So my boyfriend and i have been going out for a while.& He asked me for the first time when am i going to tell my parents about "us" and i said i dont know.He does'nt wanna ruin the good relationship he has with my parents and he does'nt wanna keep it from them.&& when my parents met him for the first time they loved him.But the first time my parents met him he wasnt my boyfriend he was just a friend.But my best friend told me that he liked me and i knew that so i went ahead and told my mom and she said oh well thats sweet.He's been coming to my house alot offteen since its summer and all and i think shes suspecious and i havent told her anything yet cause everytime hes at my house im afraid she'll be paranoid.So i havent told her or my dad.& if my dad finds out he'll go crazy on me and not want my boyfriend to come over.Soooo how do i tell my mom?
Elcee answered Sunday June 29 2008, 10:07 am: Your Mum has probably guessed that there is something between you already. However, if she has not I suggest you start by telling her how great you think he is and how much you appreciate his friendship. If you slowly drip-feed little snippets of how you feel about him, it will not come as too much of a surprise to her. I also suggest leaving the telling of your Dad to your Mum. Most Mums can handle Dads a lot better than you think. I hope that it all goes well for you both. [ Elcee's advice column | Ask Elcee A Question ]
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