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Birthday party for boyfriend
19/f...boyfriend is gonna be 20. throwing a party for him. He's inviting a couple friends from work (like 5, all guys) he asked me to invite girls. because he said "most guys want to get drunk and meet/have sex with girls at parties" 1.this makes me not want to have the party. and 2. this makes me unsure of who to invite. I told him to tell the guys to bring girls. No strippers etc. But he tells me that I need to invite my friends otherwise his friends wont be satisfied.. I don't know what to do. Help me out?
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You need to break up with your boyfriend because he's a scumbag. Yeah, guys go to parties to get drunk and get laid. That has been true since time immemorial. That doesn't mean, though, that you have to tolerate it in your personal life.
Have some standards and remember that you are the only one who can live your life. So take control of it and if you have to punt the boyfriend, do it. And then find a guy who has more respect for both himself and you. They're out there. If this one guy wanted you, you can bet that there are ten more who are standing in line waiting for you to kick him to the curb so that they can have a shot. So no need to put all your eggs in the current basket, so to speak.
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You should tell your boyfriend how you feel about it. His request and the request of his friends seems unfair and really shallow. A party is a party and everyone is celebrating his birthday it's not some make out party. Also it depends where it is as well if you're having it at your hosue absolutely not I would just say no. If you are going out somewhere in public and you don't want your friends to go with his friends then I would highly suggest talking to your boyfriend. He should not be putting you into this predicament. Good luck!
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Chances are he's just trying to hook his work friends up so they will have more respect for him, or maybe something along those lines. But what his friends want is what most single guys want, right? You don't have to do this especially since I don't know you at all but maybe this. Invite friends, some single, some not who have some sort of self control, and a few that don't. But before you set anything up, think to yourself, could any of this come back to bite me in the ass? Best of luck on setting up your boyfriends b day party.
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