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how do i convince? (idk what category this would belong in)
ok.. well mayy 22nd is this crossfade concert that REALLY want to go to. im 13 (f) lol and my mom wont let me go because of the place that its in. its called toads place its in new haven connecticut (kinda ghetto but not really} and i need to convince her to let me go, because she doesnt understand how much that i really want to, their my fav band and blah blah blah.. so what im asking is how can i convince her to let me go? thanks for the help! ashley
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Try to reach a compromise; maybe you could go with a friend and their older sibling or something.
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tell her how you feel! mabye try to get an adult to go with you! this is kind of a hard topic! just remember she is your mom and she knows whats best!
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I doubt you will be able to convince her, she seems to really care about you, just realize why she is doing this, especially because of the areas. Maybe she could..go with you? I mean, she could just sit there and you can still have a great time seeing your favorite band live. Or, you can maybe see if theres other tour dates at a different location. Hope I've Helped! ♥
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Bring a friend with you. Tell them they will be able to get in touch with you no matter what. It works with my parents!
~Nokomis~
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I'm gonna be the bad guy and side with mom on this one. After having gone to a few concerts myself I can tell you they are no place for 13 year olds to be.
It is not the band and it's not the location.It is the crowd. An example: My daughter is 27 and went to a concert last summer. The crowd rushed the stage and a friend of hers fell and almost got trampled to death. She got her arm injured and she is a big girl! A 13 year old would just be in to much danger.I am sorry.:{
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i would suggest borrowing either her cell phone, or someone else's and telling her that you will have one so you can contact her if anything happens, or even if you have a cell phone, tell her that you will be able to reach her at the first sign of trouble, also you can take a friend or someone close to you. that way atleast she thinks that you are atleast a little safer... good luck, and if you go, i hope you have fun!
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get a chaperone or something. if that doesnt work, you can always sneak over..(last resort) <3
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