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how do i get away with sneaking out with my boyfriend?
me and my boyfriend are trying to work this thing out where i tell my dad i'm sleeping over my friends house. then i tell her parents im only staying for a few hours just to hangout. then i say oh my ride is here and i leave and my ride is actually my boyfriend. and were gonna go back to his friends house and spend the night. then he would drop me off in the morning back at my house.
so i went and told my dad i wanted to sleepover. my mom is out of town for the weekend. my dad said okay but i have to give him my friends house number and moms name. hes probably gonna talk to her mom which is something i have to avoid in order to pull this off. what do i do?
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You need to do the smart thing and forget
about sneaking around. It never works. When
you get caught the guy will be hated by your
parents. You will probably be forbidden to
see him ever again. That will make for even
more lies and sneaking around.
Do the smart thing. :)
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Do the right thing and pray about it. What would God want you to do? He knows what is going on. That's what matters.
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You will get busted and caught in lie. It may not be this time but it will happen. If one person makes a mistake they'll find out. Also, you're putting a ton of pressure on your friend's to save your bacon and carry out a ruse.
When their parents figure out that their kid is lying to protect you that's when you'll have major issues. Nobody will trust you for any reason thereafter. What to do? don't go ahead with the plan you conceived this weekend.
Be honest and approach your mother in a note or in person. Tell her what you originally had planned to do to protect yourself from them knowing you are sexually active. Yes, you don't want to do his but you must. It'll be hard but they will respect you for not lying.
Ask your mother to put you on birth control as you want to be safe and wanted her to know so you didn't have to sneak around any longer. Parents like responsible kids and they don't want you to be the next Juno either. They'd rather you told them than end up with a baby, no job, money or education. Think about it! It makes pure sense. It's your only option.
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