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i need to tell my perents i am pregnent and i am only 13!


Question Posted Tuesday November 1 2011, 12:10 pm

how can you tell your mam and dad you are preg but you are only 13

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adviceman49 answered Wednesday November 2 2011, 10:45 am:
How you tell them is easy, you just open your mouth and say the words. Probably the best time to tell them would be during dinner.

It i s not the telling them that is the problem it is the reaction to you telling them that is going to be the problem. For that I do not have any answers.


What I do know is they are going to have questions, lots of them. The most important among the questions is who the father is? How old is he? Did he in anyway force you to have sex? How far along in your pregnancy are you? I'm sure your parents will have more questions but these are the big ones. Answer all of the questions truthfully as lying at this point is not going to help anything.


There will be a lot of crying, you and your mom. A lot of screaming, you and your parents. You should try to avoid the screaming as it will not resolve anything.


A lecture is probably appropriate at this point but I'll leave that to your parents.

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AdviceMistress answered Wednesday November 2 2011, 10:22 am:
Honesty is the BEST policy!
The sooner you tell them the better. I think the best way would be face to face and not over text or even email. Good luck!

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orphans answered Tuesday November 1 2011, 8:56 pm:
What do you mean, how can you tell them? You don't have much of a choice really. You sit them both down and tell them: 'Mum, Dad, I'm pregnant'.

There, done. Obviously it won't be as easy as making a baby: any idiot can do that. That's my advice though. I don't wan't to criticise you for being a child, and then having a child, or give you advice on what to do with the baby. Believe me, the temptation is great. But that's not your question.

Good luck :)

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