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me and my boyfriends mom hate eachother
Right I've been with my boyfriend 3months, and his mother actually hates me, she has even stopped him from seeing me, and stopped all contact-we are texting secretly & he wants me to have a baby with him to make her realise we are in love, but I'm 16 is this the right choice or should I end it even tho it hurts? Helppp <3
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It's definitely not the right choice to have a baby at 16.
First of all, it won't make his mom realize you guys are in love. It will probably just make her not like you more.
Having at baby at 16 could make your life go downhill. School will become a problem, going to college will become a problem, then money will be a problem. At 16, there is no way you could afford a baby anyways. Plus, it wouldn't be fair to the child you have.
Having a baby is pretty much a full time job. Affording a baby is a full time job as well as raising the kid.
It will probably end up pushing the guy away. You guys have only been together for 3 months. Not even a year. You have a lot ahead of you and you might not even be with this guy forever. Having a kid can scare him off even if he says he wants one right now.
So there are so many teenage moms I can tell you about that they thought that the boy was gonna be a great dad but then he left her within the first trimester. 8 out of 10 guys don't even end up marrying the teen mom of their baby.
I would just end this relationship even if it hurts because he doesn't sound like he's being very smart and you don't want to be pressured into having sex this young.
Good luck:)
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You are heading to dig yourself a very very deep hole
As his mother, She has the right to say who her son does and doesn't date. This boy lives under his mothers roof, Lives by her rules.
The old saying "You date someone, You are dating their family too" Same thing if you were to marry someone. Really, Instead of trying to piss the mother off where she could possible press charges against you to a NO contact order etc. Why don't you start respecting her choice to stay away from her son? Whether you approve of her or not doesn't change the fact that her son is a minor and until he turns 18 she DOES have say. Having a baby at 16 years old is not by any means going to prove that you love her son rather get her to think you are not only gullible but possibly took advantage of her son in the worst way possible. Having a baby at such a young age is the worst thing you can do not only to him but to yourself and the baby. It's a selfish move and most certainly isn't a very smart one either.
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