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okay. so last night my best friend called me and told me that her and her bf had sex. it was her first time. well at first i was a little mad. because she had just told me that she was gonna wait a while. but i got over that. now im just upset because her bf is such an ass. he thinks he always has to have things his way. then he ends up getting them. and starts gloating and being a jackass about it. i know that they love each other. and dont for one minute think that they should break up. but a lot of times i think that, sex is the majority of what he wants, and she says that too. she told me that she told him that they arent gonna do it all the time. but i know they'll end up doing it. prob. again 2mrw which is the next time they are seeing each other. I know that there is nothing that i can do about what has happend, and that its there choice. but if she keeps always giving him what he wants then hes going to end up walking all over her.
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*Edit* What I mean by immaturity is...
not grown up enough to be having sex.
Adults and other mature people do not
discuss their sex life, even with
friends unless there is a problem.
I'm sorry that offends you but that
is how it is. Having sex, calling your
friend and telling them about it IS
immature.
You are right that most teen relationships
that turn sexual end up being all about that.
However, your best bet will be to stay clear
out of this. No matter what you say she is
going to continue. Even if he is a jackass
and starts letting everyone know about it.
Everyones sex life should be private. The
very fact she told you about it is a sign
of immaturity. Remind her to use birth
control and Just be supportive when
needed, but tell her you don't want to
discuss her sex life.
Then stop worrying about it. These are her mistakes to make. :)
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Yep, you are right about everything you just said!
She has to do what she wants to do and not do what she isn't comfortable doing and sometimes by trying to get her not to will make her want to even more, so just support your friend and ENCOURAGE HER TO USE PROTECTION, to prevent std's or pregnancy.
IF that's ALL he wants from her, she will wake up and see it, just be there for her when she does so that can make the right decision for her life, happiness and future! You're a great freind because of your concerns for her. I admire that.
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