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R.I.P Pope John Paul II Karol Wojtyla


Now that he has passed away, how does everyone feel? What do you think is gonna happen? Is the world really gonna come to an end? - xglam0urx

no, the world is not comming to an end. the pope is a respected leader. there have been many popes that have died. there are several ordained cardinals that will handle the election of the next pope.

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Many religions believe that the world is going to end soon, and we are living our last days because of all the crime, hate, and everyone being open about their sexuality, what are your opinions on this?

people have been saying that for ages! every now and then people spread the word and get everyone freaked out. some of those religions are either a) freaking everyone out to make them buy into that religion or b) chasing money. thats my opinion. plz handle it with maturity.

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Hey,

I have naturally tight curly hair its like in ringlets, also it is frizzy. I hate it soo much. PLUS it is REAllY thick its like when my hair is down it comes out like 5 inches off my head well I dont exactly measure.. anyway. Yes, people always take the mikky out of my hair and its just so big, curly and frizzy... I try straightening it but it takes 4 hours and its not completly straight and its still big and frizzy even when i use "Hot straight". I use strong mouse, 'Deffine & No frizz", "Just for me lotion", and all kinds of things on my hair but its till frizzy,big and curly! How can i make my hair look sleek, shiney, straight, thing and no frizz!! People say getting it layered helps but i tried that and my hair looks even worse and its thicker! Please, please, please, PLEASE help!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Charleigh xx

whatever you do, DO NOT get it layered! you could get it chemically straigtened or just thinned. if you use too many things, your hair will just get frizier and end up all dry and damaged. my hair is also crazy. after i take a shower i put it in a pony tail and it stays neat all day. i know its supposably "bad" to do it, but i dont see any negative change from doing it.

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i think i might have genital herpes... i have never had sex so how could i get it!? its like a ton of little bumps on my penis and i want to know how to get rid of it. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE tell me! i need to know, im so embarassed! ill rate 5's! and i also want to know if girls will still like me if they know i have it.. im guessing no. this sucks so bad so please help me out. and if it isnt herpes then please tell me what it is.. im too embarassed to tell my parents or a doctor. if you have ANY information at all, please tell me

whatever it may be, you should go see a doctor. you dont have to tell your parents, you can fake sick or something then ask your parent to leave the room so you can be helped in private. luck!

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Since last night I have had a pain in my chest. It hurts just as and after I swallow, and whenever I take deep breaths. Sometimes I just feel the pain when I change posture or even move. It feels as though there is something there. The pain comes from right in the centre of my chest.
Does anybody have any idea what this could be?
If it helps I'm 14 and female!
All help appreciated!

i would see a doctor. i think it might be bronchitis.

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14/f
I hate my legs. They are freckled and ugly. And to make things worse, they are hairy. I hate shaving; it takes too long, I cut myself, I get bored, and hair grows so fast you have to do it every 2 days or more! At my school, and lots of places, it is "gross" for girls to have hairy legs. It's so unfair! How can I rid my legs of hair without shaving? (Not Nair because I'm allergic.) Please help.

umm you could get them waxed, use an electric razor, or bleach. you could try a "safe" razor. luck,

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Does anyone know of any fairly cheap but really great smelling perfumes I could buy????? Also tell me where to buy it please!!! Thanks

Shine-$10 @ charlotte russe
^i LOVE it!

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i just tried out for solos and i didnt make it. all of my friends think im really good and all but someother people made who really werent that good. my teacher wasnts me to try out next year with a different song. im a saprano and i need some good songs that i could sing. thx

that was my question and i sang heaven by Brian Adams. give me some advice!!!

heaven by bryan adams... hmm that seems like a hard song to sing. next time you try out, sing somthing you know likw the back of your hand that you can easily belt out. i had a competion a few weeks ago and the thing that helped me the mast was knowing the song so well. practice in the shower (im serious!) it really helps alot. as for songs, kelly clarckson is a good artist to look at for songs because on her first cd she was just starting out and if u sing it, you can make it your song and not just trying to be that good. beware: whitney houston and celine dion songs...they will b\make you sound bad >.

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i just tried out for solos and i didnt make it. all of my friends think im really good and all but someother people made who really werent that good. my teacher wasnts me to try out next year with a different song. im a saprano and i need some good songs that i could sing. thx

hey, if u tell me what you already sang i can help you.

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Why do guys get angry when you have only been dating two months and they tell you they love, but if you don't feel comfortable saying it back they all the sudden don't love you? Especially the only reason you don't want to say it is because that is when people start getting hurt!

guys are sensative with that stuff and they want to be loved back (like everyone else). if you dont say it back, they'll take it back cuz you hurt them.

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I have glasses and I think that is the reason why no boyz like me. My friend, Zoe, is beautiful, gets all the boyz, all the girlz wanna be her friend, and she gets like an I-POD and an electric gutair and stuff. But, anyway, I think I am nice, cool, quiet, all my friends even say so, so I just dont understand why no boyz like me. I think its just becuz I wear glasses and that hurts. What can I do to get a boy to like me?

I am 13 years old.

maybe you should try being more outgoing or somethin. its prolly not the glasses... my friend has glasses and she's had 2 really great boyfriends. be yourself,

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Is it true that chewing bubble-gum will help your ears to pop?

yeah thats why people chew gum on planes.

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Can you answer a question more than once?

once you answer it once you have to go back and "edit" your answer in order to answer it twice.

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What foods should you eat before exercising (sports that include running)? Also, what can you do to minimize cramps?!

Thanks in advance!

honestly, i try not to eat at all before i run/excersize. to minimize cramps, do crunches before you do it. for some reason it helps. also, dont drink to much water.

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Hi. I always think it's important for me to look prettier and do better than all women I know. Whether they are in my family or not. It's not so much friends, but especially people I hate. Is this normal? What should I do to ween myself off of acting this way?

Thanks

all women do that! its normal. hope this make u feel better.

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Anyone who has tried over the counter teeth whiteners, can you tell me the best one you have tried (i.e. crest white strips, rembrant, etc.)

thanks!

crest white strips are really good. they take about half an hour for 7 days.

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ok.. well mayy 22nd is this crossfade concert that REALLY want to go to. im 13 (f) lol and my mom wont let me go because of the place that its in. its called toads place its in new haven connecticut (kinda ghetto but not really} and i need to convince her to let me go, because she doesnt understand how much that i really want to, their my fav band and blah blah blah.. so what im asking is how can i convince her to let me go? thanks for the help! ashley

get a chaperone or something. if that doesnt work, you can always sneak over..(last resort)

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I am not overweight, but I have a problem in that my thighs and ass are quite flabby and I would like to tone up. I feel very self-concious in swim suits so I would like some exercises to tone up or help lose weight ready for the summer.
Suggestions not involving cosmetic surgery would help!
14/f

just run every chance you get. i run for the hell of it and i guess it does work. oh, lunges work both things too.

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hi, i asked a question like 3 days ago and the answers i was getting were...you've got a yeast infection.
my questions is...what exactly is a yeast infection?!

you should go see a doctor to explain this to you and tell you how to handle it.

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thongs are like really in and i was wondering if anyone who has used one can give my pros and cons of wearing them since at this rate i'll never where one myself

well its a matter of personal preferance. your mom might not like them due to her experience. im sure that if you keep asking you will get it because its not that big of a deal except for when they hang over your pants and you get called a slut. theyre not exactly "in" cuz if anyone sees it its a bad thing (even tho a lot of ppl wear them). i agree with the person that suggested boy shorts to keep the peace.

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