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How do i say it?
I'm 17/f. Colorado.
I knew this guy for about 3 years. We're really close and best friends. He tells me everything and I tell him everything. But we don't see as much as we use to because its summer and his parents are extremly strict with him and don't let him go out with his friends or anywhere else. So i haven't talked to him since the last day of school 2 months ago. I seen him last month like two times, but I couldn't say hi because he was with his family and they hate it when girl's talk to him. My friend gave him my number a few weeks ago to call me, but he hasn't called. And one day I was just listening to music and then I realized that I was completly head over heels, in love with him. And ever since then I've been seeing his name everywhere I go and I just can't stop thinking about him. I know for a fact that I have deep feelings for him. And I want to let him know, but I'm scared of telling him how I feel. I told him 2 years ago that I had a crush on him and he just wanted to be friends. And i accepted that so since then me and him have been friends then we began to be best friends. I still a little bit had feelings for him. Since I haven't seen him or talked to him I'm going to call him to see how's he doing. And I want us to catch up in stuff. I'm not going to tell him how I feel right there and then but, when the time is right I want to. And I need an opinion. How do you think I should tell him the way I feel towards him? I don't want to say hey I was thinking one day about you and I love you! Because then he might get wierded out but, I at least want him to know that I have deep feelings for him. I kissed him before but, that was with no attachments. And I kissed his cousin. That was a mistake but, he didn't get mad about it. And he knows that I don't like his cousin. How do you think I should tell him the way I feel? I can't think of anyone else to spend the rest of my life with. He's everything I ever wanted a person to be. Please give me your opinion. Sorry if I wrote to much.
I would greatly appreciate if you gave me an opinion. Thank you.
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Hes 17 and his parents won't let him talk
to girls? Wow. First you need to be able to
spend more time with him. Make sure your
feelings aren't just stronger because you
can't see him.
After that is accomplished you want to
wait until you think he may feel the same.
When you next see him tell him you didn't
realize you would miss him so much. See
if he says something similar. Maybe ask
him if he thinks you could ever be more
than friends. If he says no then hold off
saying anything for a while. If he thinks
you might then tell him you really like
him a lot. Don't tell him you LOVE him
though. That might scare him off.
Good luck! :)
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