Member Since: October 23, 2011
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I love singing but I don't think that I'm that good. My friends say that I should post a video on Youtube but I don't know. Should I? (link)
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You should...if people tell you ur good then you must be. I have a friend who has her friend who had the same problem. She was scared but she sings real good. She sang one song when she was 10 on youtube. She's like my age (14) but hopefully she'll make new ones.....her username is Kameracute on youtube.
I met her like 2 weeks ago and she sang to me in person, she was all shy but she did so good. So shine like the diamond you are girl! Put a song on youtube....if everyone says your good then you must be.
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Okay so i have a problem.
Im 13 and my older sister is 15.
My cousins(16 & 18yearolds)came to hang out and take us and my little 9 yr old sister shopping and to hang out.
So they went to pick up a boy, Brian(17) and we went to a park and ate some ice cream. Then they brought him home. They hid him under the bed and told my mom they were sleeping over(my cousins) and long story short Brian ended up having UNPROTECTED sex, the rest of us were watching a movie & my LITTLE NINE YEAR OLD sister, me, and my cousin walked in on them.
I feel really disgusted with my sister & cant look her inth eye. Then she BEGGED my older cousin to buy the 'after sex whatever' pills. And she never talks to brian after that. I dont know if that was her first time or if all those times she went to havesleepovers werent such a goo d idea. I want things to go back to nomal, i still love her ( she's my sister) but i really dont think much Of her, She used to be my idol but now i dont wanna be anything like her. But i feel really bad ( even cried a couple of times) but it was kind of my fault too. I picked the lock with my cousin because we just thought they were making out,we thought chrissy knew better then that. What should i do? (link)
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Omg I feel so bad for you. See this kinda stuff is what I can relate to. When I was 9 and 10 a lit I was exposed to. Chaos cuz of my OLDEST sister. I'm 14 now and I know that must have been traumatic for your younger sister. Someone has to pay. I know you look up to your sister but for a while you need yo wait for an apology from her. To be quite honest...I'd tell my parents what you and your sister saw because that could really affect your younger sis. She might want to do that at your older sisters age and experiment with all that. So think about your younger sis who is ALSO your family. Who's more important. Your older sis who CHOSE to do that? Or your innocent 9 year old sister??? time will heal wounds and you guys'll be fine but someone has to know and your 9 yr old will have to have "the talk" and everything you know?
Sorry I feel very strongly about that cuz I can relate so much
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okay so umm im 13 and sometime when my gf and i are watching tv and it gets boring so i tell her to take her clothes off (no ones home so dont worry)and then i tell her to relax and then i go "down there" and start licking and then i go faster but she starts screaming and kicking and it gets on my nerves but she says it feels great so why is she screaming because i dont scream when she gives me "you know" so why does she do it (link)
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Bro....are you serious??? I'm 14 and do not engage in any sexual activities. Do you want to be a baby daddy? Cuz that'll lead to more. After oral you might want to do something else. Another thing is dude...come on...you're 13 you can wait till your 18 for all of that. Promise me you'll consider stopping this for a while? At least "considering" I 110% disagree with what you are doing. Screw the fact she screams...just quit all this all together. Think about what age you were just THREE years ago....yeah.... xoxo
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Hi! You know those dreams where you die and then wake up really suddenly? I get those 2-3 times a week. In the dream, I normally end up falling of a cliff. And I'm not falling of the bed or anything! (link)
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I've read about those type of dreams before. Honestly I barely have bad dreams anymore. And I can hardly remember my new dreams. Maybe it's because I'm not relaxed too much when I'm sleeping like I use too. It's time for me to dream about someone I'm lovin right now lol......ahem....ok back to you! So like I said, I have read that if you have those type of dreams, it means you are afraid to lose control and are afraid of having your life tumble down or over you. Sometimes your dreams tell you things you never knew you cared so much about....other times, they could be silly. Don't worry you just need to figure out your "real life" root of the problem and come to peace with that. Then im sure your dreams will stop and you'll have other dreams with different meanings! Best of luck! And sweet dreams!!!
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Be honest. But just don't yell at me or lecture me. How bad is it that I like my teacher? He's pretty young.. like 24. I know it's not good. I honestly just want to know if there's anyone out there who's having a dilemma like this like me. or really anything anyone thinks about it. more importantly, how do i get over it? He's literally everything I've ever liked in a guy.. even guys my age. I need to SHUT UP about him. Jeez. Thoughts? (link)
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Omg I totally understand, I've never had a crush on any of my male teachers. But I have b4. Mines is an actor, I do get it. It is normal and I've heard cases of some peeps having crushes on their teachers. Just dont let that go too far. Like for instance what if your teacher liked you too since he was life a perv....what would you do then? you'd feel violated and it would be completely innapropriate. Don't worry I'm sure you'll grow outta that. Also that just means you have awesome taste in a guy and you're not into these "immature,rusty,crusty.and disgusting, little boys" When your a grownup you'll find someone that's pretty much perfect. haha. Just make sure your obsessing isn't really too serious. xoxo
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I asked this question a long time ago on this website, but the answer I got was wrong.
When I was about eight or nine I was watching a movie on TV, I think it was Lifetime but I'm not sure.
I can only remember one scene and a few sparse details about the main character.
Anyway, in this scene the girl was sort of trapped in her basement with a bunch of guys around. (I remember maybe 20?) She was on a table and they were possibly raping her with a baseball bat. (I say possibly because I don't know if it actually enterered her or they were just 'teasing' her.)
I'm almost positive they were all teenagers. I think the girl was mentally disabled. And I believe she liked to draw.
Also, a part of me wants to say her mom and a family friend were upstairs chatting while this was going on in the basement, but I'm not sure.
Any suggestions are great. I don't know why, but this has been bugging me for years. The need to know what's going on and the movie plot are overwelming.
**The last time I asked this question, somebody suggested the movie A Girl Like Me. It is NOT that movie.** (link)
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ooh I remember that movie! Forgot the name though. The lead character who is menatally retarded/disabled she was Anne Hathaway's friend in Princess Diaries! ;)
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My elder sister is 24 years sexy girl and i m a 21 yrs old bachelor guy, who desperately wanted to make love with her, but never dared to tell/ propose her. I dont know its right or wrong, but i really wanted to have sex with her all through my life.She is getting married next year.
I have attempted to kiss her one day when we both were in bed, where i pressed her breasts and tried to seduce her, but it was not a successful attempt as she protested and got rid of my hold, since then talked to me for last two weeks....
PLZ suggest me some way by which i can achieve her....
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WTF SERIOUSLY BRO WTF! YOU NEED PHYSCOLOGICAL HELP>>>REAL TALK. That is your BLOOD...your sister? Thinking like that will lead you only to one...place...hell. So quit. Not to be mean but that really is sick thinking. I really feel you need help...get a therapist or a physchiatrist get on some medication from your doctor. Better yet..why don't you tell your sister??? She'll give you a piece of her mind.
I just can't believe anyone could think like this....this will do you, your sister, and your state of mind...help.
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I want my butt to be real round, tight, and BIG. how can i get my butt bigger?? (link)
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There are many ways to make your butt bigger, plastic surgery or of course thos butt pads. But both seem major dumb things to do. I say love yourself and love your body image. You were mean't that way. These may be "wants" but certainly not "needs" Of course this is all you and you choice, but some women's butt's do get bigger wants they have kids. Now DONT have kids just for a butt....I'm just saying. Love yourself and your set. And the future will decide for itself I guess. Who knows....maybe your butt will be bigger if you have kids in the future....maybe not. This goes back to the old saying "Love the skin your in" Or of course "If it aint broke, don't fix it" Love your fabulicious self"
Other than that....I'd day that's riDONKulous lol....(I kid) sorry...doesn't hurt to add a lil humor.
xoxo
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hey i am 13 and i think i might be pregnant cause i am getting really sick and i am getting cramps please help me so i now if i am (link)
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Ok omg, I'm 14.....gurl! Your having sex? What is wrong with you? Don't you want to wait for all that?
I hope you are not preggo because that'll be a huge responsibility.
You might be on your period? Are you? If not then I suggest you go to the doctor. If you start having morning sickness and throwing up then that's a sign. You might as well just tell your parents because either way it's going to come out somehow. Especially if you are pregnant, what are you going to do and how could you tell your parents?? So it's all you can do. No other option I can think of. And if you are not preggo, let this be a major wake up call.
xoxo Extraordinary Gurl
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what would you do if the person your life revolves around, has a rapidly growing brain tumor and is shunning everything/everyone sayin he gives up on life? my world has halted and shattered into a million peices. we have been dating over a year pretty seriously and want to become more after college. He is my everything id do anything in my power and beyond for him but i cant even keep myself composed, i cant even tell anyone so they could help me. He woke up in the hospital again today for passing out, he says he is done with life, its irreversible..any advice at all is needed, and what do i do, what do i say to him, what do i do for the future. sorry if i am all over the place (link)
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All you can do is pray. Pray to God for him. And be his girlfriend. Let him know how much you love him and care and support him. That's all he could ever want from you, and your love and support will mean everything!
Best wishes to you and to your boyfriend! *Hugs, A million and forever more sweet kisses*
Xoxo, Extraordinary Gurl
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I asked a similar question like this a while ago, so it may be a little repetitive. But I had to had a lot of extra information to this one, and I'm dealing with a completly different problem now, so here we go. There are two main questions here both tying in to the same story (I apologize for the length, but this is very important)
My friend is extremely bipolar. To the point where she's crying in a corner during a party ten minutes after dancing, and when I ask what the reason is she says she just feels sad. It's heartbreaking- she can be such a optomistic, adorable, happy girl one minute, and a crying, cutting, suicidal one the next. Yes, she does cut, she has been for almost a year. And she's recently become suicidal.
The suicidal thing scares me the most. She got really close at one point, and I did what all the online websites tell you to do and I told guidance, but it only made things worse. She became much more depressed, and lied through her teeth to get out of the hospital. A month later, she's back and worse than ever. She can't stand doctors of any kind, and she hates therapists because of how they are forced to tell the parents if a patient is suicidal or showing sucidal thoughts. I know that if I go to guidance or her parents or the hospital, it will only make things worse and push her closer and closer to the edge. But I need to find things out fast- she told me a long time ago a certain time she planned to do it, and she says she sometimes things she will still do it during that time, and it scares me.
SO HERE ARE THE QUESTIONS
1. What are some good ways (other than therapists and medication) that she can get over the bipolar disorder? Anything I can do to help?
2. What should I do about her suicidal plans? (link)
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I have this friend who had a bipolar older sister. The house became disruptive and disfunctional. This is no good for anyone. This sounds a lot like my friend's sister. She has got to be admitted into a crazy house just for a little bit. And they can't let her escape. Once she's calm she's needs to be on meds. This will help her and might bring her back to normal. She may never be completely normal but she would be ok in life if they can bring her down from that. My friend's sister is still off a little but she doesn't snap like she use to. None of that. She's just immature. Ever talked to your friend about the suicidal prevention line you can call? You can call them and talk to them. They are there to listen to you and keep you from killing yourself.
The number is 800-273-8255
Hope this helps.
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hi my name is emma i am 13 and my boyfriend wants to have sex with me what do i do (link)
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Dude, are you kidding me? I'm 14 and that is a no-no . Tell him no, you have too much integrity,self respect, pride, and you're too young. If he gets mad or begs...then he's not the one for you. Break up with him because obviously he does not give a shiz about you or your feelings. Sorry to break it to you. Just gotta keep it real. It's either he will respect that or he won't. End of story. Take care! -Extraordinary Gurl
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My boyfriend is turning 19 next week and I am 17. I'm trying to write this really romantic note for him and I found this certain quote that I want to put in it but I don't know if it would make sense because of our ages! It's:
"If you live to be one hundred, I hope I live to be one hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you."
does that make sense if I were to put that? lol please let me know haha (link)
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It sort of makes sense but for guys...they'll never understand it. Try this... "If you live to be 100, freeze time and let me catch up to you, because I love you. No hurricanes, cold hard stones, no solid rain or thunderstorms...will keep me away from you. Cause our love is strong, you know it's true....I love... you..." Something like that! ;) xx Best of luck! -Extraordinary Gurl
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I'm 13 years old and I wear g-strings. Is that to young? (link)
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I'm 14 and I don't even wear a g string...YES YES YES that is too young. Wait....your parents LET you? Wait-wait...sorry it's a shock. Some women don't even start wearing those till their 25-30. Yeah, why wear a G string, girlie your only 13 and you're not trying to catch any one in a provocative way. (Meaning know one's going to know what's underneath your pants) Just wear normal panties! ;) xx
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So.. my problem is , I took over 20 morning after pills. How much will that affect me? (link)
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WTF are you kidding me? TWENTY morning after pills? Please, tell me you are still alive and well at this HOUR that I write this. That is like taking an overdose and you can die from that. Consult with a doctor IMMEDIATELY. People tend to think the pain is so hurtful and they end up taking a bunch of pills without fully realizing that that many can and WILL hurt them. So best of luck to you...and If you have passed out already and consulted with a doctor by now, I hope this is a lesson for you. Be careful and take care.
Much love, -Extraordinary Gurl
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hi i'm 13/female
Whenever I run I get like sweat in my panites and its as if I peed but I know its not pee, but that is how much water comes out of my vagina, but I know its not pee cuz it doesn't smell like it. It smells like cum. But i know it's not cum either because I dont get horny when i run. (lol) If i run only like a block I will get alot of liquid down there. Then it's hard to walk cuz it's weighing me down and I'm worried if it's normal or not.
Please Help Me!!! I'm so comfused!!! Anything you have to say will help!!! Thanks to all that answer in advance! (link)
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Hey girl! When you run, you will sweat down there. Plus when you sweat, that stuff comes out. IT doesn't just happen when your turned on but it goes on anytime. Sometimes when you're sleeping,exercising, sitting down, or turned on. It's naturale.....human nature! lol
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I am 14 and I have a 6.5 inch penis and I've been reading and have seen that most girls don't like real big dicks.i know my gf is a virgin so she is tight. So basically do you think 6.5 inches it too big for her too have pleasure? (link)
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Dude.....LOL!.....um....okay. Alls I will say is this. YOU are 14. Wait till your 18 to have those worries. You're too young for this. Lots of guys + Girls wait to have sex until their 18,19, or 20.
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Hey I'm 13 and thinking about taking my life. I don't know where to get help from. In scared to go to my parents so somebody please help. I feel worthless and nobody wants me in their life anymore. Any advice? (link)
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Don't kill yourself. Trust me I have felt that too. when you feel you are worthless and no one cares. Trust me people do. Whether you know it or not, I'm sure your parents must love you even if it sometimes seems they dont. And if they or anyone else does not care, God does. There are so many kids taking their life because of sooo many problems. That includes me. I vowed I wouldn't after the other day....So if I can survive this chaos in my life, you can too. You have too much to live for. Think of it this way. In only about 6 years you'll be 20 something and out on your own. You'll be successful of your hard work, you can find someone who'll love you. Everything will work out right. It sounds like I'm convincing MYSELF as I write this....I am. Please Pray for me, yourself, and many others who feel this way! God bless you and I
xoxo Take care, and live! -Extraordinary Gurl
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mmmkkkaayy i wrote on here like last week the love of my life moved ....cant talk to him and so on so on. well its been like 2 weeks and i still really care for him right but now that he is gone ALOT of guys been trying to talk to me no like 5 or 6 but like 10 or 11 ..... like no joke but i only think some are cute and some i would love to date but i feel guilty that my ex moved. i mean he probably doing what he does and im here not wanting to do anything bcuz of that .what should i do ... i cant call or talk to him bcuz i dont have a phone and i miss him terribly /:
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Guys will be guys. Your ex has probably moved on. You should do the same. But if you are feeling vulnerable then you should wait to date again, especially since you could be emotionally fragile. I'm 14 and have had my fair share of sucky breakups, ex's etc. But if you feel you're strong enough then go for it. I mean you have guys knocking at your door. If you decide to try and date again, then have fun with it and don't take it too seriously. Until you can completely heal then you should. Plus like we're still young! Sooooo much time! ;)
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Why do I throw up when I'm on my period? (link)
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You throw up because of your horrific cramps! Do you take any prescribed medicine for it? Perhaps Midol or something to relieve the pain? Or maybe a heating pad? xoxo
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