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I have a problem with my sister.
Okay so i have a problem.
Im 13 and my older sister is 15.
My cousins(16 & 18yearolds)came to hang out and take us and my little 9 yr old sister shopping and to hang out.
So they went to pick up a boy, Brian(17) and we went to a park and ate some ice cream. Then they brought him home. They hid him under the bed and told my mom they were sleeping over(my cousins) and long story short Brian ended up having UNPROTECTED sex, the rest of us were watching a movie & my LITTLE NINE YEAR OLD sister, me, and my cousin walked in on them.
I feel really disgusted with my sister & cant look her inth eye. Then she BEGGED my older cousin to buy the 'after sex whatever' pills. And she never talks to brian after that. I dont know if that was her first time or if all those times she went to havesleepovers werent such a goo d idea. I want things to go back to nomal, i still love her ( she's my sister) but i really dont think much Of her, She used to be my idol but now i dont wanna be anything like her. But i feel really bad ( even cried a couple of times) but it was kind of my fault too. I picked the lock with my cousin because we just thought they were making out,we thought chrissy knew better then that. What should i do?
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You mean the morning after pills? And further more no your sister is not 18 but the boy is not ether. So nothing with the law is in here if you know what I mean. And it's your little sister that you should really be worried about. I mean at nine you sister should not know how to have sex. How do you think we have 10,11 and12 mother's! And if your sister want to be dumb and have unpotected sex..don't be like her. But that is her bees wax. You should have not picked the lock. You should say you are sorry for doing that. But other then that? Can't do much about it can you?
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Omg I feel so bad for you. See this kinda stuff is what I can relate to. When I was 9 and 10 a lit I was exposed to. Chaos cuz of my OLDEST sister. I'm 14 now and I know that must have been traumatic for your younger sister. Someone has to pay. I know you look up to your sister but for a while you need yo wait for an apology from her. To be quite honest...I'd tell my parents what you and your sister saw because that could really affect your younger sis. She might want to do that at your older sisters age and experiment with all that. So think about your younger sis who is ALSO your family. Who's more important. Your older sis who CHOSE to do that? Or your innocent 9 year old sister??? time will heal wounds and you guys'll be fine but someone has to know and your 9 yr old will have to have "the talk" and everything you know?
Sorry I feel very strongly about that cuz I can relate so much
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Your sister's decisions are your sister's decisions.
You should have not picked the lock like that, that's her privacy.
Just because she is your idol.. and you don't want to be like her.. means you have to be like her.
Follow your own footsteps, I know I don't follow my sister's.. I have learned from both my sister's mistakes not to make the same mistakes.. I have made my own mistakes and what not, but not as nearly like they have. You shouldn't be a follower to anyone, your at the perfect age where you will learn the difference between a leader and a follower.
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