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This might sound weird but i am 15 and turning 16 in May 06'. One thing that i'm concerned about is that i haven't gotten my period yet:-/! is that not normal? is it bad that i haven't gotten it yet? I mean im going to be a sophmore and i still haven't gotten it...please helpp!

its pretty normal. i mean some girls dont get it until they're 18. but thats usually the latest you can get it so im sure you'll get it soon. Dont worry.

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i need some tips for my pitching,like how to increase my volosity and stuff

i have a bro that plays but he doesnt pitch much. but i know you can get lessons that will help you. and practice is also alot of help. arm excersices like circles and weight lifting will also help your throughing. and for aim, those pitching targets that you pitch into also help. ive tried my self lol.
well good luck!

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hey does anyone know the name of the song that kid rock and that one girls sings..it came out a couple years ago...its like she put her picture away or sumtin....nd who's the girl's name?? ill rate high ♥

im not quite sure what the songs called but Sheryl Crow sings that with him. The sing might be called 'Picture' but i'm not sure.
h.i.h.

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ok well i had my period.. 2nd time now.. and i dont know.. like how many times a day should i change my pad/ tampond?? or like my mom never had the talk with me so idk what to expect

well basically to what you think is comfterble. tampons maybe every 2 hrs. and pads check them like every hour or 2 depending on how heavy your period is.

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so there is some one im guessing from my school that made up a screen name and she goes on it and doesnt tell people who she is but she has like everyone's screen name from my grade and she just AIM's us telling us like you whore slut bitch ...blah blah blah, i dont pay attention to it cause i know its just some low life hater messing arround, but yesterday she made up a screen-name pretending to be another girl and her profile was like i like guys w/ big dicks if you wanna have sex call ..... and she aimed me and was like you slut blah blah so it got me really mad & i told the real girl about it and she got super upset.... so anyway how we can find out who this person is? thanks lotz

well if you have a newspaper at school you could always try and post a column about it. or even trying to figure out who the most likly would do that. for example, who has low self asteem and trys to be like the others to blend in and what not.

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well my ex boyfriends birthday is coming up and we decided we were gonna spend the day together after school or the following day together! weve been broken up for almost 7 months now! ya i know a really long time! but through it all weve been like best of friends and we talk all the time! and weve hung out twice this summer! well he does tell me he knows we both want to be together but it wont work right now because he is dating another girl but they arent going out cause she cant have a boyfriend! and even after being broke up hes like i love u and i always will! and just last night he said he missed us! and i still really care about him! but anyways for his bday i wanna do something really cute! i was already thinking about making him a cake and decorating it all cute and getting him a card! but i was trying to think of something else special i could do to show him how much i care! any ideas? thanks so much!

the cake and card is defenatly a good idea. it sounds really sweet and all that. to make it more special you could maybe get him a gift card or if you want it having to do with hanging out with him, how bout a trip to go bowling for fun or maybe like a night out where you two go eat dinner and movie or something. or if he likes sports you could always play around with that for a while. even a small suprise party would be cute.
hope i helped and good luck!

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I'm re-doing my entire room & I've been looking for new beddings but I can't find anything. I want to try to find a bedding that has some red in it because red is my favorite color. I tried looking at JcPenneys, Target, Dillards, Sears, & Bed Bath & Beyond. If anyone knows any other sites, let me know. I'll rate high. Thanks =]

you could try walmart, ikea, pbteen, garden ridge. i know they should have some red bedding.

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i had my period last month for 2 days and it was very light. Now it is very heavy and its more than two days. Does this mean they will change each month?

yes it will change each month, and it can be from either 2/3-9 days long.

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when you have your period and you were sitting down and then you get up is it normal that i always feel a lot of blood coming out for a few minutes?

yea its normal, and its annoying too..

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does anyone sing here? know any songs to practice for a beginner? im near mezzo-soprano.

i sing! lol well depending on your style of music, you could sing to kelly clarkson or leann rimes. even jojo or mariah carey. You could also try singing to christina aguilera or martina mcbride.
Those are the ones i usually practice to. It trains your voice pretty good.

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I really love to sing and my friends say I'm good. I don't think I am all that good though and I want to know some good ways to get better without taking voice lessons because I don't have a lot of money. My goal isn't to be a proffesional singer but I just want to be a source of entertainment to my friends because singing is a huge part of my life. Please answer I'll rate 5's

just practicing every day helps. it makes your voice grow into something more. And thats basically the cheapest thing.

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Hi. Iam 15 and i have a lump on my boob. I just noticed it today.. I'm pretty sure it just appeared today. I don't know what it could be. I mean, girls my age don't usually get breast cancer. I know it's possible, but i guess it could also be beningn. My mom told me that she had a benign lump about 12 years ago. Hm, maybe it's that? I haven't told her about it, though.
Please help, what do you think it is? What should i do?
thanks

first off i would tell you mom, just so you cant get it check out and make sure its not breast cancer. It could just be a beningn, but just to double check. tell you mom and try the doctor.
good luck!!

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i love Cumbers. i eat them all the time. my friend said if i eat them all the time as i do i can get cancer is that true? im scared now

q-comber? (sp?) well i never heard of that before. but i guess it could be possible in a way, but i wouldnt worry. maybe she was just joking with you. if you really wanna make sure then try cheking under google or ask your mom or something.

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i just got my you know what and i want to know is always a good pad? does anyone here use them

yea their very comfterbale. they are long lasting and good quality too. id prefer them to any grl.
h.i.h.

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Hey,
Im a 14/m and i babysit. Im NOT gay!!! i have a gf (were pretty steady) and everything. But babysitting is fun bc i like to b with lil kids and im getting payd 4 it. its easy money. Do the parnets whos kid im babysitting think im gay? bc ive gotten a lot of ppl who think im gay.

Well some people might think its alittle odd for a boy to babysit i guess.. but i think its normal. I mean you just happen to enjoy kids and youd probably be a great father later on. But i dont know why they would think your gay. Its normal for a guy or girl to babysit. And i agree that its fun and easy money lol.

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This guy I met at camp seems to have a thing for me. While we were there he tried to pull me into a room by ourselves so we could talk. (I definitely know he was not trying to get some. I'm positive.) He also talked to me from his friend's house, and he flirted so much it was crazy. Seriously, every sentence he said alluded to the fact that he has a thing for me. So my question is how do I know if he really likes me or if he just flirts with everyone and wants me to fall for him?

it sounds like that guy does like you so maybe you should talk to him and just ask. its that simple. even though it might seem nerve recing and scarry. just try it.

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How do you get your skin to look really healthy? I want mine to look like it's glowing and no acne and stuff. Is there anything I can eat or do?

eat healthy food like fruits and vegitables. and other foods that have protine. Also, for the acne a quick shower a day helps. But not hot, warm water works better.

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I'm looking for lyrics to a Leanne Rhymes song. It isn't very popular but they've played it on CMT a few times. I really don't have a clue how it goes but it says something about her going on a date with the preachers son. And the in the chorus she says something like "it proably wouldn't hurt this bad if I'd never seen your face" I know that's very vague but if anyone has a clue what the name of the song is or at least what her latet album's name is then let me know! PLEASE!

i luv that song! its off of her new CD called: Leann Rimes This Woman. and then song is called:
Probably wouldn't be this way.

Got a date a week from Friday with a preacher's son
Everybody says he's crazy
I'll have to wait and see

I finally moved to Jackson when the summer came
I won't have to pay that boy to rake my leaves

I'm probably going on and on
It seems I'm doing more of that these days

[CHORUS 1:]
I probably wouldn't be this way
I probably wouldn't hurt so bad
I never pictured every minute without you in it
Oh You left so fast
Sometimes I see you standing there
Sometimes it's like I'm losing touch
Sometimes I feel like I'm so lucky to have had the chance to
love this much
God gave me a moment's grace
'Cause if I'd never seen your face
I probably wouldn't be this way

Mama says that I just shouldn't speak to you
Susan says that I should just move on

You oughta see the way these people look at me
When they see me 'round here talking to this stone

Everybody thinks I've lost my mind
But I just take it day by day

[CHORUS 2:]
I probably wouldn't be this way
I probably wouldn't hurt so bad
I never pictured every minute without you in it
Oh You left so fast
Sometimes I see you standing there
Sometimes I feel an angel's touch
Sometimes I feel like I'm so lucky to have had the chance to
love this much
God gave me a moment's grace
'Cause if I'd never seen your face
I probably wouldn't be this way

Probably wouldn't be this way

Got A Date a week from Friday with a preacher's son
Everybody says I'm crazy
I'll have to wait and see

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13/m. me and my girlfriend have been going out for two months now. but im a pagan which most people think is devil worship but thats really not the case. but the point is shes christian and i dont want her to think im a devil worshiper, cuz im not, and break up with me so should i tell her about my religion or keep it ro myself?? plz help me

if religion ever comes up as a conversation then sure, feel free to tell her about it so she doesnt start thinking the wrong thing. But other wise i would just keep it to your self. But if your really concernd about it then tell her.
h.i.h.

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ok well i'm 13 and my boyfriend wants to have sex and i really dont think i'm ready for it.how do i tell him wiht out him thinking i dont like him anymore

just say youre not ready. its the easyest way, and its truthful.

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