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Should I text him
Ok so I this guy he's a year older than me and I've liked him over a year. I think about like everyday but the thing is we dont talk/text he switched schools last year so I rarely see him. But we had a small history we would talk hangout and text constAntly. I miss it so much. He was different for me then he is to other girls now. But I'm scared bc we never talk and I think I need to talk to him to get over him. But it could just make it more miserable.btw our "thing" fizzled out no reason why. AnywAys I like other people it's just he's on my mind. What can I do to get over him. And should I text him? Like for closure. Ugh I wish every night that he would text me I miss him and I can't get over it.
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It never hurts to send a text. Of course, be aware that you might not get a response or even worse you might get one that says "who's this?" since he doesn't remember or something of that sorts, but if you miss him, you should make an effort to reconnect. Hit him up with a text saying "hey stranger" "remember me?" "where have you been?!" "you went ghost!" something like that just to get the conversation going! It'll make him feel special that you made the first initiative! This can either 1. rekindle your friendship 2. get the closure you desire for 3. go into a status quo ante bellum, as a means where nothing changes. Hopefully it'll be number 1 and 2! (lol) The thing with us girls is we always expect boys to text us first and make the first move but in actuality, boys expect the same thing. Break the system - send the first text!
He's on your mind for a reason. Don't live life wondering "what if I contacted (whatever his name is)"... Live your life knowing the outcomes!
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IF YOU TEXT HIM and he doesn't respond then you will be hurt! So why not just leave it be. If he hasn't contacted you then he's probably either has his mind on someone else or he's just to FOOLISH to realize what he had in you. Sometimes men (Young and Old) take to long to figure out what they want. So I would suggest you move on and if your path cross again just enjoy it! You are worth so much more!
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