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to many guyz ... HELP!!
mmmkkkaayy i wrote on here like last week the love of my life moved ....cant talk to him and so on so on. well its been like 2 weeks and i still really care for him right but now that he is gone ALOT of guys been trying to talk to me no like 5 or 6 but like 10 or 11 ..... like no joke but i only think some are cute and some i would love to date but i feel guilty that my ex moved. i mean he probably doing what he does and im here not wanting to do anything bcuz of that .what should i do ... i cant call or talk to him bcuz i dont have a phone and i miss him terribly /:
thxx :D
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Guys will be guys. Your ex has probably moved on. You should do the same. But if you are feeling vulnerable then you should wait to date again, especially since you could be emotionally fragile. I'm 14 and have had my fair share of sucky breakups, ex's etc. But if you feel you're strong enough then go for it. I mean you have guys knocking at your door. If you decide to try and date again, then have fun with it and don't take it too seriously. Until you can completely heal then you should. Plus like we're still young! Sooooo much time! ;)
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I agree with the user below me
One can never truly move on if they are still hung up on someone else. If you aren't ready to date and you are feeling overwhelmed then tell the guys you aren't ready to date. I think it's good to take a little time off anyway, There is no need to jump the gun. Wait until you are over the guy that moved and then try again.
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In my opinion, it's not good to date when you're still in love with someone else. It's better to get over that person completely before deciding it's time to move on with another person.
I'm sure you're a pretty girl with a great personality, so lots of guys are talking to you. But there's this thing that happens to a girl when she suddenly becomes single again. Normally the girl is lonely and wanting a little bit of attention, so she gets super excited when a guy or several guys start noticing/talking to her. The thing is, in reality there's probably a lot of these guys you wouldn't want to be with but because it's all exciting having these guys interested in you, you can't see that normally you probably wouldn't like a lot of these guys.
Give yourself some time to heal and get over your ex before dating other guys. This could take a few months, but you need to be patient. It's better to start off on a clean slate with a new person than bring another person into your messy situation.
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