This guy I met at camp seems to have a thing for me. While we were there he tried to pull me into a room by ourselves so we could talk. (I definitely know he was not trying to get some. I'm positive.) He also talked to me from his friend's house, and he flirted so much it was crazy. Seriously, every sentence he said alluded to the fact that he has a thing for me. So my question is how do I know if he really likes me or if he just flirts with everyone and wants me to fall for him?
Caitlin91290 answered Monday August 8 2005, 9:38 pm: Well.... if he seems to be that upfront with you maybe you should pay him the same courtesy. On the other hand i see how you don't wanna make an (for lack of a better word) ass out of your self if hes just joking. I'd feel it out and see if hes like that when you are hanging out with him along with other girls. If hes flirting with all of them then it might not be the real thing. I still think that you should be very upfront with him and just lay it out on the table. Or be sly and say things like,,,,, "So in all seriousness, what kinds of girls do you like?" and if he looks at you like you are crazy then make a joke out of it and just pretend like you were joking.
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Supermanlover45 answered Monday August 8 2005, 3:34 pm: I think you should flat out ask him next time you talk to him. You should be like I was wondering if you were trying to trick me into falling for you and if you do this to a lot of girls. Honestly, if a guy pulls you in a room just to talk and not get some I think he has a thing for you. I see it as he doesn't just want sex from you he wants to listen and respect you. I see that as a good thing. If he says he's not just saying it then I'd say then why don't we hook up? Or something. Hope I helped. You don't have to take my advice it's just what I'd do, ya know? Hope everything works out.
Sportychicc9393 answered Monday August 8 2005, 3:20 pm: Awww it sounds to me like hes just totally crushin on you but im not sure about this one.Guys are really tricky! If you no what im sayin. Why don*t you talk to some of his friends and you no ask them about him. For example: How many girlfriends has he had in the past? Or is he just really flirty with the first girl he sees? I hope I have helped im me if u need to Sportychicc9393 [ Sportychicc9393's advice column | Ask Sportychicc9393 A Question ]
ShYbl0nD3 answered Monday August 8 2005, 2:58 pm: it sounds like that guy does like you so maybe you should talk to him and just ask. its that simple. even though it might seem nerve recing and scarry. just try it.
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PolishLaska answered Monday August 8 2005, 2:38 pm: I think you should get to know him. The REAL him. Go out somewhere like an amusement park or an ice skating rink and talk with him. Get to know his friends and see what they say about him and if he has ever had any relationships or just flirts. And hey if in a couple of weeks you like him and he still likes you then whata are you waiting for girl, tell him how you feel. =) hope i helped! xO marlene [ PolishLaska's advice column | Ask PolishLaska A Question ]
Razhie answered Monday August 8 2005, 2:21 pm: You don't until you spend more time with him or ask him. You can observe him with other girls and get a clue to his normal behavior but you still aren't a mind reader. If you feel he is genuinely interested. Go for it. If you feel he is playing with you. Get out of it. Listen to your instincts and pay attention. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
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