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I went to a festival over the weekend, and Judas Priest played there (love them :) )
And I was wondering, when the lead singer, Rob Halford, sings, why does he look down, instead of looking at the crowd?
I mean, he looked at the crowd when talking, but when singing, he looked down all the time.
Is there any particular reason why? or is that just his style?
Btw, I want answers from people who know facts or have seen Judas Priest live. I don't want random guesses from people who don't know anything such as ''Maybe he's shy or nerveous?''
Thanks :) (link)
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He has always done that. I have never
heard of a reason why, never even thought
about it really until you mentioned it. :)
I guess it must just be his style. He
could be a bit shy, but you'd think he
would have gotten over that by now!
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I was studying at a cafe today, when the guy next to me (just for the sake of talking to me), asked if I knew how to fill out information for some computer thing...I said I didn't, and resumed with my work. Less than a minute later, he turned around and asked me, "are you single?" and I replied, "I don't see why that matters." I felt a little awkward, so I got up and left the area, and under his breath he said " it's just a question." Was my answer/reaction a little uncalled for or rude? Now, to clarify, I don't care about how he felt, but I want to know for future reference...I mean, guys/men ask little questions all the time, and sometimes women want to know how to respond. I do not want to be rude, but I don't want to be a pushover either. Anyway, any advice/comments are greatly appreciated! By the way, I am 23/F. (link)
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Like Cux, my first response when reading it
was the same. How rude. :)
I do understand that being single and not
wanting to be hassled by men can be a
problem. However, single guys wanting to
meet women will ask or they will never
know. Nothing like thinking later that
you should have just asked.
You might have said, "I'm single but
not interested". Maybe even, "I'm
sorry, not trying to be rude, but thats
none of your business."
I know you don't care about how he felt.
But even that sounds a little rude. You
need to remember that everyone has feelings.
Keep in mind that a guy who asks you
questions may have been working up the
courage to talk to you for a while. Be
firm, but as polite as possible. Only get
rude if they just don't seem to get it. :)
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I am a 20years old female and come from a very religious family who believes that sex before marriage is a sin. All the women in my family were virgins until their wedding nights and the same is thought of me. My family is unaware that in my mid teen years I had been sexually active. I have not had sex in a while. I met this incredible guy who I love dearly and am serious about, and I want to have sex with.
I am deathly afraid of getting caught.
I can not decide between my family's happiness or my own. I feel like choosing my own would be selfish.
I have two scenarios. Either I have sex with the guy I deeply love, behind my family's back and their morals, and just pray I don't get caught
or pregnant.
Or I don't have sex with him in order to please my family's beliefs, and live the rest of my life heartbroken that I lost my love.
Please give me your honest opinion on what I should do. THANK YOU SO MUCH.
Also if you have time I have one more question. I've been on Lutera for almost 2months. I would like to know how effective birth control pills are if taken everyday at the same time? And do you know anyone who conceived a child while using birth control pills and were using them correctly as directed? (link)
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I won't tell you to go against family wishes
because that is something you must decide for yourself.
However, I can give you some things
to think about..
Being on birth control for 2 months, you
are as protected as you can be against
getting pregnant. There have been cases
of a woman getting pregnant while on
birth control pills. Nothing is 100%,
but it is rare.
In reality you have already gone against
your family's beliefs. You are not a virgin
if you had sex in your teens. Even if you
haven't had sex in a while, it doesn't
change that fact.
Any man who really loves you will not
leave you if you don't have sex with them.
He will respect your wishes and beliefs.
He may want to and he may keep asking,
but he will wait. Mighty good test of
his true feelings, by the way. :)
Lastly, you are 20 years old. An adult.
You are free to believe however you want
to believe.
I know a lot of cultures aren't as free
thinking as those of us in the United states.
There is nothing wrong with those beliefs
but they do make it hard on young adults
who grow up or move here from other countries.
In the end the decision is yours. I personally
don't feel that the sex life of a 20 year old
is the parents business either way.
Good luck with this very hard decision. :)
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Ok, I got my hair cut the other day, and I finally got the lady to understand I wanted the ends of my hair razored lol. Unfortunately, she did not do it as much as I wanted :/. So, the question being, is there a store you can buy a razor comb from? I'd prefer not to order it, but I will if I need to. I just want to be able to make it as "wispy" as I want, and I don't have the time to go to the hair salon all the time. :) Thanks! (link)
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Last time I bought one I got it at Walgreen's
drug store. Walmart used to carry them but they don't anymore. :)
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16/f
im pretty sure i have a yeast infection and dont know what to do about it.
my vagina is red and hurts/burns constantly, it feels like i have cuts on it or something :/
and it has white liquid/gooey stuff sometimes. and its not cum or toliet paper. :/
if i could know what it is or what to do about it i would really appericate it!
also, im a virgin if that helps figure it out. (link)
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You could have a yeast infection. We can't
know that for sure so you need to see your
doctor. You will need medicine before it
gets worse, so see a doctor as soon as
possible.
There are many causes for a yeast infection.
Just taking antibiotics can cause them. You
don't have to be sexually active to get a
yeast infection. Don't put off telling your
mom thinking her or a doctor will think that.
(You may not but some teens think this) Here
is a list of some things that may cause one.
https://www.msu.edu/~eisthen/yeast/causes.html
You could try an over the counter medication
like Monostat. But, if yeast isn't the cause
of the infection you have wasted some time
in getting treated. They are also pretty expensive.
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the party..was okay..i picked him up..i gave him a monster. =]
everything was okay, but apparently he doesnt dance anymore..everyone was trying to get him up, but it wasnt working..at 1 point i was talking to him, got upset, where i just got up and walked out, after like a few minutes, he came outside...and yeah.
a few times, we ended up going outside at the same time to be left alone, and went opposite directions...i once went outside with sam, and he was outside. i got so annoyed, that i threw my water bottle, and it hit hard on the ground..and he looked over..and i walked the other way..turned around, picked it up and walked far the other direction...then at one point. he told me not to care, not to worry..and i was speechless..and hes all "i dont want you to say anything" and i just turned my head..and put my head down, and closed my eyes.. then everyone started to gather around us...where i just got up and walked out.. then 3 people went after me..apparently some people saw what happened. then sam was all "there is only one way to fix this...tell him your the last person to be self centered, that isnt you..." then yeh...people were trying to get me to dance..and i just couldnt and hes all "if i wasnt here, would you dance" and im like "honestly no..because i would you know you were probably home staring at a wall depressed" and he almost didnt come..his mom forced him out..and yeah i told him on how thursday..i wasnt even a dancing type person because he was on my mind..and yep. then his dad came..and he opened and closed the car door for me -_-. somethings don't change..but yeah. (link)
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At least he got out of the house.
Hope that means he will leave more often now.
It sometimes takes people a while to get
over a break-up. Sitting around feeling
sorry for himself won't work very good.
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I have currently exclaimed to my mother that I am Bisexual. I am recently a virgin. However she says that 'bisexual' means to have sex with a guy and a girl. I think it means to be attracted to girls and guys (like liking them). But she says i'm wrong. I have a girlfriend(i am a girl), and she doesn't know about it. I am not a lesbian, i just like girls and guys. I ve had boyfriends, and now i have a girlfriend. Is her answer correct or is mine. (link)
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According to Answers.com your mother is correct.
Sexual activity with both men and women.
Merely being attracted doesn't necessarily
make you bisexual.
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So my boyfriend and i have been going out for a while.& He asked me for the first time when am i going to tell my parents about "us" and i said i dont know.He does'nt wanna ruin the good relationship he has with my parents and he does'nt wanna keep it from them.&& when my parents met him for the first time they loved him.But the first time my parents met him he wasnt my boyfriend he was just a friend.But my best friend told me that he liked me and i knew that so i went ahead and told my mom and she said oh well thats sweet.He's been coming to my house alot offteen since its summer and all and i think shes suspecious and i havent told her anything yet cause everytime hes at my house im afraid she'll be paranoid.So i havent told her or my dad.& if my dad finds out he'll go crazy on me and not want my boyfriend to come over.Soooo how do i tell my mom? (link)
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Go ahead and tell your mom. I bet she knows
anyway. Telling her won't make her paranoid.
Believe me, moms worry about guys visiting
boyfriend or not. So nothing will change. :)
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I'm 17/f. Colorado.
I knew this guy for about 3 years. We're really close and best friends. He tells me everything and I tell him everything. But we don't see as much as we use to because its summer and his parents are extremly strict with him and don't let him go out with his friends or anywhere else. So i haven't talked to him since the last day of school 2 months ago. I seen him last month like two times, but I couldn't say hi because he was with his family and they hate it when girl's talk to him. My friend gave him my number a few weeks ago to call me, but he hasn't called. And one day I was just listening to music and then I realized that I was completly head over heels, in love with him. And ever since then I've been seeing his name everywhere I go and I just can't stop thinking about him. I know for a fact that I have deep feelings for him. And I want to let him know, but I'm scared of telling him how I feel. I told him 2 years ago that I had a crush on him and he just wanted to be friends. And i accepted that so since then me and him have been friends then we began to be best friends. I still a little bit had feelings for him. Since I haven't seen him or talked to him I'm going to call him to see how's he doing. And I want us to catch up in stuff. I'm not going to tell him how I feel right there and then but, when the time is right I want to. And I need an opinion. How do you think I should tell him the way I feel towards him? I don't want to say hey I was thinking one day about you and I love you! Because then he might get wierded out but, I at least want him to know that I have deep feelings for him. I kissed him before but, that was with no attachments. And I kissed his cousin. That was a mistake but, he didn't get mad about it. And he knows that I don't like his cousin. How do you think I should tell him the way I feel? I can't think of anyone else to spend the rest of my life with. He's everything I ever wanted a person to be. Please give me your opinion. Sorry if I wrote to much.
I would greatly appreciate if you gave me an opinion. Thank you.
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Hes 17 and his parents won't let him talk
to girls? Wow. First you need to be able to
spend more time with him. Make sure your
feelings aren't just stronger because you
can't see him.
After that is accomplished you want to
wait until you think he may feel the same.
When you next see him tell him you didn't
realize you would miss him so much. See
if he says something similar. Maybe ask
him if he thinks you could ever be more
than friends. If he says no then hold off
saying anything for a while. If he thinks
you might then tell him you really like
him a lot. Don't tell him you LOVE him
though. That might scare him off.
Good luck! :)
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I know this is probably going to sound dumb to most people, but im curious. I've been having sex for over two years now. And I'm just wondering, how do I know if my cherry has popped. Some people say it hurt, some say yu bleed. But I never bled after having sex. (link)
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The stories of pain and blood are greatly exaggerated. Unless you have a very thick
hymen there is little or no pain and little
or no blood. Most active girls or those who
have used tampons have broken their hymen
before they even have sex.
So if you have sex your "cherry" has been
"popped". :)
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me and my boyfriend has been together for a year now. he has changed alot. when he is out with his friends and i call him, he tells me that he is busy and can't talk. but that really doesn't make since to me because he turns around a text me. i feel like if you are busy then how can u take out the time to text me but you are busy. it's takes more time to text then to actually talk to him. so should i suspect that he is cheating. he also acts very differnt towards me too. (link)
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He probably simply doesn't want his
friends listening in on his private
conversations. Not odd at all.
Unless they are looking over his shoulder,
texting is more private. If he is acting
different ask him why. Don't it around
and worry if hes cheating. Talk to him
and see whats going on. :)
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so im gettin my wisdom teeth out tomorrow. the surgeon gave us a brochure to look at, and in there it says during the operation im not allowed to have any make-up, nail polish, or jewelry on. i was just wondering if anybody knew why that is? i mean, what's gonna happen if im wearing nail polish ?? it just sounds crazy. (link)
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They will be touching your face a lot so
they probably don't want to risk getting
make-up in your mouth and possibly causing
infection.
They don't want to be responsible for
jewelry. Its usually customary not to
allow jewelry where oxygen may be used
either. Its rare but sparks can cause
fires. They see jewelery as possibly
causing a spark.
They don't want you wearing polish
because since you will be under
anesthesia they want to be able to
check your capillary refill.Capillary
refill is the rate at which blood refills
empty capillaries. It can be measured by
pressing a fingernail until it turns white,
and taking note of the time needed for
color to return once the nail is released.
Normal refill time is less than 2 seconds.
Its just a way of keeping watch over you
while you're under. :)
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hello .
me and my ex boyfriend broke up exactly a month ago today .
and yes, i am still NOT over him .
and i heard today from his best friend that he likes someone already .
and like i feel like my heart just got torn out .
there's a lot of guys that hit on me, and i always say no just because i'm always thiking about it .
and i dont want a new boyfriend because i don't want to get hurt again .
any help to make me feel better ? (link)
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Yes there is. Stop saying no to those
other guys. I'm serious. Your heart
may not be in it quite yet, but the
fastest way to move on is to do just
that. Get back out there and find
someone new. It doesn't have to ever
be a serious relationship, but go out
and at least try to have fun.
If you have relationships with other
people you're bound to get hurt sooner
or later. Its not fun, but you can't
let it keep you from caring and trying
either. You'll be ok. You'll see. :)
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Ok i have lice i effin know itt..
So what kills licee?
My family is really kinda low on moneyy..
Dont have a car that workss..
sooo...
Does sea breeze kill it??
Cause i have that stuff...
What shampoo or something??
Pleasee help (link)
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Using kerosene can get you killed.
I don't advise you to do that.
Mayonnaise may smother the live ones
but does nothing to get rid of the
nits.
You really need a prescription shampoo.
An over the counter brand is better than
none at all. Ask a pharmacist what to use.
All bedding and anything that your head
comes in contact with will need to be
washed too. If something isn't done then it
could spread to other family members.
Try your local health department. They
may be able to get you something.
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Him (12:38:57 AM): amswer a question for me
Him (12:38:59 AM): truthfully
Me (12:39:01 AM): ?
Him (12:39:13 AM): im gonna ask u a question
Him (12:39:18 AM): and your gonna tell me the name
Him (12:39:21 AM): and nothing else
Him (12:39:22 AM): k?
Me (12:39:24 AM): um...
Him (12:39:41 AM): ok?
Me (12:39:47 AM): ....ok?
Him (12:40:01 AM): ok
Him (12:40:06 AM): whose your profile dedicated to?
Me (12:40:23 AM): no one
Him (12:40:46 AM): You're lieing to me.
Me (12:40:49 AM): and the honest answer
Me (12:40:56 AM): how can you say im lying.
Him (12:41:15 AM): The Heart May Freeze Or It Can Burn
The Pain Will Ease If I Can Learn...
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Maybe he wanted it to be about him.
Talk. Be honest with each other.
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okay. so last night my best friend called me and told me that her and her bf had sex. it was her first time. well at first i was a little mad. because she had just told me that she was gonna wait a while. but i got over that. now im just upset because her bf is such an ass. he thinks he always has to have things his way. then he ends up getting them. and starts gloating and being a jackass about it. i know that they love each other. and dont for one minute think that they should break up. but a lot of times i think that, sex is the majority of what he wants, and she says that too. she told me that she told him that they arent gonna do it all the time. but i know they'll end up doing it. prob. again 2mrw which is the next time they are seeing each other. I know that there is nothing that i can do about what has happend, and that its there choice. but if she keeps always giving him what he wants then hes going to end up walking all over her. (link)
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*Edit* What I mean by immaturity is...
not grown up enough to be having sex.
Adults and other mature people do not
discuss their sex life, even with
friends unless there is a problem.
I'm sorry that offends you but that
is how it is. Having sex, calling your
friend and telling them about it IS
immature.
You are right that most teen relationships
that turn sexual end up being all about that.
However, your best bet will be to stay clear
out of this. No matter what you say she is
going to continue. Even if he is a jackass
and starts letting everyone know about it.
Everyones sex life should be private. The
very fact she told you about it is a sign
of immaturity. Remind her to use birth
control and Just be supportive when
needed, but tell her you don't want to
discuss her sex life.
Then stop worrying about it. These are her mistakes to make. :)
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i'm not sure if this is the right category, but anyways..i was out with my mom today taking my duck to the vet. as we were leaving i started feeling like i was going to puke. then everything got blurry and i got really dizzy. then my ears started ringing and i fell to the ground. they put ice on my head and neck and i felt better after a little while. what happened to me? did i pass out/faint? this has never happened before. so why now? thanks! (oh, and i dont pass out from blood so it was nothing like that) (link)
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It can't hurt to see a doctor, but most
of the time fainting isn't caused by any
life threatening medical problems. An
exception would be if you have a history
of heart problems.
Were you by chance coughing before you
fainted? You don't give an age, but in
young people the most common cause of
fainting is coughing really hard or a
long bout of coughing. When you take
a deep breath while coughing without
breathing out it causes less blood to
get to your brain making you faint.
After you faint you begin to breath
normally and come around quickly.
Other causes can be low blood sugar.
If you have a history of hypoglycemia
or even diabetes in your family you
want to be checked by a doctor.
Anxiety and being upset can cause
fainting. Medications like diuretics,
antidepressants or Blood pressure
meds can cause fainting. If using
any of these check with your doctor,
you may need a dosage change.
Not drinking enough fluids can also
cause fainting. Usually after being
in the sun or after an illness.
Those are the most common causes.
If you want even more info, here
is a search you can use. :)
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about 2 weeks ago this guys fingered me im 15 and now iv missed a period nearly 2 im really worried he might of had cum on his hands or it came through his trousers or something i dont know i just keep feeling sick. Im to scarred to get a pregnancy test because if i was to be pregnant i wouldnt no what to do with myself! (link)
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I really don't think you are pregnant.
If he had sperm on his fingers it
could happen but would be rare. It
is not unusual for teens to miss a
period. Fear and worry can also make
you miss one.
Here is a website that it would do you
good to look over. It has lots of
information on sex, birth control and
pregnancy and its symptoms.
http://www.coolnurse.com/
If being sexually active is going to
cause you this much worry, you may
not be ready for it yet. It is a very
big step with some very big risks.
Don't even allow fingering without
him having a condom on. It will make
you less worried afterward and if he
cares he will not mind. :)
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soo the card he figured out it was me.
i wrote his name on the envelope. and liz wrote the card.
and he thought i wrote the card.
he knew from the hand writing on the envelope and the card..and yeah he said thanks it really made him laugh.
i couldnt stop smiling after he said that. =] (link)
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I have two so just answering in one place.
It sounds like he is getting better. If
he is able to do some laughing he is on his
way to getting over it. :)
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I just broke up with my boyfriend (on and off) of two years (yes i know thats a long time for two 14 year olds) and im hurting so bad over it and its been less then a week and he already has another girl so hes apearantly over it but im not and i want to be the right way i dont just want to shrug it off and have it get me later but i dont want to waste my summer over him and i dont know what to do. Will my heart heal itself if i ignore it and have fun this summer? Or can i ignore it except for 10 minuites a day and be sad then? I dont know how to do this its all new to me. Any advice would be amazing. Thanks so much!
Im not afraid of pain i just dont think thats what lifes meant for. But somtimes you need it to get to the happy times right? (link)
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Don't waste your summer thinking about him.
Move on. I know it can be hard to do but the
best way to get over an old relationship is
to start looking for a new one. :)
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