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Alright, to make this simple, I'm in love with two guys as weird as it sounds. One of them is my first love ever, and the other is my second. My first love started back in seventh grade, and I'm in 10th now. The second just started this year. My first love wants to be together again so badly, and says he loves me back, but sometimes I don't believe it. We've been on and off since seventh grade also. No one wants me with my second love, including my family, but he loves me so much and I can tell. I think that maybe my first love thinks we're together right now, but a couple of days ago I had sex with the second love =/ I'm not sure what to do right now, and advice would be great. Thank you! (link)
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First loves can be VERY hard to get over. So you need to think about that when you are making your decision. Its one you will have to make for yourself
because we don't know these guys like you do.
With the first love you need to make sure you aren't just keeping him around because he is safe and a sure thing. Not that its bad to feel that way. You know him well and have a history with him. If its always been off and on that could be because you really have something with him worth keeping. It might be only friendship.
The second guy...some things you might need to consider are these. Are you attracted to him because everyone says you shouldn't be? Could be a rebellious thing to like him.
You say you can tell he loves you. I hope that isn't because you've had sex with him. That isn't a good indicator of how much someone loves you. Matter of fact not expecting sex would be a better indicator of his love for you.
Like I said, you have to decide who's best for you. Just giving you some thoughts to ponder on. Good luck with your decision. :)
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k well i had a boyfriend for a month.. and he broke up with me with intentions of getting back together with me... But as we all know things change and now 20 days later. he said his feelings have changed and his feelings arent as strong as they were and we probably wont be together again... and i still have feelings for him. but this other guy asked me out yesterday and i said yes... i guess what i am asking is.. did i move to fast? and is it wrong? and me and my ex are still going to snoball together.
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I don't think you moved to fast. No sense waiting around for your ex if hes already said he doesn't want to get back together again. You would just be miserable.
Going out with the other guy, even if it doesn't work out, is better than sitting home hoping for the ex to call.
Moving on is good. It will help you get over it faster. :)
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I've had my period since I was 11 (16 now) and they haven't been getting regular. Sometimes I didn't get my period for 2 months at a time but I wasn't worried at all because I hadn't had sex. Since I was 14 I've been on the pill. Almost 2 months ago I had sex with my boyfriend. We used a condom but I havn't had my period in almost 3 months. I ually gain weight around my period but I'm concerned because of the missing of my period for a longer lenth of time. Now I'm getting worried because the pill is supposed to first of all prevent your chances of getting pregnant and second, keep you regular. Is it possible that I'm pregnant while on the pill and after using a condom? Thanks for your help. (link)
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If you are on the pill and he used a condom, I really don't think you're pregnant. If you have been irregular all along, even while on the pill, I don't think I would worry about it. It would be a very rare occurrence if you were. :)
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Ok, about my dad coming for thanksgiving, i left this part out on my other advice thing. My cousins are coming and i want to play with them but if my dad is here and i know he will feel awkward, then i have to talk to him and i cant just go off and leave him and my step mom because the only reason they are coming is because me and my brother so i cant just leave them. What if i want to go play with my cousins and then my dad feels awkward? please help. (link)
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You do want to spend some time with your dad. However, there are other adults that he will have fun talking to. I am sure you won't have to spend the entire time trying to entertain him. Soon as he has struck up a conversation with someone...go play.:)
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Ok, my parents are divorced and both remarried. Well my brother asked my step mom and dad to come to our thanksgiving party where all my mom and step dads family will be. I will awkward because my dads around his ex wife and around all of his ex family. They just called and said that they would be here. Now i know i will feel awkward. Also, sometimes when i go see my dad we make little jokes about my mom and all that. Sometimes they are bad and i regret that but can someone please tell me what to do before thanksgiving when they are coming. I am afraid that they will say some of those jokes or do something. Nobody thinks i have anything to worry about so please help!
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You probably don't have much to worry about.
My hubby and I invite both sides of our family to dinner. My parents are divorced and usually one pair will just not come. But they have on occasion both shown up and neither made it a problem. I doubt yours will either.
It can make you a bit nervous and probably will until its underway. But I think it will go just fine.
Have a Nice Thanksgiving. :)
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Pk now I'm not virgin and all but I thought you get pleasure out of having sex? Well I'm not actually I'm getting paon and lots of it!!! Whats the problem?
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Unfortunately just having sex is not a guarantee of having any pleasure out of it. Usually takes time with one partner before it gets enjoyable. You need to get to know each others likes and dislikes. :)
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I'm a 19 year old female. My fiancee and I have been sexually active for quite a while now and we've always had issues with his size. I'm a fairly petite woman and he's very well endowed. We use lubricant and we have foreplay for quite a while, yet sometimes I still bleed. We've tried putting me on top and it's less painful, but it's less pleasurable for me. Does anyone have any other ideas that I might have overlooked? (link)
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Regardless of you physical size having sex shouldn't be this painful for you. I suggest you see a doctor.
You shouldn't be bleeding and it seems you are doing everything you can to make it easier. :)
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What does it mean when a guy and girl have sex or she performs oral on him and he finishes fast because he says that he is "very excited" && we was gunna do it a second time but he couldnt get hard.
Does that mean anything?
Is there anyway that i can get it hard again?I really didnt do anything, i just sat there soo maybe i shoulda tried. But anyways, what does it mean?
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It is normal and nothing you did. Guys just can't do
it without a break. Next time wait half an hour and he will probably be good to go. :)
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Okay, so this isn't about this whole "She hates me, I hate her, how do I get revenge on her?" type of question. So, I have a lot of friends who are either gay or bi.
Well, this one guy who is a really good friend of mine declared he was gay this year. Well, some background info on him:
His parents are divorced and he HATES his stepdad who bribes him to like him by buying stuff for my friend (who we will call Joe). He has never gone out with a girl or a boy...for that matter. He has never had a relationship persay. It's more of a get together, make out..blah blah. He just turned 14 this September too.
Well, I'm kinda getting worried about him. In 6th grade, he's had gay sex with a guy and he's already given multiple blowjobs and everytime he sees a hot guy, he wants to get in their pants and that's about it. He goes to another school for one class and once, he had a serious make out session with one of the guys there and had bite marks on his neck!! He's really horny a lot of the time and all he wants to do is do it 24/7 with any random guy that passes by. He will spank them and grab their package and what not. He never looks for a boyfriend kinda guy but more of a f**k buddy.
So I guess what I'm thinking is that he's sorta kinda this way b/c of his home troubles? I don't know, that's my educated guess. But I don't want to confront him and talk to him or anything of that sort. I'm kinda worried that he'll get himself in deep trouble later in the future... so I'm asking what I should do about this matter... (link)
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You know, almost all teen guys act like he does, they just do it with girls. They flirt and act the fool, you just don't notice it as much because they are a little more subtle about it.
He does seem to be a bit promiscuous. I hope you will tell him to use condoms. All teen boys are horny most of the time, your friend just doesn't hide it from you like other guys do.
He really shouldn't be with everyone who comes along, I don't know that you can do much about it. It can't hurt to talk to him about it though. Guess guys can be a little slutty too! :)
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How do u make a cake??? (link)
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Its really not to hard. Find a recipe you like. Make sure you have all the ingredients. Then follow the instructions step by step. :)
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Hey im greg a 10th grader in average america and have a very extremly annoying love triangle problem.
So obviously there is this girl and w/e you no i like her she likes me you no so im hearing all this stuff that she likes me i like her so friday night comes and not totally but pretty much igonres me and was hanging out with this other kid scott. So i get home and talk to her online and are like wtf and she was like listen i really like you but scott likes me and me and him are really really good friends and i dont want him to not be friends with me if i go out with you and stuff. and i dont want to make her choose between us or anything like that but idk wat to do she thinks i want her to choose and are making it hard for her. k hopfully you can help me thnx. (link)
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If they are "just friends" there is absolutely no reason for her not to date you. What if he wants a girlfriend? Think he is going to care what she thinks about it? Don't think so.
I think you need to be asking her some questions like, "are you and your friend dating?" "Are you waiting for him to ask you out?"
I think there is more going on there than you're being told about. Even if its only in her imagination. :)
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last christmas me and one of my close friends decided to swap gifts. i bought her this really nice sally hansen nail polish set for $10 from CVS and i loved it so i got it for her. we traded gifts the next morning and i opened up a really cheap bracelet from claires with no tag, and an opened nail polish bottle with polish on the cap.
i'm not being selfish, but who would do that?
when i confronted her about the nail polish, she actually told me that she got it from her aunt, used it, and didn't like the color. how pathetic is that??
so after i confronted her and told her it was open, and that doing that is really rude, she turned all red and started saying "it's the thought that counts!" in my head i was saying, yeah but it doesnt mean squat if you don't put any thought into it! and then i told her how the nail polish i got her was expensive and she said it wasnt! how dare she
she asked to swap gifts again this winter, what should i do? (link)
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Personally I think it is the thought that counts. It is possible she had no money but wanted to get you something anyway. In this case I think you were a the rude one. You embarrassed your friend. Then couldn't resist telling her what you spent on her.
I don't think exchanging gifts is a good idea since you haven't gotten over last years yet. :)
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That being said then I don't think I would exchange gifts with her. I doubt she has changed and a lot of it may be her mother not allowing her to buy anything. You will just be frustrated again. :)
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hello i would really love a dog because i love animals and have always wanted a dog. My dad loves dogs but the problem is that we have 2 cats, is thier anyway we can teach them or get a special type of dog? (link)
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I have always had dogs and cats. They really do usually get along together just fine. It may take the cats a couple of days to get used to the dog, but I don't think you will have any problem having a dog with your two cats. :)
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when i was in the shower, i noticed there was a little brown dot on my breast. im so scared right now!!!! could this be breast cancer?? THANKS SO MUCHH (link)
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What you have seen is probably a mole. Not anything to worry about unless it gets odd shaped or sore. And, if it did it would be considered a skin cancer and not breast cancer. It is common and usually never get much bigger than it is now. It probably won't get much sun exposure so will be fine.
Breast cancer would be a lump found under the skin.
So, don't panic. I don't think it is anything at all to worry about.
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What does it mean to get your hair thinned?
How do they do it?
And is it good for your hair?
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I need to get mine thinned. My hair is very thick, I have LOTS of hair. I also have a perm and if I don't tie it down with something I get this big old poofy looking giant hair thing going on!
I have had mine thinned with razors. Basically they just take off some of your hair. They don't shorten it they just make it thinner. As a rule they use scissors that are best described as having teeth cut into them. They just cut your hair and and it thins some of it out that way.
I know I am not describing it very well at all. They basically cut some hair off so it is not as thick. If you have very thick and hard to comb hair (usually because thick hair tangles something awful) I highly recommend it! :)
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my husband and i are wanting to get pregnat but I am On birth control, i have a IUS Intrauterine System. and i need to know if the prcedure to get it removed is the same as getting it inserted? and also if i were to get pregnat while i still have this would it harm the baby and if so how long would it take for it to affect it baby? (link)
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I do know that they will usually cause a miscarriage
should you get pregnant while you have one in. I also think that it is a very rare occurrence because they are a good form of birth control.
The procedure for removal is very much like having it put in. All done in the doctors office. Doesn't take long at all.
Again, chances of getting pregnant while you still have it in place are very rare.
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My friends are always mean to me and i try to be really nice but they always say GET LOST I DONT LIKE YOU yelling it
what should i do? (link)
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Sounds like it might be time to find some new friends. If they can't treat you any better than that, they aren't very good friends. Don't put up with that.
It may take some time, but I think you should try to meet one new person on Monday at school and make a new friend. :)
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I'm pregnant and due in just one month, and we still haven't agreed on a middle name for the baby. My husband and half our friends and family like Emma Lynn. I and the other half like Emma Linnora.
Linnora is a family name with a long story that has to do with a fort being attacked by native Americans and my ancestors, Linnora and her brother, being the only ones to survive.
Also, our last name is French , like Leblanc or Lecarte.
Please suggest some names OR some ideas for a way to reach a compromise and break this 6 month long deadlock. (link)
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Why not spell her middle name Linn. It will be the name you like and yet still obviously be named after your family name. Emma Linn. :)
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over the summer....i met a boy. we liked each other and made out the swimming pool, bedroom, basicly all the time. We weren't bf/gf though (i was single)
I go back to his house about to get jumped by a girl who was his girl-friend. Is it my fault for not asking him if he had a gf of his fault for not telling me. i have been so depressed since then....i can't get over him, he seemed so perfect. (link)
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I think when a guy is putting the moves on you, most girls will just assume he isn't attatched. I think its the two timing guys fault myself. Don't blame yourself. :)
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im 12 terning 13 tomorow i am a vergian i foud a boy that is to i feel ready but i feel embarssed a bout showing my privet ares i really like him i even got condoms can you help me??? (link)
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Honestly, at your age being embarrassed to show yourself to a boy is perfectly natural. 13 is much to young to be having sex. I know you have some raging hormones telling you that you may be ready, but you're not.
At 13 you are not ready to be a mother. Accidents happen even with good birth control. The consequences are life altering. So please, think about it some more before having sex. You can like someone and not have sex with them for a while. :)
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