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Final goodbye?


Question Posted Saturday October 11 2008, 8:36 am

There is this boy Elvis, to me he is amazing..we have the perfect story.
I have known him scence 6th grade,then i liked this other boy Garin,Elvis was an ass to me omfg he was soo mean.Then in 7th grade he wasnt that bad but still a jerk. So half the year in i had to move-_-, i hated it then when i went to the other school i meet a new boy,Lany he is my good friend now.. then i moved back,in the 8th grade but i still didnt see elvis Becuase i went to the other middle school. But i wasnt thinking of him at all..then the end of there year happends i was so happy i just got out of the worst reashonship of my life.I went to the library.and there he is.he is like long time no see.i was like ya whats up? He had just got out of a bad relationship! I thought that was the end of our convo nooo of course not.My friend wanted to make out with his friend, but she wanted me to kiss elvis too. so we went into the stair well at first i didnt like him at all.then he kissed me..its amazing.wow. i loved his tounge on mine n his hands on my waist. Then i had to go we kissed like 4 times before that haha.Then we saw eachother again,we made out then he asked me out!! i was like yessss..but he was going to NYC for the summer he said we could just talk on the phone alot.i knew it wouldnt work and i was right.. for the 3 weeks we went out he didnt call once, and i didnt wanna do anything with any other boys u no.Then he did n i didnt answer, he left me a voice mail. "Trish you were right, ima be in nyc for 2 mounths, callme anytime you need me okay", It sounded like he was crying im not sure..I cryed so much that night called every person my on phone and cryed with them. I was dead inside not sure why at all, I tryed not to let my heart get that far, quess it did it on its owen.We talked on the phone he said he was sorry and that as soon as he gets back we will ge back together..my ass belived him. Im in high school now.and i see him all the time wioth other girls it kills me.I want him back so bad. I talk to him but yet im scared of him.He flirts with so many girls and i just found out that he was back home in the middle of summer, he tryed to get with my friend, she was like hell no Trish likes you. haha he felt like an ass, and he is, i dont know what to do,I miss him and he and i are soo much alike its not even funny. I cry more then anything and i hate it and i wont go out of the house cuz i know ill see him flirting with other girls. I need him, what should i do?


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ashmoe2 answered Sunday October 12 2008, 8:19 pm:
sounds like to me this guy doesn't know what a relationship is and he isn't ready to actually have a REAL one. you may like him alot and it sucks to like someone like that. the only thing i can tell you to do is to try and put all the good things about him out of your head and focus on the bad. that way when you see him you can't think of all those wonderful things you have in common....but all those horrible things that you dont like about him...i know it sounds immature but i works

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karenR answered Saturday October 11 2008, 12:49 pm:
I'm sorry, but the reality of this is
that you're the only one who saw this
as a real relationship. He didn't. He
saw someone willing to make out with
him. Thats all.

In order to get him out of your mind,
you will have to move on and find
someone who is worth your time. You
won't find him sitting around crying
over this guy. Go out, look at other
boys.

Do not make out with any guy who will
just casually make-out with anyone.
Wait until you know he cares about
only you first. A guy won't bother
to romance you if he can make out
for nothing. :)

Good luck.

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