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my teacher.. he's perfect.
Be honest. But just don't yell at me or lecture me. How bad is it that I like my teacher? He's pretty young.. like 24. I know it's not good. I honestly just want to know if there's anyone out there who's having a dilemma like this like me. or really anything anyone thinks about it. more importantly, how do i get over it? He's literally everything I've ever liked in a guy.. even guys my age. I need to SHUT UP about him. Jeez. Thoughts?
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You need to realize that he is your teacher and for anything to become of it is inappropriate. It's fine to have a crush but nothing should become of it. Maybe hang out with your friends and meet some new people. That is always a great way to meet new people!
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This happend to me in high school ^^ Unfortunatly, when the particular teacher says anything to you after you discover you fancy them, then you translate that as something romantic.
Most of the time, like me, you get over them when you leave high school. It's hard to, but heres my advice (what i did)
1) Imagine if things with him and you progressed any futher to a relationship. Write down the promblems there would be.
2) Think of their bad point: they could be impatient, they could always tell people off, they could have bad breath etc.
3)Think about other girls. If you like him, theres a massive chance other girls like him too, plus girls his age as well. He could infact have a fan club of girls.
4) He could get married.By getting over this crush now, then you're saving yourself tons of heartbreak in the future if he does marry someone.
Although it's hard having a crush on your teacher it's harder having a secret crush on some one you COULD date, as your worried more about being found out.
Good luck :)
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love,happy,sad,broken heart,just come and go time after time,god always send us some trouble that we can pass it,or sometimes the trouble is to difficult to understand and solve....well,i think your feeling is normal,we are human right,there is no way we can ignore this feeling....but sometimes we must think about consequences.....teacher and student....well,when im 20 im fall in love with my lecturer,first i think my feeling is fake....but every time i meet her,i think im really falling in love with her,my lecturer was 29....guzzzzzzz,its crazy..........then i think this is no good to have a feeling like that,im better to shut out and not to concentrate to her while she was teaching....pretty hard.....but im success to avoid her....the clue is,find something in your heart that make you can accept him....time is running....u can get a better one in your life....so cheer.......
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Omg I totally understand, I've never had a crush on any of my male teachers. But I have b4. Mines is an actor, I do get it. It is normal and I've heard cases of some peeps having crushes on their teachers. Just dont let that go too far. Like for instance what if your teacher liked you too since he was life a perv....what would you do then? you'd feel violated and it would be completely innapropriate. Don't worry I'm sure you'll grow outta that. Also that just means you have awesome taste in a guy and you're not into these "immature,rusty,crusty.and disgusting, little boys" When your a grownup you'll find someone that's pretty much perfect. haha. Just make sure your obsessing isn't really too serious. xoxo
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I totally understand where you're coming from. We've all had crushes on people we know we can't date. Maybe that's something that wants us want them even more... we all want what we can't have, am I right?
The fact of the matter is, you have to find a way to get over him. It's 100% illegal to pursue any physical interest in him. Yes, having a little bit of a school-girl crush is okay, but you need to realize that there is NO way that there can be a relationship when you're still a minor and he's still your teacher. Infatuation is normal, just control your impulses and desires! It'll take time but eventually you WILL get over him, or who knows, find someone better!
'Cause let's face it, we all can't have a relationship like Aria and Ezra from Pretty Little Liars! ;)
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It's okay, even normal, to have a crush.
We can't help what we feel sometimes, but you are right. You do have to control what you DO. So shutting up about it is a good idea, for your own sake, as well as your friends'.
Unfortunately, Zane is right. There is no real 'trick' to stopping. You could ask your friends to call you on it if you start talking about it. You can remind yourself that its just a fantasy when you start thinking about it. You can remind yourself that will nothing ever happen - because it would illegal, horribly immoral and down right awful for him to engage in ANY romance with you - and it could easily end with him doing jail time, or at least, never working as a teacher agian.
It all be easier, much easier, when you don't see him regularly. So, you should consider avoiding his classes once you are done this one.
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You just do
Teacher, Student relationship is against School policy and you keep telling yourself it will never work out. This teachers job is to be a role model to his students. Nothing more, Nothing less proceeding more could cost this guy his career and some legal trouble he certainly doesn't need.
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