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Stuck Between Guys.
Alright, to make this simple, I'm in love with two guys as weird as it sounds. One of them is my first love ever, and the other is my second. My first love started back in seventh grade, and I'm in 10th now. The second just started this year. My first love wants to be together again so badly, and says he loves me back, but sometimes I don't believe it. We've been on and off since seventh grade also. No one wants me with my second love, including my family, but he loves me so much and I can tell. I think that maybe my first love thinks we're together right now, but a couple of days ago I had sex with the second love =/ I'm not sure what to do right now, and advice would be great. Thank you!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Maybe to choose the guy you want to go out with and stuff, make a list of pros and cons of each one. and then write down how you feel about both of them, the more pros and more feelings should be the guy you like. If it turns into a tie, or you just can't choose, step back and think hard if eithe rone of the guys is right for you!
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cut the first one lose.
if you can't do it, lose the second...
and if you can't do that either, cut yourself lose, ur just going to hurt them both.
take some time off and sort it out.
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First loves can be VERY hard to get over. So you need to think about that when you are making your decision. Its one you will have to make for yourself
because we don't know these guys like you do.
With the first love you need to make sure you aren't just keeping him around because he is safe and a sure thing. Not that its bad to feel that way. You know him well and have a history with him. If its always been off and on that could be because you really have something with him worth keeping. It might be only friendship.
The second guy...some things you might need to consider are these. Are you attracted to him because everyone says you shouldn't be? Could be a rebellious thing to like him.
You say you can tell he loves you. I hope that isn't because you've had sex with him. That isn't a good indicator of how much someone loves you. Matter of fact not expecting sex would be a better indicator of his love for you.
Like I said, you have to decide who's best for you. Just giving you some thoughts to ponder on. Good luck with your decision. :)
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