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I'm just kinda shy...
Hey, Fern, whats up, its Victoria ( jokerzgrl) I'm in dire need of advice from a female point of view, and yes, it involves boys. Do you think guys are intimidated by a girl who just outright asks them out? I love saying whats on my mind, but sometimes when it comes to asking them out or telling them that I like them, I freeze up, and run off like a dog with my tail between my legs. I think the problem is that intemidate <----however you spell it, alot of guys, I'm what you would call a semi-militant feminist,and I can do things myself, and I have a good idea of who I am and what I want. So how do I solve my problem? Come on, I need some help! *lol*
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Oh dude, guys are easily intimidated. The thing is - its not a bad thing for you to be like this. Not at all. There are guys who are looking specifically for this type of girl, someone who can hold her own, and someone that they won't constantly have to be taking care of. However, some guys are into having control over who they are with and a girl like you or me, won't really allow that. A guy looking for someone to take care of, someone to have control over or someone that needs them won't really be interested in us. But ya know what - thats okay, because the last thing a strong person like yourself needs is a guy who is not ok with you being an independent and self reliant individual. So, I would say that yes, some guys are intimidated by girls such as yourself, but this is a good sure fire way to weed out guys that won't be any good for you anyways. If a guy finds that he loves your outspoken attitude, he won't be intimidated, but in fact, he'll fall in love with that and THIS is the kind of guy you want. The guy that recognizes that your strength is something positive, and thus can feel like an equal with you because he doesn't need to always be your safety or saviour or help.
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