|
i fucked up.
18/f
basically i met this boy over the summer and we hung out for like five months. i didnt want a boyfriend i was still in love with my ex, basically he wanted to date me for awhile and i didnt. i finally want to date him and he said romeo died along time ago. he met someone else. he doesnt even miss me or text me or anything anymore. i painted him a picture for his birthday and not being blunt but im a very good artist. i put so much effort and work into it like his birthdays coming up. i dont even want to give it to him, cause it hurts alot right now cause i finally fell for him too late. i know time heals all wounds. do you think theres any chance for us to be a "thing" again?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
There could be a chance, but you need to forget about it for a while. Firstly because its not fair on his current relationship or his new girlfriend, secondly because you need to take time out to adress your feelings.
The thing is, we want what we can't have right? So becasue he's with his new girlfriend,you CAN'T have him, so this makes you WANT him. Follow?
My point is, whilst you may want him back because you want to fufill a loss, if you him back-what happens if things don't work out?
My advice is this: Move on. I know its tough and we've all been there before, but there has to be a point somewhere where we draw the line, because otherwise we'd spend half of our lives chasing a dream of somethign out of our reach. Take up a new hobby, chill with girl mates and have a good laugh. The time will come where you find that guy who accepts you for who you are with no strings attatched. Also check out the 'search questions' link on this site, as this problem seems to be common therfore you can find more advice.
Good luck :)
]
You are correct, Time does heal all wounds.
This guy is in a relationship now, Sometimes we can hope and pray for something to happen but you really shouldn't let the thought get the best of you. It's hurtful sure it is but you also need to keep in mind what is meant to be is meant to be and what is not is not. From your statement you are dwelling on the possibilities. Maybe in the future there is a chance but in the meantime this guy is in a relationship with someone else and it is best too move on and try and get over it. It will take time and it won't happen overnight but sooner or later it will.
]
More Questions: |