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ok. so ive had sex twice. two different guys. but ive never had an orgasm..ive heard its not too uncommon because sometimes girls masturbate and give themselves orgasms but ive masturbated and ill get so close like ill get this amazing feeling but nothing happens.
any tips on masterbating or having an orgasm?
thank you (link)
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This is all we can give.
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Hey,
when it comes like that whatever decision u took turned out wrong, whatever u want goes far from u, i don’t enjoy living any more and I believe i should draw a full stop way before it gets worse.
What would be the easiest way to get over it apart from committing suicide as I fear I don’t have that courage to do it?
tarif
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Everyone is going to make bad decisions.
There is nothing strange about that! You
can apologize if your decision affected
someone else. If it only affects you, then
you learn from your mistakes and forget
about it.
Suicide is never the answer. You just have
to learn to live with your mistakes. Its
possible to do, people do it every day.
Its hard to give you a good answer without
the details. If this doesn't help to much
I apologize. :)
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hey, i have a weird question..
i have this little mole and it's on my chest above my boobs. alot of my friends have one too there. yet i dont really look at it as a beauty mark, i look at it as a flaw. i want mine removed. i dont wear low cut shirts because im that self concious of it. my dermo said she wouldnt remove it because it was unnessesary. well, now ive been thinking ill remove it myelf. what would be the safest way in doing that. i thought of taking a match and to clean my knife and then sterilize it with alcohal. what do you think? thanks. (link)
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Do not remove it yourself. You risk getting
a major league infection that can scar or
cause even worse damage. Surgical instruments
are sterilized at temperatures much higher
than you are going to get with a dirty match.
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hey alright well lately it seems like im super self conscious about EVERYTHING i say and do. im kind of hard on myself, to the point where i analyze every word, every motion, every tone in my voice to make sure i sound.. i guess "socially correct", or "cool" would be the word.
even with text messages, it can take me 5 minutes to decide how to say a one or two word answer. every character is crucial.
so you can imagine how lost i am when it comes to real-time conversations. instead of sounding confident i stutter sometimes and other times i cant think about what i want to say.
when i remember every time i "mess up" i cringe...it feels terrible inside
i want to sound confident b/c i feel confident. but then i start worrying about whether i sound confident which makes me mess up, i guess.
opinions? (link)
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You may or may not need a psychologist,
but what you are doing isn't normal. I
would recommend you see your regular
doctor. Tell him/her exactly what you
are doing. Don't make light of it, let
the doctor know this is bothersome.
Your doctor can give you advice and/or
recommend you to a psychologist. You
don't mention your age, but if you are
a teen, your parents will probably follow
your doctors recommendation more easily
than just taking you straight to a
psychologist. :)
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Hi i'm a seventeen your old girl and I have had pain in the outside of my side and towards the back. It especially hurts when I start sprinting or doing anything that really involve pulling it up. I have been playing fastpitch softball for the past two months and it just started hurting this month, but I don't recall anything major ever happening to it. Do you know what could be the problem and if it is serious enough to go to the doctor? (link)
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It could be ITBS but you do need to get
with a doctor to be sure. It could be
something else. Since you need your knees
to work properly, you don't want to take
a chance with them. :)
Some information on ITBS:
http://www.pponline.co.uk/encyc/0814.htm
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Okay so ive been with my boyfriend for almost 4months now and for some reason he cant get completly up. Im not use to teasing boys and so on. My ex was already always ready to go. So i have no idea whats going on. I try and to different things kiss him bite his ear go down on him and so on, and he just still wont get fully hard. He says its cause hes not comfortable around me. But what does that have to do with anything he also says i need to be more of a freak. What do i do someone please help lol (link)
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He needs to see a doctor about the problem.
It has nothing to do with you or what you
aren't doing. A normal male may like a little
freakiness, but it won't stop them from
getting an erection anyway.
Diabetes can cause erectile dysfunction in
younger males. It could be psychological, it
may be some other medical problem. It could
be he is gay and in denial. But, its not you.
So, encourage him to seek medical advice.
If he refuses, then it just isn't that
important to him. In that case I would
advise you to move on, because it will
cause problems in the long run if he
refuses. The important thing for you to
understand is it isn't you. Don't allow
him to claim it is. :)
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ok its October 10 and the end of my period was October 6th
on October 7th and 8th me and my boyfriend had sex, and we didn't use a condom, and he cummed inside of me. Could i be pregnant?
And when could i find out ( when do the symptoms show and when can i take a pregnancy test? ).
Please help.
Thanks! (link)
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Anytime you have unprotected sex, you can
be pregnant. Especially if you are a young lady.
Next time you make sure he has a condom or
tell him you won't have sex. He'll start
remembering, trust me. If he can't afford a
condom, he can't afford to take care of you
or a child.
You won't get pregnancy symptoms until
after you miss a period. Missed period is
the first sign of pregnancy. You CAN get
a home pregnancy test (make Romeo buy one
for you). Most of them made these days
will work even before you miss a period.
Read the box before you buy to get one
that will.
You can also probably get tested at a local
planned parenthood or health department in
your area. They can also get you set up for
birth control at little if any cost to you.
Be safe and take care of yourself. Guys
don't have to live with the same fears as
girls do. So its up to you.
Good luck. :)
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me and my boyfriend are trying to work this thing out where i tell my dad i'm sleeping over my friends house. then i tell her parents im only staying for a few hours just to hangout. then i say oh my ride is here and i leave and my ride is actually my boyfriend. and were gonna go back to his friends house and spend the night. then he would drop me off in the morning back at my house.
so i went and told my dad i wanted to sleepover. my mom is out of town for the weekend. my dad said okay but i have to give him my friends house number and moms name. hes probably gonna talk to her mom which is something i have to avoid in order to pull this off. what do i do? (link)
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You need to do the smart thing and forget
about sneaking around. It never works. When
you get caught the guy will be hated by your
parents. You will probably be forbidden to
see him ever again. That will make for even
more lies and sneaking around.
Do the smart thing. :)
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ever since one of my best friends got her boyfriend almost a year ago, things haven't been the same between us. first off, she's been to third base, and she told me this about three to four months after, which really pissed me off. and every few days, she complains about her stress causers and then feels badly and asks what's new with me and i just say nothing because she couldn't trust me enough to tell me about the things she's done with her boyfriend even though she told other people. it's not his fault, but he's really affected our friendship. i constantly feel pressured to get a boyfriend and all she ever talks about is him and i feel like having a boyfriend would be stressful because you'd have to think of cute gifts and i'm not a creative person. i want advice on how to not feel this way. i feel better now that i've stopped including her in a lot of my major life problems and i'm proud of myself for that because all she does is cause me stress in life. she doesn't mean to, but she's better than me in every way and i don't want to end up like her in one aspect: i don't want to go to third base my sophomore year. i'm not prude, but i KNOW i would get emotionally attached and then he'd dump me, and i wouldn't want that to be one of my stress-causers because i already have enough pressure with school.
can someone please make me feel better? i don't like talking to her anymore and yes i am aware of her major life problems but i don't feel like i can relate to her anymore nor can she help me with my problems. i talk to her and hang out with her but i feel like she's more of a burden than a friend now :( i feel horrible about this but it's true. she works herself mad getting good grades, and last year she caused me much stress because of this and i would cry myself to sleep each night. i just really hate this. (link)
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Once girls start dating their friendships
just aren't the same anymore. Its can be
sad if you let it get to you, but its also
normal.
You need to let her know that their are some
things she needs to keep private. I think it
is pretty tacky to tell your friends you
have been to third base. Most girls don't
want guys gossiping about them, yet some do
the same thing themselves. That should be
a private thing. Just between her and him.
So tell her you don't want to hear details
about her romance. You can talk about anything
else, just not that.
Do not feel pressured to get a boyfriend
just to be like everyone else. When the time
is right for you, you'll find someone. You
have it right that it is easy for a
relationship to take over the life of a person.
If you don't think your ready for the drama,
you're smart to wait!
The truth of it is that 9 times out of 10,
anyone you date in high school will not still
be around after high school. Some do make it,
most will not.
Just hang in there. Talk about other things
with her. Your relationship is going through
one of those changes all relationships go
through. You will stay friends but it won't
be the same as it was when you were younger.
Its all normal. Don't stress over it. :)
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Sorry if this is long
I am 17 years old. I have a son. I just moved to Missouri. I work and Im starting college in spring. I meet this guy. He gives me butterflies and i cant stop thinking about him. i mean all day and all night everything. hes perfect. the problem is hes a sex addict. which isnt bad for me i love it. i am worried thats all our relationship will go to. he treats my son as he would his own if he had any. he feels now as if he is a bad boyfriend. which he isnt. and i told him that a million times.. so i told him i was getting off the phone. well we did...
fyi.. its possible for me to be pregnant again..
i dont want to be lectured about being to young for kids and stuff i need relationship advice.. im not doubting the fact i love him because i know i do im just a bit confused
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If he is around the same age as you are,
I don't know that he is a sex addict.
Guys your age just can't seem to get
enough sex! They think girls want the
same. It a maturity thing. :)
I think if you talk to him, let him know
that you are worried and that you want to
know there is more to the relationship
than sex, it will work out.
A real sex addict is one to avoid. If
he has sex with you, is looking at porn
more than would be normal, is dating
others for sex too...that would be a
problem and an addict.
Just talk it out or write it if that
is easier. Best of luck to you. :)
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There is this boy Elvis, to me he is amazing..we have the perfect story.
I have known him scence 6th grade,then i liked this other boy Garin,Elvis was an ass to me omfg he was soo mean.Then in 7th grade he wasnt that bad but still a jerk. So half the year in i had to move-_-, i hated it then when i went to the other school i meet a new boy,Lany he is my good friend now.. then i moved back,in the 8th grade but i still didnt see elvis Becuase i went to the other middle school. But i wasnt thinking of him at all..then the end of there year happends i was so happy i just got out of the worst reashonship of my life.I went to the library.and there he is.he is like long time no see.i was like ya whats up? He had just got out of a bad relationship! I thought that was the end of our convo nooo of course not.My friend wanted to make out with his friend, but she wanted me to kiss elvis too. so we went into the stair well at first i didnt like him at all.then he kissed me..its amazing.wow. i loved his tounge on mine n his hands on my waist. Then i had to go we kissed like 4 times before that haha.Then we saw eachother again,we made out then he asked me out!! i was like yessss..but he was going to NYC for the summer he said we could just talk on the phone alot.i knew it wouldnt work and i was right.. for the 3 weeks we went out he didnt call once, and i didnt wanna do anything with any other boys u no.Then he did n i didnt answer, he left me a voice mail. "Trish you were right, ima be in nyc for 2 mounths, callme anytime you need me okay", It sounded like he was crying im not sure..I cryed so much that night called every person my on phone and cryed with them. I was dead inside not sure why at all, I tryed not to let my heart get that far, quess it did it on its owen.We talked on the phone he said he was sorry and that as soon as he gets back we will ge back together..my ass belived him. Im in high school now.and i see him all the time wioth other girls it kills me.I want him back so bad. I talk to him but yet im scared of him.He flirts with so many girls and i just found out that he was back home in the middle of summer, he tryed to get with my friend, she was like hell no Trish likes you. haha he felt like an ass, and he is, i dont know what to do,I miss him and he and i are soo much alike its not even funny. I cry more then anything and i hate it and i wont go out of the house cuz i know ill see him flirting with other girls. I need him, what should i do? (link)
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I'm sorry, but the reality of this is
that you're the only one who saw this
as a real relationship. He didn't. He
saw someone willing to make out with
him. Thats all.
In order to get him out of your mind,
you will have to move on and find
someone who is worth your time. You
won't find him sitting around crying
over this guy. Go out, look at other
boys.
Do not make out with any guy who will
just casually make-out with anyone.
Wait until you know he cares about
only you first. A guy won't bother
to romance you if he can make out
for nothing. :)
Good luck.
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ok so im a girl i have a boyfriend and well down there hes got some beef and to be honost i feel ready to give him a blow job because i said so but i think i know how to do it but i want to be SURE so its not just good its great!!! ive heard of things you should do but that will be a message part because im sure you cant write it out on here so if you can please message me or something or tell me that would be appreciated or Email at slearnaro92@aim.com (link)
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This is all we can do. Some sites may contain porn.
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i exersize everyday but its only cuz i want to stay in shape, can i eat what i want and not gain? i mean like not EVERYTING i want, but like chocalate or candys...? and ofcourse ill be eating healthy, but i mean every once in a while.
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You should be able to eat what you want in moderation. A candy bar now and then won't
hurt anything. Its when you eat those things
and become a couch potato that they really
cause a lot of harm. :)
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what are some good, popular movies about the 1950's or set in the 1950's? i LOVE the '50's and wish i lived then but obviously can't so i love to watch movies that the time period is supposed to be then. but not like actual movies from then just movies about them, because i think the movies just about them make them look better and funner. I already know Hairspray, Stand By Me, and Back to The Future, so if someone could give me some other ones besides those that would be great. thanks! (link)
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There are so many good ones! Rebel Without
a Cause & Blackboard Jungle are a couple.
Here is a search for you, should you care
to look.
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Well ive been working out for 4 months now [[On my treadmille] and my legs would hurt from time to time, normally you know. not so much pain at all, But recently i began Running, because i got more fit , so i want to start running, and my Calves ALWays hurt me whenever i walk i cant even walk right,have i been working out to hard?
And another question is im like 5'5 and im 13 years old, and i wanna stay IN SHAPE. im 53 kilos, i know it isnt fat at all, but i like to stay in shape,On my treadmille how long do u think i should stay on it and the speed how much? i jus want everyones opinions, please&thank you :) . (link)
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Do you warm up before you start your walk
or run and do a cool down after? It can
really help with calf muscle pain. Here
are some sites for you to check out for
more information.
http://health.howstuffworks.com/warm-up-exercises.htm
http://www.netfit.co.uk/stretching_cool_down.htm
You know we have a columnist who is a fitness
trainer. He would give you the best advice
on all this. I suggest you write him and ask him
to please have a look at your question.
Send him the link. His inbox is
http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=Evolution
Send him this link http://www.advicenators.com/answer.php?q=551273 and tell him you'd
like his opinion. :)
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WHAT ARE SOMETHINGS TO TALK ABOUT WITH A MALE FRIEND ON THE phone???...really dont know...cuz i kno he likes me...just what should we talk about???...thanx alot!!!!
xoxoxox (link)
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Here is a site that gives you some ideas
of how to talk to a guy on the phone.
If its any help, once you start talking
it will get easier!
http://www.wikihow.com/Talk-to-a-Guy-Over-the-Phone
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I'm an educator and as I was proctoring for an exam in another college department,& I caught two students cheating.
One of them was mouthing the words
" What is the answer to number two?" when I caught them. She even gestured number 2 with her fingers. Her seatmate had her back on me, it was obvious that they were talking to each other.
I reported them to the Discipline Officer and the D.O. in turn, called for the 2 students. The students insisted that they were just making small talk during the exam & they obviously reversed my statements.
Since I do not have any substantial evidence, I am the one now being in question as to why I confiscated their test papers for cheating. My question is, DOES CRYING WHEN CONFRONTED WITH THEIR SINS, A TELL TALE SIGN OF GUILT? (link)
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I think you will do fine. I'm sure asking
you questions about it is just routine.
Tell them what you saw, I agree that the
fact they were "making small talk" should
be reason enough anyway. Just tell them
exactly what happened. I'm sure they have
to write some kind of a report for their
records.
Unless they expect you to give exams armed
with a camera, Your word should be good enough.
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I'm 18 and I had sex on the 28th of September with the love of my life. He wore a condom but now I'm getting symptoms of pregnancy. I've been feeling sick today and yesterday. My lower back has been hurting all day yesterday and today. My breasts sort of hurt and I've been getting headaches on and off. What is the chance of my being pregnant? And if I am, how should I go about telling him? I'm prepared to have a baby; I want it so much. One thing though, he is away at school during the week. What should I do about that? I don't know what to bring up about that. I need advice and some positive attitude. Thanks! (link)
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Don't worry about being pregnant until
you have missed your period. All of
your symptoms could be caused by other
things. You could take a home test to
find out, but a missed period should
be your first sign. :)
If you miss a period or your test is
positive, THEN you tell him. Keep in
mind that even though you may be ready
for all this, he may not be. There is
really not an easy way to tell someone
you're pregnant. You just say it.
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Okay, my boyfriend has quit smoking for 2 months now. He keeps saying that if he only has one, he wont be addicted again, but I think that if he has one, he's going to be right back where he was.
If he has a cigarette, will he be addicted? Please help! (link)
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Hes still addicted now. Its like an
alcoholic is always an alcoholic, even
if they aren't drinking anymore.
You're right in your thinking. Craving
something your addicted to is just part
of quitting. One cigarette won't solve
anything. It could start him smoking again. :)
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this is kinda a dumb question but my friends were talking about how a guy wanted my friend to give him head. They were all laughing and I had no idea what they meant so i just laughed too! So my question is what is giving someone head? please explain. (link)
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It is a slang term for oral sex.
You can read about it here.
http://www.answers.com/oral%20sex
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