happens a lot. It still happens to me because everyone likes my sister sooooooooooo much and it just makes me want to wretch. Anyway, your friend just wants to feel cool by usurping some cool off your older sister. You won't lose her as a friend but if it really bothers you then you might consider talking to her about it. A good friend won't go out of their way to do something that you've told them hurts you.
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Me and this girl are good friends when she first cam to my school she told us but she was pregnant and i was like ok but then all the other kids stoped beliving her because lets face it she didnt look or act pregnant and I stuck up for her and all but it did seem kinda suspicious when she had the baby while we were all taking our regents then she was back to take the next regents the next day ? how quickly can a 15 year old bounce back from something like that? . its not that i dont want to belive her because shes a sweet girl and aLL i think she just wants attention but thats a little extreme. now i feel bad because no one bleived her and shes kinda isolated im still nice to her but no one will listen to me and just forgive her. what should i do?? (Indeed)
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Some people have a lot of issues that they can't manage to sort out properly and they may never be able to sort their issues out. People want other people to care about them and to worry or have concern for their wellbeing. Its just how people are. However, that doesn't make it okay to blatantly lie. This girl said something that got her in over her head and now shes probably hoping everyone will just forget casually like nothing happened. When I was in 6th grade, there was this guy in my class who came to school with crutches one day and claimed he had broken his leg skateboarding. Eventually, he got tired of wearing crutches and one day came without them, he just didnt mention anything to anyone about it and hoped secretly that everyone had someone magically forgotten by the next day. When he realized no one had forgotten, he told everyone his leg had healed and no one believed him and he finally came out with the truth that nothing had been wrong the whole time. He still doesn't know why he did it and I doubt if he ever will. No one really cares anymore and everyone laughs about it. People do strange things for a little attention. If you care about this girl and you are willing to let go of the past - then keep being her friend. If she brings it up again, I'd say ignore it because if shes still looking for attention - deny her the attention. She seems like she could use a good friend on her side that she can trust and she will probably tell you the truth later on and feel pretty silly about it. Don't rub it in her face, tell her people do crazy things and that although its not really okay, it is forgiveable and you're always going to be her friend.
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Can anyone tell me how to do that new hair style where your hair kinda **foofs** at the top? (( ex. jessica simpson, pink kinda ahh ashlee simpson once in a while)) lemme know!! i rate high!! (Indeed)
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Before putting your hair up, grab a comb and start combing your hair from an inch above your scalp to your scalp. Its called teasing. After you've teased it, your hair should have a little extra 'umph' to it. You can then pull it up into a loose but poofy-ish pony tail, or leave it down with some extra body. You might want to smooth it down a bit after, because it may look a little frizzy right after you've teased it. Also, careful not to tease your hair a lot because it will eventually have a bad effect on it. Tease sparingly.
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like last year i went out with this guy. but after we made out he wanted to go father. i brook up with him shortly after that. Now i love him again and HE NOW HAS A G?F what can i do!! (Indeed)
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You can work on getting over him. Focus your efforts on something productive, like school, in your life and eventually, he will probably be gone from your mind. If he is still on your mind some time from now - talk to him. Tell him you're confused or at least you WERE confused and that you have feelings for him. Don't tell him you love him because you'll scare the hell out of him. If he doesn't feel the same way - continue getting over him and move on with your life.
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