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Relationship Problem!!!!


Question Posted Saturday October 11 2008, 1:06 am

Sorry if this is long

I am 17 years old. I have a son. I just moved to Missouri. I work and Im starting college in spring. I meet this guy. He gives me butterflies and i cant stop thinking about him. i mean all day and all night everything. hes perfect. the problem is hes a sex addict. which isnt bad for me i love it. i am worried thats all our relationship will go to. he treats my son as he would his own if he had any. he feels now as if he is a bad boyfriend. which he isnt. and i told him that a million times.. so i told him i was getting off the phone. well we did...

fyi.. its possible for me to be pregnant again..

i dont want to be lectured about being to young for kids and stuff i need relationship advice.. im not doubting the fact i love him because i know i do im just a bit confused

thank you


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karenR answered Saturday October 11 2008, 12:57 pm:
If he is around the same age as you are,
I don't know that he is a sex addict.
Guys your age just can't seem to get
enough sex! They think girls want the
same. It a maturity thing. :)

I think if you talk to him, let him know
that you are worried and that you want to
know there is more to the relationship
than sex, it will work out.

A real sex addict is one to avoid. If
he has sex with you, is looking at porn
more than would be normal, is dating
others for sex too...that would be a
problem and an addict.

Just talk it out or write it if that
is easier. Best of luck to you. :)

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schochie16 answered Saturday October 11 2008, 10:15 am:
I understand what your trying to ask. Try talking to him about your feelings. Make sure he feels the same way you do. And if you've already done that try putting more information in the question. But, if he really does love you then whats wrong? sex addict? So what. As long as it's only with you thats all that matters. Maybe talk to him about. Say i love you and all but we can't have sex all the time. But the real lquestion is that when you guys hang out do you always have sex? yes? then it might be just for the sex. otherwise, then it sounds like you've got a good guy on your hands. As for being 17 and possibly being pregnant again...just try to be safer next time. You don't want to end up having 2 kids, no guy, no money etc. I think you know all about what could happen it's just that i kinda had to add it in. haha =]

Good luck
hope i helped
-E

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