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Cant get hard again
What does it mean when a guy and girl have sex or she performs oral on him and he finishes fast because he says that he is "very excited" && we was gunna do it a second time but he couldnt get hard.
Does that mean anything?
Is there anyway that i can get it hard again?I really didnt do anything, i just sat there soo maybe i shoulda tried. But anyways, what does it mean?
Thankss
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some guys.. or people i guess, can only orgasm once within a few hours. it's called having a low sex drive, and it deson't mean anything is wrong with you. he just needs a while before he can start up again.
you probably could get it hard again if you tried. but i wouldn't, because if he's not ready to go again, he won't be into it.
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usually when a guy gets off once, its harder for him to get off again.
you normally have to give his penis time to relax. probably about 20-30 minutes at least.
then he should be able to become hard again.
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when im with my girlgriend and she wants to go again, she usually just plays around with me and sometimes tries with her mouth. After about 5 minutes just play around and you should be able to get him erect through oral in about another 5 minutes. But when he does get hard right after orgasm you need to be quick to get him inside of you otherwise he'll go soft.
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Some guys don't last very long the first time y'all mess around. Usually he starts to last longer, but sometimes he doesn't. All you can really do to get him hard again is just give him a break. My boyfriend usually needs 30 minutes before we can go again. I usually tease my boyfriend in the meantime. Kissing, nibbling...stuff like that.
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when i was younger doing it several times a night/day was no problem as long as there was a break. as i got older the second and third time become a little more difficult. the best bet is to make the first time last a little longer and that will happen easier if it happens more often than once a month or once a week... anywhere from once a day to 2 or 3 times a week is generally the norm for most men.
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yea sometimes after its released you just cant get it back upp. dont worry about it too much. i know ppl who it has happened to before.
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It is normal and nothing you did. Guys just can't do
it without a break. Next time wait half an hour and he will probably be good to go. :)
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