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Is it bad?


Question Posted Tuesday August 9 2005, 2:03 am

Hey,
Im a 14/m and i babysit. Im NOT gay!!! i have a gf (were pretty steady) and everything. But babysitting is fun bc i like to b with lil kids and im getting payd 4 it. its easy money. Do the parnets whos kid im babysitting think im gay? bc ive gotten a lot of ppl who think im gay.


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fall_to_pieces answered Thursday August 11 2005, 1:00 am:
dude...you are not gay, like you said. as for the people that think you are gay...that's just rude. personally, i think its hott when guys baby-sit, because they are saying that they are willing to take care of kids and hang-out with them. there is nothing wrong with that. there is nothing wrong with a man that can have fun baby-sitting. rock on, kid!

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airjet106 answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 9:38 pm:
just cause you babysit dosnt mean your gay so your fine they shouldnt think that i no alot of male baby sitters

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knottypanda answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 6:53 pm:
Well screw them.

It's wonderful that you're having fun with the kids and making good money, and you have a steady girlfriend... things seem pretty well off for you. Just because you babysit doesn't mean you're gay. I mean, i play guys soccer, i street roller blade, i do typical "guy" stuff like belch loud in public and i don't have a very feminine walk but it doesn't mean i'm gay. Not that there's anything wrong with being gay, but if you're not, then well, you're not. And certainly, liking children is not gayness. How do you think all those loving fathers out there do it? A lot of people thinking your gay is simply a lack of judgement and extreme narrow-mindedness on their part. Don't let it get to you. They'll see how wrong they are in time i'm sure. They'll probably grow out of it. People that age tend to be very immature.

<3Panda

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shutupnkissme98 answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 5:39 pm:
just because you like to babysit doesnt mean that your gay and anybody that says you are is just being mean. dont worry about it im sure the kids parents dont think your gay.hope i helped XoXo

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xHC0Barbi3x answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 5:19 am:
I think its totally normal for a guy to babysit. i dont know what the heck they're thinking. I know a ton a strait guys that babysit. Hope i helped! xoxo much love, Lauren &hearts;

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Sportychicc9393 answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 2:52 pm:
Obivously the parents don*t think your gay or they dont have a problem with it because they still have you as a babysitter. But if your that worried why dont you mention your girlfriend? Then they would definetly know you werent gay. I hoped Ive helped somehow! Im me if needed Sportychicc9393

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Azngangsta answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 2:45 pm:
That's not a problem. I'm 17 and I help my mom babysit (she owns a daycare) and I enjoy it also. I don't think the parents think you're gay because you're taking care of their children. It just shows that you care about their child. If dudes think you're gay, then they suck. They're probably potheads. If girls think you're gay, then they probably don't like children. But other than that, girls will think it's sweet.

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ViTaChaN answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 1:32 pm:
It's not bad at aLL!!That's good!! The other guys just jealous..I don't think their parents think you're a gay..Because a lot of guys like to play with kid..Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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ShYbl0nD3 answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 1:26 pm:
Well some people might think its alittle odd for a boy to babysit i guess.. but i think its normal. I mean you just happen to enjoy kids and youd probably be a great father later on. But i dont know why they would think your gay. Its normal for a guy or girl to babysit. And i agree that its fun and easy money lol.
<3 simone

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DancinCutie08 answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 12:44 pm:
your pretty lucky most guys dont have the resposibility to babysit so most guys are prob jelous but if u wanted 2 no for the future girls fnd it sexier.

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Teza answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 12:36 pm:
Woah.. no its not bad at all. Just because you babysit and you're a guy does not have mean that you are gay. Its just sterotyping. Anyways.. its just that you're really sweet and you care about little kids and that you enjoy it. Plus you might be still young for a real job so this is the best and easiest way to earn more. Nothing is wrong with that. People who think you're gay are really lame..I honestlly dont think the parents would think that you are gay. I dont think it even crossed their minds! Not only girls can babysit.. a lot of guys do as well.

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mystical_breeze answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 12:17 pm:
It's not bad to babysit. I think it's good you like to be with kids and take care of them.. don't worry about it. My brother who is gonna be fifteen also likes to babysit, and is NOT gay. If the parents think you're gay, just tell them and if they don't believe you, who needs them? Stop baby-sitting their children if they don't respect you.

Hope I helped,
mystical_breeze

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twistedsister17 answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 11:53 am:
Its not bad to babysit. You're a sweet guy, who cares about people, unlike most guys. Just ignore the people who think you are gay. They are dumb ignorant hypocrites. And No! The parents of the kids you babysit don't think youre gay. This is the 21st century. Boys can babysit.

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Dakmor answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 7:21 am:
No, it's not bad. I like to babysit too, kids are fun and easy to entertain, so basically you just get a quick buck. Nothing wrong with that. You're NOT gay. If you think the parents think you're gay, ask them. Obviously, they'll say no, so scratch that. Instead, try bringing your girlfriend one time to "help" you sit the kids?
Hope I helped!

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poa answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 4:08 am:
As long as the parents don't think you are gay you can continue your deviant lifestyle.

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karenR answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 3:28 am:
I wouldn't think you were gay. Some guys are just good with kids. My son stays home and watches all 5 of his because his wife can't handle them. He loves it. Some guys are just good with kids. If you enjoy what you are doing, don't let anyone sway you from babysitting. Introduce them to your girlfriend if you are overly worried about it. :)

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