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do i need to see a psychologist?
hey alright well lately it seems like im super self conscious about EVERYTHING i say and do. im kind of hard on myself, to the point where i analyze every word, every motion, every tone in my voice to make sure i sound.. i guess "socially correct", or "cool" would be the word.
even with text messages, it can take me 5 minutes to decide how to say a one or two word answer. every character is crucial.
so you can imagine how lost i am when it comes to real-time conversations. instead of sounding confident i stutter sometimes and other times i cant think about what i want to say.
when i remember every time i "mess up" i cringe...it feels terrible inside
i want to sound confident b/c i feel confident. but then i start worrying about whether i sound confident which makes me mess up, i guess.
opinions?
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If you feel you need to see a psychologist, then maybe you should. It certainly can't hurt. You can maybe talk to a councelor/therapist. They can be very helpful, so consider it.
I wouldn't say it's extremely serious, but if it bothers you to the point where it's effecting everyday life, then you should do something about it.
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You may or may not need a psychologist,
but what you are doing isn't normal. I
would recommend you see your regular
doctor. Tell him/her exactly what you
are doing. Don't make light of it, let
the doctor know this is bothersome.
Your doctor can give you advice and/or
recommend you to a psychologist. You
don't mention your age, but if you are
a teen, your parents will probably follow
your doctors recommendation more easily
than just taking you straight to a
psychologist. :)
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yes ,yes i would recomend a psychologist because in the long run things might just get worst.you have very low self esteem im sure your very attractive and doesnt need to worry what someone is going to think every move shey makes .so i would take care of that as soon as possible .good luck.
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