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what do i do?
Okay so ive been with my boyfriend for almost 4months now and for some reason he cant get completly up. Im not use to teasing boys and so on. My ex was already always ready to go. So i have no idea whats going on. I try and to different things kiss him bite his ear go down on him and so on, and he just still wont get fully hard. He says its cause hes not comfortable around me. But what does that have to do with anything he also says i need to be more of a freak. What do i do someone please help lol
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Lol! "More of a freak" Okay sorry that was funny. But I'm thinking just sit down and talk with him about the things that turn him on the most during sex. Also try to set the mood a little. Make it so both of you are comfortable and then just go with the flow. It'll happen, No worries :) Hope I helped.
-Ellie
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If he's not getting fully hard its one of two things.
1) He's incredibly nervous for some reason, or incredibly insecure about himself.
2) More likely, he has some kind of issue besides nerves, probably medical in nature.
I couldn't tell you which one, but he said he isnt comfortable so I'm tending towards 1. As to why... talk to him about it and see if you can find out.
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He needs to see a doctor about the problem.
It has nothing to do with you or what you
aren't doing. A normal male may like a little
freakiness, but it won't stop them from
getting an erection anyway.
Diabetes can cause erectile dysfunction in
younger males. It could be psychological, it
may be some other medical problem. It could
be he is gay and in denial. But, its not you.
So, encourage him to seek medical advice.
If he refuses, then it just isn't that
important to him. In that case I would
advise you to move on, because it will
cause problems in the long run if he
refuses. The important thing for you to
understand is it isn't you. Don't allow
him to claim it is. :)
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his embarrassed than uncomfortable around you theres actually a name for that .its a sickness and people actually take medicine for it .be patient and advice him to see a doctor its not you its him theres nothing you can do about it.
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