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Too Tight?
I'm a 19 year old female. My fiancee and I have been sexually active for quite a while now and we've always had issues with his size. I'm a fairly petite woman and he's very well endowed. We use lubricant and we have foreplay for quite a while, yet sometimes I still bleed. We've tried putting me on top and it's less painful, but it's less pleasurable for me. Does anyone have any other ideas that I might have overlooked?
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You have taken all the neccessary preparations needed, so there isn't much else you could do to make things less painful.
If you've been sexually active for a while, the pain should have subsided, and if you are still feeling discomfort and are bleeding, something may be wrong. Penis vs Petite is a huge issue when coming to enjoying sex, but it shouldn't be that much of a burden for you. Try seeing a doctor, that's probably your best bet.
Sorry I couldn't have helped more.
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First of all, bleeding from your vagina is called a period, its natural! And secondly, if hes interested in turning jewish he could get circumsized :) makes his penis look rather hideous and smell like a rotting turnip, but hey!
Good Luck,
May god be with you
xoxoxoxooxoxo
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I agree with the other advisors, bleeding is a sing of something more serious than him being 'too big'. Rememeber, if a baby can pass out of there, then your vagina can more than accomodate the well grown penis honey.
What this seems to me is that his penis is striking your cervix. You say you are using lubricant and engaging in foreplay, so I do not believe it is because you are too 'tight'. The bleeding, even if it is just a spot or too, needs to be addressed by a gynocologist. Until then, have him go slow and not so deep, and make sure you relax plenty during intercourse.
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sex isn't supposed to make you bleed everytime.
maybe a doctor, would be your best choice.
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I would definately consult a Dr. That is not normal for you to be in pain or even bleed as a result of sex. I am a petite person as well and what i ask of my husband is to not try and go so deep.
Hope this helps!
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Regardless of you physical size having sex shouldn't be this painful for you. I suggest you see a doctor.
You shouldn't be bleeding and it seems you are doing everything you can to make it easier. :)
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