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pleease help i am scared i might be pregnant and i am only 13
hey i am 13 and i think i might be pregnant cause i am getting really sick and i am getting cramps please help me so i now if i am
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I think your the girl who's question I just answered.
First makes sure your pregnant. You can buy a home pregnancy test kit. It is possible you are not pregnant and what you feel is nerves for having sex and are know scared that you are pregnant.
If you are then as I wrote in my answer before:
"How you tell them is easy, you just open your mouth and say the words. Probably the best time to tell them would be during dinner.
It is not the telling them that is the problem it is the reaction to you telling them that is going to be the problem. For that I do not have any answers.
What I do know is they are going to have questions, lots of them. The most important among the questions is who the father is? How old is he? Did he in anyway force you to have sex? How far along in your pregnancy are you? I'm sure your parents will have more questions but these are the big ones. Answer all of the questions truthfully as lying at this point is not going to help anything.
There will be a lot of crying, you and your mom. A lot of screaming, you and your parents. You should try to avoid the screaming as it will not resolve anything."
If you are not pregnant, I hope you are not, then a lecture is appropriate NOW. YOU ARE 13 YEARS OLD, WHAT ARE YOU DOING HAVING SEX. Your body may be capable but you are not capable of understanding all of the consequences of adult male/female interactions. You do not need to have sex to keep a boyfriend.
Boys are hard wired from puberty to seek out sex. Their hormones demand relief. They confuse lust with love. Any boy who tells you either have sex with me or I'm leaving does not love you, does not respect you and most of all does not DESERVE YOU.
Sex is not a commodity you trade for companionship. Sex at the right time is a lovely thing between two adults who are looking at making a commitment to one another. Not two children, yes you are still a child, who tomorrow or next week will be with someone else.
Hopefully you are not pregnant. If so let this be a lesson to you. Remember the next time a boy wants sex how scared your are right now. Tell him no and keep your clothes on, especially you pants and panties.
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Ok omg, I'm 14.....gurl! Your having sex? What is wrong with you? Don't you want to wait for all that?
I hope you are not preggo because that'll be a huge responsibility.
You might be on your period? Are you? If not then I suggest you go to the doctor. If you start having morning sickness and throwing up then that's a sign. You might as well just tell your parents because either way it's going to come out somehow. Especially if you are pregnant, what are you going to do and how could you tell your parents?? So it's all you can do. No other option I can think of. And if you are not preggo, let this be a major wake up call.
xoxo Extraordinary Gurl
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