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My life is over. nobody wants me around and I feel worthless
Hey I'm 13 and thinking about taking my life. I don't know where to get help from. In scared to go to my parents so somebody please help. I feel worthless and nobody wants me in their life anymore. Any advice?
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Taking your life is never the solution, no matter how right it feels at the moment. I have been in a similar situation where everyone I cared about left me and I felt worthless and on my own. If you have no one to tell your feelings too then try and help yourself, because your life will start to feel worth living when you yourself make a reason to live. I'm sure that you have some hobbies you can take up or make a social life for yourself. It sounds hard that its all on you to help yourself, however as soon as someone special comes in to your life or a special talent, it is a simple little step to making you feel less worthless.
Just remember that there are many people out there feeling like you do now, but in the future your life will seem much clearer and you will find happiness in ways. I was 13 when I felt like you, and now I look back and think how much I have improved and how I have found the good sides to my life.
Best wishes x
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Don't kill yourself. Trust me I have felt that too. when you feel you are worthless and no one cares. Trust me people do. Whether you know it or not, I'm sure your parents must love you even if it sometimes seems they dont. And if they or anyone else does not care, God does. There are so many kids taking their life because of sooo many problems. That includes me. I vowed I wouldn't after the other day....So if I can survive this chaos in my life, you can too. You have too much to live for. Think of it this way. In only about 6 years you'll be 20 something and out on your own. You'll be successful of your hard work, you can find someone who'll love you. Everything will work out right. It sounds like I'm convincing MYSELF as I write this....I am. Please Pray for me, yourself, and many others who feel this way! God bless you and I
xoxo Take care, and live! -Extraordinary Gurl
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Please dont!!!! As I was reading you question I started to cry. I want to help you in any way I can. Please listen to every word I say..PLEASE!!! Everyone was just like you at one point in time. I will just tell you this you are still young and still have good things to come, I dont know when but they will. You will find a special someone and all of that fun stuff. I am only a year older than you. Be happy you are woth something to everyone even me. Love is in the air and once you catch it you will be ok. be happy and stay happy. There is a saying that I have as a signatire on my phone and that is Live your life and be happy. You will be happy one day. Yes I know that you are not a happy person right now but you will be sooner or later.
Im here for anyone and I mean anyone.
If yo uneed help Im here for you.
Just remember to be and stay happy
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I really feel for you, so so much; I remember when I was your age, how lonely I felt, and had some thoughts just like you say. I remembered some ideas I had, some thoughts that came from reading books. From those books, I KNEW that there were other places, other people, things I could possibly do or experience. I knew that what I KNEW at that moment, what I FELT at that moment, was not all there was. There is MORE OUT THERE.
GOOD THINGS WILL COME, love, joys, fun, I promise you. If you can stick it out, you will learn that feelings do change. I send you so much love, an unbelievable amount of love to you as a fellow person.
One last thought for you, and then a recommendation for you.
Think of the world; there are kids and grownups who need so much: food, a friend, medicine, care, education... and the world needs so much to make it better for all of us.
If you grow up to be a doctor, teacher, artist, builder, police, minister, designer, you can bring happiness, hope, love, beauty, joy, or even save someone's life. If you live and grown up you will MAKE A DIFFERENCE for someone. YOU WILL MAKE SOMEONES LIFE BETTER. YOU CAN BE THE MAN OR WOMAN OF SOMEONE"S DREAMS!
If you dont live, you cannot do all those possible things, you cannot make someone or some people so so so so so happy.
I PROMISE YOU, PEOPLE LOVE YOU. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH. THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO LOVE YOU MORE THAN YOU KNOW. I PROMISE THAT TO YOU.
Now a recommendation. Talk to someone. Some people. Someone who has experience with therapy or counseling. A good person, a kind person. There are suicide prevention hotlines. People who are there to listen and understand you.
KNOW that you are in company with many many thousands of people right now, who have thoughts like you have. And thats just now. People like me, who thought this in the past, there are millions more of us.
PLEASE CALL ONE OR BOTH OF THESE:
(800) 273- 8255 national suicide prevention lifeline
(212) 673 - 3000 samaritans of new york
both numbers are confidential; they won't tell anyone, or save your information, and they are open 24 hours a day
REMEMBER, THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO LOVE YOU LIKE CRAZY AND WHO ARE ROOTING FOR YOU TO DO WELL AND BE HAPPY
LIKE I SAID, I AM ONE OF THEM
SENDING YOU HUGE AMOUNTS OF LOVE
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Please don't! When I was 13, I had the exact same feelings. Pretty much everyone feels this way at some point.
You have to reach out to people. You have to want to make friends. Being alone at such a dark time can make life even lonlier.
Do fun things whether you want to or not...such as going to the movies, the mall or a sports game. You probably aren't motivated right now to do those things, but getting out of the house will certainly help.
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