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18/f
basically i met this boy over the summer and we hung out for like five months. i didnt want a boyfriend i was still in love with my ex, basically he wanted to date me for awhile and i didnt. i finally want to date him and he said romeo died along time ago. he met someone else. he doesnt even miss me or text me or anything anymore. i painted him a picture for his birthday and not being blunt but im a very good artist. i put so much effort and work into it like his birthdays coming up. i dont even want to give it to him, cause it hurts alot right now cause i finally fell for him too late. i know time heals all wounds. do you think theres any chance for us to be a "thing" again?
You are correct, Time does heal all wounds.
This guy is in a relationship now, Sometimes we can hope and pray for something to happen but you really shouldn't let the thought get the best of you. It's hurtful sure it is but you also need to keep in mind what is meant to be is meant to be and what is not is not. From your statement you are dwelling on the possibilities. Maybe in the future there is a chance but in the meantime this guy is in a relationship with someone else and it is best too move on and try and get over it. It will take time and it won't happen overnight but sooner or later it will.
One of my best friends (age 15) is dating a guy (age 17). Well, I have class with him, so naturally we became friends; however, he seems to be acting as more than just a friend now... Today he tried to grab my hand, and I noticed and moved it so he couldn't, so instead he put his hand on my knee. I know I should just stop being friends with him, and tell her what was going on; but I somewhat like this guy (even though I know I shouldn't) and I just have no idea what to do. I've told my other best friends, and they all just yelled at me to stop liking him, but it's just not that easy... help?!
This is your friends boyfriend, Adding to what he is doing will cost you your friendship. Is it worth it? Really, Guys come and go. This girl is supposed to be your best friend but you don't seem to be treating her like she is. Tell the guy to back off, You may like him but letting him touch you is another thing. It's wrong and you know it or you wouldn't be here asking us what to do. Your other friends are right, Back off and tell him to do the same or loose the friendship.
I have been in a relationship with my girl for a year now and known her for 5 we get along really well always have. I am a single parent and a couple of months ago she found out she was approved to purchase a home and she asked me to move in with her I have a lease and it is not up she recently moved in to her home but talk of us living together has changed at first it was us and our and so on but my lease is up in dec and I am not so sure anymore I told her when she asked mee and my chold that I wanted her to be sure she said she was and now she says she wants to make sure and get to know me and so on. I do understand and dont want to regret but I do love her I let myself believe she was ready and never pushed her for comitment at all...so what do i do now do I just move forward with my own life and plan for myself and child do I wait what do I do
If you have known this women for 5 years and she is still pulling the whole "get to know you line" then I would really move on. DN is right, Imagine being with this person for another few years and then she comes back and still isn't sure? That right there would of made me end it.
My boyfriend is my best friend. We have this insane chemistry, it's like we know each other's thoughts and we tell each other everything: our secrets and our dreams and stuff we'd never tell any of our friends. Our relationship is amazing. There's a strong trust and deep respect for each other and my boyfriend treats me like gold. He told me I'm the first girl he's ever loved and he won't abandon me or hurt me. I've had some tough relationships in the past but this relationship is everything I've ever wanted.
However, there's something happening. I hate to say it, but I am growing tired of him. We go to the same school, so I see him every morning, every break in between classes, and after school. Every Friday he drives me home and we spend the weekends together as well. I used to get that butterfly feeling but now it's died down. Lately I've been pissy and annoyed with him and I feel so stupid and ungrateful because he treats me so good. I want some space but I'll miss him and I don't want to upset him!
Space is what keeps the fire going in a relationship, You two clearly spend way to much time together.
I would try to take a little time apart, Nothing serious but little things to balance it out. Instead of seeing him between classes try saving it from after school. Instead of spending every day with him change it too every other day etc. I know you stated you'll miss him but clinging onto someone constantly is going to make it become overwhelming. The time apart is what keeps the spark going, When you see him again you two will have something to talk about and it will be more exciting. By spending constant time together you are not allowing yourself to breathe, Try the simple things. Skip the break between classes and try to see him every other day if possible, If you two have a strong bond and trust each other as much as you say you do then you should respect each other enough on the choice to tone it down a bit.
I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years because there were many arguments, not really big issues but it seemed right at the time. We texted back and forth after the break up, at first he was devastated, but after a while he agreed with the breakup. This upset me because I ended it but I still end up getting more hurt than him, I guess I hoped he would try to convince me to stay. Out of anger I said "F!@* you, don't text me ever again". He didn't text me since. I would like to try and get back together but is that even possible at this point? Should I reach out to him? What should I even say?
You broke up with him, You ended the relationship.
If you didn't want it to be over you should of never recommended it in the first place, Talking to him depends on how long ago you told him to stop texting you. If it were only a few days ago you could text him saying "I just wanted to apologize for the argument we had the other day, I took a few days to myself to calm down and was hoping we could talk it over" If it's been a few weeks, I wouldn't bother. As when time passes people tend to move on and you wouldn't want to recreate the problem when he is beginning to get over it. If you two do decide to talk for future references I would calmly try to discuss how you feel because if you dump someone every time you have an argument somewhere down the line he won't come back.
14/f
Alright, so I had been friends with this guy for two years, then we went out for about four months. I broke up with him about a month ago for a variety of reasons-he was taking things to far too fast, I stopped liking him in "that way," and he was too... physical in public. I wanted things to go back to when we were friends. So I broke up with him at school, he was crushed and I felt like shit for a week because he's a really nice guy and probably my best guy friend. But anyway, he still hasn't gotten over me and it's been a month. He comes over to my lunch table EVERY day to talk to me, whenever we're in a group situation he ALWAYS has to stand next to me, and if I am talking about a guy with my friend he will run and stand next to that guy and stare at them. He also keeps making these "subtle" comments about how he's sorry for whatever he did (he didn't do anything, we are FOURTEEN for Pete's sake) and once I was playing ping pong with my friend and he,of course, had to come over ad e on my team . We lost, and he put his paddle on the table, hugged me while quietly saying " I'm sorry" and walked away. WTF??? He makes little remarks like that all the time. I don't feel bad for him anymore... I mean, were 14, what did he think was going to become of it? That we were going to get married? He won't leave me alone and he turns off other guys because he's ALWAYS there. I've started to be kind of a bitch to him as of late, simply to get him to stop liking me because it's driving me crazy. Help! What do I do about him??? He won't leave me alone! I'm fourteen I don't want to be tied down to him!
You need to be stern, Tell him his actions are a bit too much and he needs to back off. Tell him in a calm but stern manner. Let him know that you accept his apology but the relationship is over and he needs to leave you alone and after you do so I'd try to avoid him for a while as much as possible until he gets over it. A month isn't long, Sometimes it takes people longer to get over things. If he doesn't respect your wishes to back off then I would let someone know that he is bothering you before he really becomes obsessive.
I have been "seeing" a man for five months now. Him and I used to be friends in high school. I first became attracted to him when he and my best friend had a physical relationship, during high school. Since though, he got involved with a short slutty crazy bitch. She had his baby. in the middle of their relationship she cheated on him and during that time him and I had our first kiss. I asked him to kiss me, because I always wondered how it would feel. It was just as fantastic as I thought. Things fell apart between us because he went to jail and when he came to see me again he was back with babymama soon to be. I was hurt, but I moved on with my life it was just a kiss. We had always been friends and so it was easy to put him back in that category. Babymama found out about the kiss and um a little physical foreplay nothing more. She did not like that very much. One day when I texted him. She texted me back. Told me to stay away from her man. Three years later, they are no longer together. At this point he decided to hit me back up. We began talking over facebook of all places. He begin driving over to my house and spending time with me late at night. Things progressed and one night we were both drunk and we had sex. a few days later I found out about another girl he had been seeing for over a year. She happened to live at his house,have sex with him, cook his meals, and take care of babymama's child. Needless to say I was irrate, but I did not know what was good for me because I did not walk away. I listened to him tell me that he was trying to get rid of x-girl that the only reason she was there was because she didn't have a place to stay. A couple of days later he asked me to be his girlfriend. Babymama went ballistic and took his baby away, x-girl went crazy and punched him hard leaving a bruise, and his own mother was angry. A couple of days later he stopped talking to me. I dumped him over facebook a day later. I knew that if he wasn't talking to me, he was talking to someone. He decided to hit me up again. Stupid girl didn't walk away again. I told him that I didn't want anything more to do with him and that we should have sex one more time for closure. He seemed really upset about the whole thing. He seemed like he was trying to find reason for why I was doing what I was doing. Like being with other girls wasn't reason enough. Like the inability for him to commit was more reason enough. All the reason he needed was that he didn't care about me enough. I knew he was still rutting around with babymama and x-girl. Closure happened that night it was amazing between us. It always is. He left that night. I hoped I would never see him again, but he called me and yes I answered. I told him I would be his friend. Since, we have seen each several nights. I have not had sex with him, but I couldn't hold myself back from kissing the man. It's just too darn hard. He told me things would be different. X-girl moved out. things seemed to be going well between us. Then on a night we were supposed to spend together, he made up excuses and told me that he couldn't. He was going out of town the next day, so he said he said he couldn't wait to see me when he got back. He was super sweet. He ended the phone call by saying "I'm sending you a kiss through the phone mmmah." I knew something was up. I saw him post this comment on facebook "just keep smiling" on facebook and babymama responds "I enjoyed seeing you tonight." (Although we aren't friends on facebook he hasn't blocked his wall so I can still see everything.) I couldn't believe it. I was heartbroken for the thousandth time. Then he posted another comment "I know it's not right, but what can I do?" I knew what he was talking about. This whole time I was trying to figure it and I felt like I did that night. I remember one night when we had been arguing about being in a relationship he said "Don't think I'm holding out for babymama." Maybe though, this whole time he has been. I decided that he was probably using me to make her jealous. One night when he was dropping me off. I told him that I had posted pictures of us on facebook he begged for me to re-friend him and tag him in the pictures.He was so persistant, I felt like there had to be an ulterior motive. I felt like he was just doing it so babymama would see. I want to walk away, but every time I do I feel helplessly guilty and scared that I'll lose something I'll regret. When he got back from his out of town trip, he called me several times. I didn't answer and finally texted him. Don't call me, I don't want to talk to you. He texted back "Whatever I don't have to deal with your shit" "you'r out of your mind". I was strong with the delivery, I said "I hope so :)" and ended it. Then I read on facebook that he was going to jail the next day (yes I facebook stalk him) and I felt horrible. I wrote him three emails asking him if he was really going to jail, and telling him that I would pray for him, and telling him my reasons again for walking away. All of my emails went unanswered. I then looked him up and found out he was in jail the next day. I wrote him a letter in jail. I told him that I was sorry for being mean, and that I didn't have the money for bail or I would bail him out. I joked that when I am a nurse he could go to jail all he wanted. I told him I would put money in his account so that he could write me back, but I never did because I thought "what if he never writes me?" What if he uses the money for something else?" He is still in jail right now. I secretly hope when he gets out that he will call me again, but I also secretly hope that he doesn't. I know that I deserve more than this. I have told myself that time and time again. I know also that I love this man. And I wonder to myself if it would ever be possible for me to accept this as enough. I would never be willing to be his hoe, but if he wanted me for his girlfriend would it be another story? Can he ever truly get over babymama? Maybe I am just not the right girl to make that happen. Maybe the reason for this is because he believes her to be my superior. I am so helpless I am such a fool.
He sounds like he has a problem with honestly, Will he ever get over the mother of his child. No, That is the mother of his child. This guy may get over her in a romantic way but either way she'll always be apart of his life in some way as they both share a child together. On top of that, He had a girlfriend that he didn't tell you about instead he lied and told you she was just staying at his place. Put two and two together, You have a compulsive liar. I would put this guy on the back burner and move on, If you want a real relationship then find someone who isn't drama.
I'm afraid im not really a 'family' person. We use to have it all when were little, the nicest clothes, bla bla bla but now the economy is bad and everyone saves every penny (I'm 14 and I still dont understand what a penny will do) But yeah, I've been through some chaos before. And I put this gigantic smile on when in public and you dont know what's going on. Things have simmered down, but now it's me that feels burnt...I just wish I could leave home and go to college and live my OWN life. Tired of living in a household. I just want 4 yrs to go by fast, get out of cruel mean public school and go on with my life. Unlike some bums at school, I actually want to be successful, do the right thing, and make something out of my life. I know I'll need my fams support and my mom will be there. But right now....it just seems like the second to worst time in my life.....ugh!
So I ask.....what should I do? What will help me get through 4 more years? And how will it all go fast?
At 14, Everything seems like hell. You complain about how much you desire to go out and live on your own but honestly? You are very lucky to still be living at home. The economy is effecting everyone not just your household. Many people nowadays have to move back home because the expense of living on your own is no longer affordable for many. Jobs are cutting back pay, Hours are getting cut, People are loosing jobs left and right and many companies are filing for bankrupt. The average cost for renting out an apartment is around 750.00 a month that cost is JUST rent. Then you need to add food, electricity, water. If you were to own a car you'd have to add the cost for gas, car insurance, car repairs etc. and by the time you are done that $750.00 would round up to maybe $1300.00. It isn't cheap, You should be very thankful that you have it easy right now. Maybe your family is sometimes a pain in the ass but in the end your family is going to be the people that support you more then anyone else. When you need the most, That annoying sister is going to always have your back. The smallest things aren't going to matter as you get older, You will learn to appreciate your family and their flaws. Nobody is perfect, Nobody has a perfect family. You just need to start realizing that when things seem to be so bad at home there are other people who have it worse then you do, There are people out there who don't even have families. Be thankful and do not be in a hurry to grow up.
okay, so I've been dating my bf for a while... like 7 months going on 8 in a few weeks and he and i have talked about sex, I want to get birth control, that way i can be responsible and not get preggo, I mean I'm 17 i should have it by now right? my bf and i want to wait until i'm 18, but i want it just in case you know? So how do i ask my mom to help me get it? she and i have talked about it before and i just want to bring it up again, but i dont want to seem like i'm having sex at this point in time... which i'm not... he and i are still both virgins... how do i ask my mother to help me?
You are 17, You by law are old enough to go into a doctors office without your mother going with you. You do not need to tell her why, You also do not need your mother to go with you. If you need to seek out birth control have someone drive you to the doctors and you can go in yourself and explain your case. You are 17, Anyone who is 14 and under would generally need a parents guardian you don't.
okay so umm im 13 and sometime when my gf and i are watching tv and it gets boring so i tell her to take her clothes off (no ones home so dont worry)and then i tell her to relax and then i go "down there" and start licking and then i go faster but she starts screaming and kicking and it gets on my nerves but she says it feels great so why is she screaming because i dont scream when she gives me "you know" so why does she do it
You are 13, You are too young to be having sex or any kind.
Are you ready to be a father of a child? Raise one on your own without your parents help? Do you have a full time job? Do you live on your own? .....
If these answers are "No" then you most certainly shouldn't be having sex as you are clearly not ready.
Be honest. But just don't yell at me or lecture me. How bad is it that I like my teacher? He's pretty young.. like 24. I know it's not good. I honestly just want to know if there's anyone out there who's having a dilemma like this like me. or really anything anyone thinks about it. more importantly, how do i get over it? He's literally everything I've ever liked in a guy.. even guys my age. I need to SHUT UP about him. Jeez. Thoughts?
You just do
Teacher, Student relationship is against School policy and you keep telling yourself it will never work out. This teachers job is to be a role model to his students. Nothing more, Nothing less proceeding more could cost this guy his career and some legal trouble he certainly doesn't need.
My elder sister is 24 years sexy girl and i m a 21 yrs old bachelor guy, who desperately wanted to make love with her, but never dared to tell/ propose her. I dont know its right or wrong, but i really wanted to have sex with her all through my life.She is getting married next year.
I have attempted to kiss her one day when we both were in bed, where i pressed her breasts and tried to seduce her, but it was not a successful attempt as she protested and got rid of my hold, since then talked to me for last two weeks....
PLZ suggest me some way by which i can achieve her....
This is incest, It's illegal almost anywhere.
Trying to seduce your siblings/family members is wrong and it's most certainly not okay.
I would suggest talking to a therapist
Your sister is engaged, There is nothing you can do that will change her mind. You are her family member
Here is more information on incest:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Incest
Continuing to harass your sister will likely get you nowhere but her pressing charges against you or having you arrested.
I was saving myself untill marriage to have sex which I thought just meant penetration of penis in vagina. I didn't really know about anything else cause I wanted it to be a surprise for me.
Please dont laugh at my agge. I'm in my early 20s. I've only had one boyfriend but he never did anything to me apart from kissing & outside foreplay, which I was fine with.
I was at a temporary job, my supervisor who is 45 liked me & I started to like him back. My parents were against it from the start. So I stayed with my friend for a while & met up with him sometimes. I stayed at his house one night & he knew I wanted to be a virgin untill marriage. But he asked to finger me. I didn't really know what it was so I asked him will I still be a virgin & he said yes. I said ok & let him, then I started bleeding & he said its ok, its only foreplay.
My friend asked my how it went & I told her what happened and she said I'm not a virgin anymore because of the fingering. We didn't have actual sex.
The guy said when he was at school fingering was foreplay & he didn't know.
Then a few months later anotherr guy did it me but this time I quickly pulled his finger out.
Now I feel sick & disgusting cause I embarrased my family. I cant even look at them without feeling disgusted in what I did.
The bleeding doesn't help. I got over the first guy & thought I could carry on into another relationship but this guy tried/did the same thing.
I don't think I am a virgin anymore cause of this & now I feel hurt & used. I feel sick all the time cause I know this will be with me forever.
I disappointed my dead grandparents on both sides & all of my family. I just dont know what to do because I can't change this. Sometimes I feel normal & sometimes I don't.
I think fingering is losing virginity. So girls, please take my advice & NEVER let a guy finger you. Now I feel like I'm going to be a slut on my wedding night. I've always been a good person & I just dom't understand why this happened. I was weak in saying no. How do I get the courage to say no next time?
You will be a virgin until you have sexual intercourse. Fingering does not mean you are no longer a virgin.
Hey so I'm a little Experianced in the dating department and I'm dating a guy who I'm his first girlfriend. Um what should I do because he has no clue what to do and I don't want to scare him and everything.
You treat him how you would wanted to be treated as if you were new to a relationship. Be patient, slow and don't expect to much out of him in a short time.
Eventually, He will get the hang of the whole relationship but he needs time. My partner and I have been together for 4 years and when we first started dating I was the more experienced one. We just took it a day at a time. We had fun, We went out and did fun activities together etc. We worked at it and overtime our relationship blossomed.
Now, If you are worried about the bedroom department I would try and take it slow with him. Don't rush it! When that times comes you show him what you want, Talk to him about your desires, Talk to him about new ideas etc. but again take it slow and eventually he'll get the hang of it.
We had a professor who's in his 40's and is really knowledgeable, though an arrogant *** and sometimes vain.He used to make statements like how only the elite were qualified to pursue education and crap like that.We had all complained against his behavior to the Dean, as a result of which he won't be taking any of our classes anymore.During that movement, the leading guy suggested we register a false case of sexual harassment against him so we could get him removed quickly. We, not being in our senses, did that. As a result, he's to go through a lot.Though ultimately he was absolved of all charges and was re-instated.
But now I realize I'm in awe of him and his knowledge, and want to form a friendship with him. NOT AN AFFAIR OR ANYTHING. I just want to be a liked person. But how's it possible since he's not teaching us anymore and is probably disgusted with us for reporting him? I had once written an anonymous letter (e-mail) pouring out my guilt, I really felt bad for it by then...but all I received was a reply stating it was cowardly to withhold name while writing a letter.
So I was going to write another e-mail, (the same one with my name at the end) and send it to him, but then my mom said that he might use it to file cases against me and/or my friends in court. I wanna apologize badly, but cannot. Please give me advice on what to do.
(I'm from India)
Your best bet is to stay away from him, Reporting him was the wrong thing to do and in his eyes he has already been through enough and doesn't want to deal with anything any further. Your intentions were cruel and could of cost the guy is career and marriage.
By trying to create a friendship with this man it probably won't tick him off more then he already is but possibly make others question your statement against him. It looks bad, This man has absolutely no interest in a friendship never mind further contact of any kind. Let it go and stay away from him.
Putting your name on something yes he could use it against you, He could end up harassing you for it and possibly threaten you. Right now, You need to stop trying to contact him because trying to get him to contact you eventually leads to harassment as well.
plse can a virgin girl get pregnant when the sperm has entered her vagirna
Yes
A women can get pregnant if the penis or sperm has contact with the vagina. Something as little as pre ejaculation can detect enough sperm for a pregnancy as well.
i have a self esteem ,self image problem .i know it effects everyone and everthing in my life but do not know how to fix it.i take evrything said the wrong way and respond the wrong way. i dont trust anyone.i gained weight because someone called me a skinny bitch a few times and over heard a women tell another that they should watch their husbands around me.now 10 years later i am 50 lbs over weight,have now friends,no job,no life.i went to see a counciler and she basically said until i want to change she cant help me, somehow i think that was what i was paying her for?maybe i am just ment to be this sad pitiful person that i am
If your therapist isn't helping you then you need to find someone else who will. Solid was right, Don't ever trust someone who doesn't have a degree in mental health. Things are conquerable as long as we take the right steps, If you gained a few pounds then work on loosing it. It's never too late to fix things and anything can be done. Dieting and exercise is a start and with winter approaching something as little as shoveling is great for the mind and body. A psychiatrist can help you also maybe prescribe you some medication to help you cope with your daily live. Everything comes a step at a time but can be done, If you have no friends maybe you could look to volunteer that will give you the opportunity to get out and meet new people as well as helping your self esteem.
So I have been dating this guys for almost a month now and I am beginning to really develope feelings for him. We hang out almost every day and have gone on a number of dates. The only problem is that I told him I was 20 when im really 19. He is 27. I have a fake I.D. so I am still able to go to bars with him where we spend a lot of our time together. I have always hung out with older people and I tell everyone I'm 20. This lie is killing me. Lying about my age has never bothered me before. I have been doing it since I was 15. But every time I'm with him it is all I can think about. I really want to be honest with him but I dont know how he will react. He is looking to settle down and so am I. I am very mature for my age but I feel like he wont take me seriously if he knew I was only 19. I dont know what to do.. any advice?? and I know that I need to tell him but HOW??
I disagree with the user below me
A year age difference isn't a big deal at all. No, However if you plan on settling down with someone or having a relationship with them then you really need to start being completely honest. Lying, Isn't going to do anything but push them away in the long run when they find out the truth about you. Nobody likes to be lied to nor led on and if you lied from him from the start it will only do nothing but get him to not trust you at all. You may be mature for your age I'm not going to say your not but lying to people isn't a sign of maturity. I would tell him, If you want to save what you two have going better to do it now then never. You could sit down with him and tell him there is something you feel you need to get off your chest and then ya spill it.
Right I've been with my boyfriend 3months, and his mother actually hates me, she has even stopped him from seeing me, and stopped all contact-we are texting secretly & he wants me to have a baby with him to make her realise we are in love, but I'm 16 is this the right choice or should I end it even tho it hurts? Helppp
You are heading to dig yourself a very very deep hole
As his mother, She has the right to say who her son does and doesn't date. This boy lives under his mothers roof, Lives by her rules.
The old saying "You date someone, You are dating their family too" Same thing if you were to marry someone. Really, Instead of trying to piss the mother off where she could possible press charges against you to a NO contact order etc. Why don't you start respecting her choice to stay away from her son? Whether you approve of her or not doesn't change the fact that her son is a minor and until he turns 18 she DOES have say. Having a baby at 16 years old is not by any means going to prove that you love her son rather get her to think you are not only gullible but possibly took advantage of her son in the worst way possible. Having a baby at such a young age is the worst thing you can do not only to him but to yourself and the baby. It's a selfish move and most certainly isn't a very smart one either.
Im 13 and i have been dating this guy for 3 months now and he says that he wants to have sex. I told him that i do want to but i am just scared that it will hurt or i wont be any good. He said that he will never try to hurt me but it wll hurt for my first time. He said that he will wear a condom and not try to go too fast or hard. But condoms dont always work and so the thing that i want to know is that should i have sex with him? And what if the condom breaks i really do not need baby at 13 i already get picked on enough right now! I just dont want it to break and i feel like if i dont have sex with him he will leave me and i DO NOT want him to leave me!
What do you think I should do? I hope you can help me out as much as possible! thnx i appreciate it
Seriously, You are way too young to be thinking about sex at 13.
If your boyfriend is shallow enough to leave you over the fact that you won't have sex with him then your boyfriend isn't worth a god damn dime. Think about this for a second, Why would you want to be with someone who pressures you?.. If you have to ask us of what you should do then obviously you aren't ready. Your boyfriend really should know the meaning of a relationship before he got himself into one. NO relationships aren't all about sex, It's about trust, respect it's basically a support system. If your boyfriend is pressuring you into sex then apparently you are nothing more then a booty call not his girlfriend. Don't be gullible and please do not be one of those teens that fall under peer pressure. If your boyfriend is that much of an asshole then leave him and find someone else.