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my boyfriend wants to have sex with me
hi my name is emma i am 13 and my boyfriend wants to have sex with me what do i do
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The question is, do YOU want to? I'm about to be 14 in a month and i know by now that guys around our age don't just say they love you for no reason. They always want something and their intentions are not good! They just want you in bed with them and then they don't even call you or want anything to do with you sfterwards and you feel rejected. If he tells you that you don't "love" him just because you won't have sex with him, thrn e doesn't love you. And you obviously aren't ready since you're asking us what to do. So ya if i were you, i would say no, break up with him and run, literally. lol no i'm kidding but i would acually do that!
Anyways i REALLY don't think this is a good idea for you to even hang around him anymore. But you know what, in the end you're just gunna do what you want so I really don't think my answer made a difference.
I hope i helped!!! And good luck
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There really isn't a "right age" to have sex. But, think of this before you have sex with anyone: Would you be willing to have his baby? Because that's the chance you take every time you lay dawn.
Before you say yes to that because you "love him" or whatever, You are 13. How easy would it be to tell your mom and dad that you're pregnant? Are you ready to give up everything, like really everything. Unless you are, I wouldn't advise having sex. Sh*t happens and people get pregnant and it probably wouldn't be a very cool thing in middle school because I doubt either of you have an income or the maturity to support another human being, or ANOTHER child at that. Not saying you will get pregnant but, if you have sex, there's a possibility. why risk it?
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Actually the legal age is 16 years old, so don't as you're illegal and could get prosecuted.
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Hell no.Don't have sex with him. I'm 14 and it would be nice to have a boy friend...BUT when it come's to sex no. I'm not the right age your not the right age. 18. That what the LAW said. Tell your boy friend NO. If he ask again? Then you dose not care that you said no. That not some one you want to be with got it? And think of having sex like this: A gift that you don't want to give to everbody and that you can't get back. Enjoy being 13. And don't give that gift away to soon. Never be able to get it back. Remember.
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If you have to ask us what to do then you are most definitely not ready. At 13, You shouldn't be having sex anyway. If your boyfriend continues to be pushy you tell him no and if he doesn't like it then he can leave. Your boyfriend should respect you, Not pressure you into doing something you aren't nowhere ready for.
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You're 13..
One, you're too young.
Two, you're asking us what to do..which clearly states that you are not ready.
Three, tell him that you are only 13 and you aren't ready.
At 13, you shouldn't be sleeping around and what not's. You're still a child, continue to do child/young teenage things. Don't try to grow up to fast. When your ready to have sex, you will know you are ready. Sex is an adult thing.
If you need anymore things, feel free to inbox me one.
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Dude, are you kidding me? I'm 14 and that is a no-no . Tell him no, you have too much integrity,self respect, pride, and you're too young. If he gets mad or begs...then he's not the one for you. Break up with him because obviously he does not give a shiz about you or your feelings. Sorry to break it to you. Just gotta keep it real. It's either he will respect that or he won't. End of story. Take care! -Extraordinary Gurl
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What do you do; You tell him no!!! You are way to young to be even thing of having adult sexual relations(Intercourse).
When boys enter puberty they become hard wired to have sex. That is about all they think of. It is a normal reaction to the hormones coursing through their bodies. They need to relieve the sexual tension brought on by these hormones and they look for someone, anyone who will give them that relief. Because of this they confuse lust with love.
You do not have to give in to him and have intercourse with him. He can relieve the sexual tension in the privacy of his bedroom or bathroom by masturbating.
If you were to give into him and help him in anyway say with a handjob or blowjob you will get a reputation you do not want. For there is another thing about a teenage boy that is also common to all teenage boys; they cannot keep a secret, especially about sex.
My advice is to tell him you are not yet ready for any type of sexual relations. If he cannot respect that and leaves you. Then you will know it was not love but lust that he saw in dating you. Then you can find someone that will love and respect you.
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You need to ask yourself are you ready?
Do you feel 100% it's right in your heart?
If your in doubt, say no.
Think about the consequences of these actions ;
will the relationship last after?
will i get pregnant?
what about if he is using me?
Can you handle the responsibility of being pregnant if that happened? Can you handle all your friends going out whilst your stuck at home for nine months not being able to be a kid. What would your parents think, would they be there for you?
I personally feel that you are too young to handle the emotional concept of sex. I don't want you to regret it - your so young, you should never live in regret at such a young age.
You may not want to hear this but the likely chance of you staying together is low, and your relationship may not be as fruitful, maybe wait. I I waited and it's the best thing I ever did. When you are 13, you can't go out, you don't have money, you can't go away together, you can't eat out, you can't do what couples do to keep the relationship interesting. And when I finally had sex I was so happy because it was something I got to look forward to.
Whereas if you have sex now, what will you have to look forward too? You will see friends as you get older, talk to you about how happy they are for doing it, but looking back where you happy or did you do it to try and keep your boyfriend?
I cannot judge, I just hope you do what is right for you. If you are considering it, research and have a look at the PROTECTION that is available, if you are going to do it, do it right. Try to confide in an adult. Maybe there is a Councillor at school who will be able to help you make the right decision. It's confidential, and they are there to make sure you are happy.
I hope you make the right decision that is best for you.
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