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Last Update: December 3, 2011
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first hand, let me say i just received the results of my gonnoreah/chlamydia test and they were negative, and im waiting on the results of my pap. but the main reason i got both of these tests, is this, ive been having a very thin white discharge for a long time now. it never really makes it all of the way out of me and was brought to my attention when i was being fingered. inspected that, and it was embarrassingly true
icould almost "scrape" it out of me, ive googled this and havent some up with much, explains why im here. wondering if this is normal? let me add this, its VERY thin, as well. and wondering if anyones had this and or what it could be.

freakin' me out. (link)
It is good to know that you have taken action to find out the cause of your thin discharge. From my experience around doctors & women, I can state that this may be normal and there may be nothing wrong with you have such discharge. Most women tend to have some type of discharge which may vary from thin, thick, clear and a milky type colour. Sometimes you will get a clear gluey type of discharge that can be caused my ovalution, pregnancy,hormone imbalance or by just having a high sexual urge.


me and a friend had sex and we didnt use a condom and im not on birth control. I knew he cummed in me because it didnt just cum back out in my shorts. I have had little signs but not much to tell im really pregnant. SO how can i know for sure without taking a pregnancy test, becuase if my parents found out im screwed. (link)
The first signs of pregnancy is swelled tender breast, nausea and vomitting. You may see hormone changes as well and mood swings. I still suggest you seek medical advice to ensure that you or have a mature person get you a pregnancy test.


Okay so a few weeks ago, I felt kind of wet in my panties. I thought it was my period. But when i went to the bathroom to put a pad on, there was white gooey stuff in my panties. I have it everyday now. Is this normal? (link)
You are as normal as can be. You are ovualating hence the clear or white gluely substance in your vagina from time to time. It is natural and no need to worry.


For a while now I have been selling pills to some of my friends but I have been the "middle man." If my friends ever need pills I normally charge them about $10 or so more because I have been getting them cheap from my big dealers.

Today one of my friends that I have bought pot from a few times asked me for $1,000 worth of pills and I said sure. When we went to my dealers house I went inside to get the pills but I noticed it was kind of sketchy because a lot of people were in their cars outside of my dealers house. I went through with the deal and gave the pills to the guy asking for it and went on my way.

After leaving that location, I was pulled over. The cops searched me, I had nothing. As well as searched the guys I was with, they had nothing. The cop took me in (because I was the guy who went inside and physically got the pills) and questioned me. He asked me about the dealer and all the pills and whatnot and suggested that I snitch on other dealers I know of.......this is where the big question lies so pay attention...... they then said that I had until next wednesday(it is now thursday) to come and snitch to them or else they would send me to jail. When I asked how they could send me to jail they said "they know who I am" and they "knew I was a middle man" and that they "had enough to put me away for 3 years."

Now, is it really true that they can put me into jail because they've "seen" or "heard" my name as a middle man? THey have no proof/evidence and when I was pulled over I had no drugs on me.

ANY HELP IS GREAT. THANKS GUYS. (link)
I suggest you take this chance to get out of illegal activities and consider this to be your lucky moment. If the cops had enough to jail you, you would not be posting your question on this website. GET OUT OF DRUGS!!


well i like this guy and we talk sometimes but i don't know if he likes me what should i do (link)
You need to be brave and just ask. the worst he can say is no, but there is a chance that he could be the one.


basically my blackberry bold 9780 the screen keeps mashing up and i aint even had it for a year it comes up after a long time then goes again whats wrong with it ! help (link)
Blackberry famous problem...upgrade to a newer blackberry or get an android.


Do you really believe that there is life after death because I've been thinking of ending mine. Than I realised eternity is a long time to spend in the company of the things that made me end it in the first place. (link)
The answer to life and death is always a myth; that all mankind seeks an answer for. Apparently, no one knows about life after death, as no living-natural man has come back from death before. I see life as a gift knowing that we came from darkness and will return to such. What happens after death is beyond all imaginations. The great thing is that there is a book on earth that tells us about life after death and it may be a good source to seek in finding answers to the questions asked.


So my boyfriend and I have been dating around a year. We always hold and hands and he puts his arm around me, but we didn't kiss for a long time. Once we finally kissed like a month later he tried to French kiss me, I was expecting it so I backed away but the next day I gave in. After that we were sitting together one time and he starts kissing me and then puts his hand on my chest and then he even slipped his hand in my shirt an was messing around. I liked it so I didn't stop him. The very nex day we were watching a movie and e does the same thing but this tine he slipped his hand down my pants.
Now two days ago we were walking an we went under a bridge and started making out and he kept lifting my shirt up and finally I undid my bra and he was touching and kissing me there and he unbuttoned his pants and put my hand down there.

None if this feels wrong because I know I'm not going to actually go all the way, and I love him. But I don't know if he'll stop loving me or feel differently about me. Should I stop doing this stuff? I'm 16 and he's 14 by the way. (link)
If you really think that you are not going to go the distance...Why start? You will eventually give in to his advancements and your next post will state "Help! Pregnant mum at sixteen" I suggest that you seek advice on sexual affairs and situations with your parents. Parents knows best and will always point and guide their children in the right direction. Remember - Parents were sixteen too.


Ok 1st of all I would like to say that I am overweight and hunchback. I tried doing a diet with my family and it went well for about 3 days. I just cant do it because I love sweets and other stuff but I dont like veggies other than carrots and celery but they have to be in soup!!!!!... I dont eat salads.... I go camping every week in the summer and I told everyone that I would be half the person I was 2 weeks ago. If you have any siggestions of dieting and getting rid on my hunchback problem please help. Thanks for everyons support!!!!! :D

just to let you know I will tell you wat I do eat and what I dont eat....

here is what I eat chicken, pizza, steak, clams, ham, burgers, carrots, celery, spegetti, rigatoni, garlic bread, roast beef, fish but only at certain resturants, soup, subway, mcdonalds, burger king,mr heros, and alot of resturants.

here is what I dont eat veggies other that carrots and celery, rice, shrimp... There are lots more things that I eat and do not eat but I cant think about them right now. Please help if you can. (link)
I know if you switch from what you eat to what you don't eat will certainly change your overweight problem. As for the hunchback problem -I suggest you seek the advice of a Chiropractor and posture expert to help you correct and train yourself in correct posturing.


This is my second UTI in like a month. I always pee and shower after sex and we do use condoms. I know its a UTI because I went to the gyno. I'm just wondering why this keeps happening to me? (link)
UTI can be caused through many things. I sugeest you absence yourself from sexual activity for a few weeks to see if this is the underlying cause to your problem.




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