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:.Hey x3My name is Emily and blah blah blah.
:.I have a lot of personal, family, and friend issues of my own so a lot of times, I can probably relate to you a lot of times if you have personal, family, and/or friend issues.
:.I can offer a lot of information, help, and advice on family and friend relationships, love lives, depression, stretching/flexibility, weight loss, violin, being organized, dog training, forensics (public speaking), keeping up with school/extracurricular activities, eating disorders, writing (stories and poems), and probably a lot of other random stuff like what to drink when you eat something spicy and why.
:.Although I can help a lot of you guys on the above subjects, I don't tend to take my own advice so it can become quite an awkward/ironic/contradicting situation for me or make myself sound like a complete and utter hypocrite.
:.Hannah Whitall Smith once said, "The true secret of giving advice is, after you have honestly given it, to be perfectly indifferent whether it is taken or not, and never persist in trying to set people right." I agree 100% of it. Advice is advice and it is given when asked for. I give it and I leave it at that. It's up to the questioner/advice seeker to take it.
:.That point leads onto my philosophies in advice giving:
1. Advice is given when asked and no time else, unless your friend is about to irritate a black bear, then you should definitely advice your friend to back away and run for his or her life.
2. Advice is not critical, not judgmental, and definitely not biased. Advice is advice and should remain neutral.
3. Advice is to help, not to get 5s on every answer. As a result, my advice ends up being quite blunt and frank with a hint of rambling mixed in.
If you have general questions on the topics I can be a lot of help in (as listed above), most likely, they will be in my FORUM
If it is not, you can inbox me to request me to put it up.
:.If you want to ask me a question directly...
a)if it is not urgent and can wait a week or so, inbox me.
b)if it is an urgent question such as "I'm being eaten by a shark! What do I do???" first of all, I'm quite amazed that you can type while being eaten and second of all, e-mail me at cancel.life@gmail.com. I will answer you by midnight of that day (or if it's 11:55PM, probably by 3PM the following day).
advice
I REALLY need to get an A in Geometry because thats like the only class i struggle getting an A in and it has always been difficult for me even tho im in the advanced math (Geometry) regular math is Algebra and Honors is Algebra 2. Anyway if i get straight As i will get rewarded by my parents and i REALLY want to show them i can do it. and make them proud. btw im a freshman and i need to get the highest grades possible because now they count! what are some ways i can study and practice and do well? any tips would be appreciated! thanx :)
The problem with math is that it's like building a wall with bricks. If you miss one thing from level 4 and just ignore it and keep going to higher levels, eventually you'll be missing that brick to go higher without crashing.
I suggest that you go through your geometry textbook sometime soon. Identify which parts you understand and which parts you don't (even if it's tiny). Then go in for help in the mornings or after school to your teacher for help. As him/her to give you practice problems and sheets and homework kind of things so you can practice with problems you might be having. You could also ask him/her if he/she has any good geometry sites. And also ask the teacher or a counselor if your school has math tutors (students most likely) that will be willing to help you.
Good luck
15/f
Emily
ok well For a year now I really wanted to go to the doctor for some anti depressant pills because of many things but as one of my friends have said, they don't know what to do with me because I'm too emotional and it brings people down. I suggested it to my dad once but when he started giving me a lecture of why do I need it, and that I should be thankful that I'm not starving in Africa, I couldn't talk, like I choked and started crying non stop and then after that I never talked to him about it again because if I did, I would just start crying before I even said a word.
My dad always talks us to the doctors, and it's his decision whether or not he gets this or that so I can't just go in privately and expect him to pay up for the prescription to drugs that I'm taking when he doesn't know what I'm taking them for.
Please help me, I don't know what to do anymore but I just think that they'll help. I'm all against drugs and stuff but this one really seems to work.
I can't tell you that you have whatever form of depression, but I can tell you that I know what you feel like.
I have major depression. I've been like this since I was in like 3rd grade before I even knew what depression meant. My best friend, who has be diagnosed with major depression is being treated and she's gone through numerous amounts of different anti-depressant pills and these ones are working fairly well. But anywhos, I told my mom about a year ago...or 10mo ago about this. She just pushed it off as being a teenage stage (like a teenage starts when you're in 3rd grade?)But I've found that it's somewhat helpful to channel your thoughts out whether it's through writing, drawing, dancing, or talking.
I write poems and stories in my spare time and I tell some stuff to people...but not really. And rest of the time I try and keep myself distracted with school and outside activities.
I know it's not the best advice but that's the way I'm trying to deal with my depression.
Again, I'm not saying that you have depression and I am in no position to medically diagnose with depression of any sort, but when your parents aren't listening to you about what you believe you need, one thing you can do is just get it out in one way or another (healthily hopefully) or ignore it by keeping yourself occupied 24/7
If you need anyone to talk to, my email is xethereal.imbalance@yahoo.com
15/f
Emily
Ok so here is my issue...
My 16th Birthday is in 4 days (on the 20) and I have nothing planned don't really have that much money to spend and yeah...
Does anyone have any good Ideas of what I could do like last minute because I don't have anything planned unless my mom is surprising me with something which I don't think that she would... And good Ideas anyone please help me!!!
Well, you could always have your closest friends come over, pizza, movies, games at home, dance, and have a sleepover.
I've kinda stretched my ears to 10ga.
But my parents wouldn't approve really.
I'm wondering how I could convince my parents to let me gauge to 2GA, since that's the size I want, and I know that the whole will shrink back to at least 14ga.
I used to have a 6ga plug, but then once I was straightening my hair, and I had it clipped up, and my mom saw and freaked out, she pulled it out of my ear and was screaming at me.
So I'm wondering how I could talk them into letting me have 2ga plugs?
I know basically EVERYTHING about stretching, and I've experienced it myself aswell.
Thanks!
I hate it when people tell me to wait and that I'm just wanting to be rebellious/an attention whore. Seriously, I'm like a piercing addict. I love piercings...it's like an addiction without the nicotine.
But to tell you the truth, once they find out, it's going to be hard to keep it a secret. I got my lip pierced without telling my parents and they weren't happy...at all. Actually, they were pretty pissed off. And now they stare at my face all day long to make sure I didn't put a hole on there anywhere. And I can't pierce anything because they're like, "Oh my Bob, we're gonna make sure you don't pierce yourself again by checking your face and ears everyday..." So the best thing I can tell you is to really just wait until you move out. For now, you could go down another gauge. They won't be able to notice too terribly much. Or you know, you could always convince them that your ears will go back to a normal hole size as far as you don't go down more than a 2G unless they know about piercings...then I don't suggest that lie.
15/f
Emily
13/f
i wanna get an industrial piercing but i have a couple questions:
1. what is the age limit to get that in texas?
2. does it hurt? how long?
3. where could i get it done?
kthanxbye.
1)I don't know the exact age limit in every state, but in most states, it's either 16 or 18. Below that age, you must get your parental permission and one of your parents there with you.
2)It's like a helix piercing. It will hurt a bit more than an earlobe piercing because the layers of cartilages. It will take approximately a good 6months to a nifty year to heal.
3)I say get it done professionally at a doctors or a body arts shop. Don't get it done at Claire's or anywhere that uses a piercing gun. Make sure that the place you go to will use a piercing needle. Do some research on Google. For example, a piercing shop where I live is River City Tattoos. Go to a renown, sanitary, and licensed place that uses needles and not guns!
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Emily
ok so theres this guy hes so cute but what i dont get is how to start talking to him i dont no how girls do it do i just start talkin to him a little but hes kinda shy so then what i realllllyyy realllyy like him i dont no what to do when i instant message him it kinda seems like im the only one trying to make conversation ahh i dont no what to do!!
I know a guy exactly like that.
He's gorgeous and seems incredibly nice, but he is extremely shy and he will never start a conversation with a person and won't say something to keep a conversation going--he would just stand there and create some awkward silence.
Just say, "Hey, what's up?" or if you see him at the mall, say something. The next day, ask something about the mall: example: "Did you have fun at the mall?" or "Did you do anything fun after I left?" or something like that.
Don't try and force him to talk with you. Just say a short greeting or a short convo starter when you see him and leave it at that. Eventually, one day, he might say something to you first =)
Don't get too hung up on this guy, though. You don't really know him and if he doesn't want to talk to you very much, then lay off a bit and nonchalantly greet him once in a while. If he doesn't seem to make a slight effort to carry on that conversation you started and tried to maintain for ten minutes straight, well, call it a day and tell yourself that this guy isn't worth the trouble in your mind.
Good luck!
Emily 15/f
Yeah, the title...
I'm just wondering how many people here listen to any of those genres.
And I defenetly don't mean punk. or pop.
So like Slayer, Dimmu Borgir, Slipknot, Children Of Bodom, Thine Eyes Bleed, Gorgoroth,Sepultura and so on.
I think metal isn't appriciated enough.
:)
So...how many of you like the genres of metal above? :D
I listen to them
Slayer, Children of Bodom, Slipknot, Rimfrost, Six Feet of Foreplay, Searing Meadow, etc, etc.
I don't think they're appreciated enough, too. Too many people seem them as being stupid and loud and nothing else *rolls eyes* Whatever. They can think whatever but I'm still gonna listen to these bands.
15/f
Emily
hey, i've been trying to eat healthy and such lately, and i've read that eating foods without high froctuse corn syrup is better for you. problem is, pretty much every food i eat has it in it.
can you give me a list of foods that don't have any in it?
thanks!
All foods in their natural state will be fine like fruits and veggies. You can bake them, stew them, roast them, and boil them and they'll still be good to eat. Foods high in sugar and syrup in general are sweets like candies and chocolates and junk food like ice cream and such. Just stick to natural foods prepared in a healthy style and you'll be fine =)
Good luck!
PS If you want a bigger list, go here:
http://www.advicenators.com/talkaboutmetopic.php?t=372&userboard_id=35415
If you want to read more on things similar to that, try visiting my forum (the link is on my page on the column to the right. It should be the second link provided)
Over the holidays, my mom popped pills. She is better now after 2 trips to the hospital, 1 in an ambulance and one in her bf's car. I couldn't help but cry during this whole ordeal. It felt like I was the mother and she was the teenager. But, I don't know what I will do if that happens again. I love my mom to death and she is the only family I have, besides my brother but he is autistic and my other brother is a drug addict and ran away from home. I don't want to live with my grandparents, and my dad won't let me live with him because he hates me and my autistic brother. He didn't even call us over the holidays! Anyways, what should I do if it happens again? I know coming to you would get me real answers because you give your answers straight-up, not sugar-coated. Well neither is life, so I'd appreciate if you answered soon.
Thanks!
Eryn, Happy New Year.
That is a horrible thing to happen on a holiday. So I'll start off by saying, "I'm sorry for what happened."
Do you know what the cause of your mother's actions were? Is it depression? Addiction?
There could be a few things happening here:
1. You will stay with your mother.
2. You can be placed with your father.
3. You can be placed with your grandparents.
Your mother seems unstable from what I'm reading. Right now, I think that the best you can do is just stay by her side and try and help her get through it. Help her out more than usual around the house. If this happens again, you might consider living with your grandparents or father. It may seem like a terrible advice but your mom just might need time for herself to get herself together. Even if you don't want to live with your grandparents, it may be the best choice for you, your mom, and your brother.
What about your mom's boyfriend? Is he responsible?
I really don't know how much I'm helping you but talking with your school counselor will help you.
I don't know how much I've helped but if you need someone to talk to, feel free to e-mail me at xethereal.imbalance@yahoo.com
Good luck and happy new years!
f/15
Christmas is RIGHT around the corner and i have NO clue what to get my boyfriend. almost everything i, or my friends, can think of, doesnt work because a) he wont use it b) its impersonal or c) its not "him". i think he'd be happy if i got him something gay, but i want it to have sentimental value, you know?
also,
-we've been dating for almost a year now.
-plays lacrosse and football
-hes a little bit of a partyer
-kinda preppy but not mega preppy
-tough
-doesnt like to shop much
so thats that. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!
and i have to have it by christmas, cause im eating christmas dinner at his house. :/
thank you for any help!
Get him his favorite CD (that he doesn't own preferably)
Matching bracelet/ring or a necklace that he might like.
Cologne?
Okay, I have two questions. One is this one girl is soooo annoying me, spreading rumors and starting crap. I have tried my hardest to be nice to her, giving her Christmas cards, telling her that I like her accessories (I have to wear a uniform), and many other things. But she still doesn't like me, calling me a bitch behind my back and saying things that were not true. One day I just lost it, 'cause she was saying that I couldn't talk to my friend Crystal because she was her friend. So now, if I even see here, I wanna punch her. What should I do?
Second question is about the girl's boyfriend. I am the new girl at my school, and I was hearing that her boyfriend was saying that I am cute and that he liked me. This is probably where things went wrong with me and that girl. Because, I didn't know that she was dating him, and Crystal said that he does still like me. BUT, he has been saying that he doesn't like me and he doesn't treat me like he likes me, in fact, he treats me quite the opposite. He hits me, and says rude things to me. I don't who to believe. What should I do?
Okay, the guy -- he is not worth worrying about. If he likes you and is too stupid to realize that being rude to you and hitting you shows that he likes you or won't stand up for himself, he is just a little kid that needs to grow up.
The girl that spreads rumors about you is just really jealous of you because the boyfriend ordeal. Just flat out tell her that you don't like your boyfriend and that he doesn't like you (whether or not either is true). If he does like you, then go take it out of him, not you. If she doesn't accept the fact that she's being a complete moron, ignore her. Just take her out of your life and she'll get tired of herself listening to herself talk one day because everyone's going to get sick and tired of what she's saying once they realize that she's a chain liar. If things really get out of control, just go to the counselor.
And in the meanwhile, just make a lot of friends. Be really nice to them and friendly and act innocent. If they say something like "I heard (the girl) says you've been a complete female dog to her" or something like that relating to the girl's rumors about you, just saym "I don't know why she's saying that stuff. I really don't. I've been trying to be nice to her but she still keeps on making up all these lies about me. I mean if people want to believe it, then fine. But I just want people to know that what they're believing is a lie." (Say it in a sad, sweet way. Nonchalant as well).
Anyone who will believe the girl solidly is an idiot. They're just believing the words of some girl that has no support for her lies.
15/f
Emily
Me and my bff have been friends for four years now and we also have a bff who weve known for three years. Well two of those years were fine but Bff 1's other bestfriends started picking on me and threatening to beat me up. When i told her she ignored me and said i probally deserved it but when i talked about them she got super pissed off and stopped talking to me for days. Then we graduated middle school and my bff 2 got put into foster care and then it got super worse with bff 1. She would invite our other bff over for a huge slumber party and not me even though our friend lives three hours away and i barely get to see her as it is. Then my friend started getting mean and rude, usually she was so picked on in middle school i thought she was gaining confidence in her new school that i don't go to. But she suddenly became bff's with three guys who used to beat our other best friend up and so when we all got to go to the mall two months ago and they were there she quickly ran over to hug and kiss them even though my other best friend was so hurt that she forgot what they did to her. Then i got into drama and our other friend did too and they came to one of my plays and then bff 1 said she couldn't make mine but she always goes out of her way to go to our other best friends and after learning about a play, the wizard of oz which is our other best friends fav, she took her without asking me to come. Then bff 1 said shed come to my new play and would be taking our other bff so i was so excited. But then two hours before show time i got a call from a tearful bff2 saying she couldn't go because bff 1 wanted to go shoping with her other bff's and wouldn't pick her up. Then the next day she promised to come and bring bff2 but found out her bf was doing a play and went to that instead. I was so pissed i quit gs and emailed her about all the crap she gave me and she said it was because bff2, blaming it on her and told me that bff 2 was lieiung about getting beaten up because her bff's wouldn't do that. AAnd then i ended up apologizing and she said we'd hang out over vacation. but now i don't know if i want to be her friend anymore after the way she treated me and my bff. What should i do?
That certainly was confusing but I get a gist of it: your bff of 4 yrs is basically making plans and ditching you at the last minute whereas if she made plans with bff2, she'd keep it?
Well, someone once told me that we'd be incredibly lucky if we had just one, single, true friend in life. Because I have to tell you that everyone changes and everyone has their own problems. Throughout life, you're going to encounter people that you feel like you can never live without only to find out that what you felt wasn't true. You and someone else may agree with everything and get along perfectly well, but then the both of you will gradually change in personality and likes and etc. and the friendship may become loose. What I'm trying to say is that keeping and maintaining a friendship is hard and that friends come and go.
To me, they are not even worth stressing over. Let them be friends or do whatever they want to. Be friends but certainly do go out and meet other people. Friends that upset friends and later blame it on someone else for their actions are not worth trying to keep. You will meet new and fun people out there and you'll end up wondering why you didn't meet them sooner or why you were getting frustrated over the two people that you don't need. Trust me, I've had so many friendship problems and in the end, that's what you come to unless you find that true friend. Lucky me, I think I've found one, but who knows, right?
15/f
Emily
What kind of girl do troublemaking guys like? good girls or bad girls?
Well, I'm not sure if there are going to be many trouble makers on Advicenators but I can tell you that I my best friend since 6th grade is one of the biggest trouble maker you'll meet. And he goes out with nice girls although his friends have been bugging me for the past few months saying that he likes me and I'm not that good of a girl. And there's this other guy that could care less about getting OSS and what not. He likes girls that are nice.
15/f
Emily
Ok i like this guy- dan. He is dating meghan but i don't think he likes her that much. He flirts with me alot and like is always like bumping into me "on accident". What do I do? He knows i like him.
Regardless of whether or not he likes you and regardless of whether or not he likes Meghan, he is not available! He is another girl's boyfriend. Not yours to take. Even if he is flirting with you and you like him, don't let him lead you on or vice versa. Just don't lead him on or let him lead you on or flirt with him or let him flirt with you until he clarifies that he is done and over with Meghan (aka break up with her). Make it clear to him that you don't want to flirt with a guy that has a girlfriend because it is wrong.
15/f
Emily
In the book "Why french women don't get fat" it says to drink coffee after meals because it helps digest the meal better.
However I don't like coffee much, so I was wondering do you think tea would do the same thing? I know it's healthier for you but I'm not sure whether it would help disgest the food though.
I vote for tea.
1. It's healthy for you.
2. If it's warm tea, it'll make you feel full.
3. It speeds up metabolism.
4. It does wonders for your skin (& body)
5. Coffee stains your teeth.
6. You will end up putting sugar/cream into coffee, which adds up to fat.
7. Coffee makes your body stop producing brain cells that teens need.
8. Coffee can cause acne.
9. Tea is so much better.
And some teas do help digest food like green tea and red ginger tea.
15/f
Emily
16/f.
Hi, I was wondering if anyone knew any good diets that dancers go on. I'm a bit chubby and i wanna start to slim down and watch my weight. So, any tips or anything will be great!
Thanks!
I think the term "diet" is so stupid because after you go off the "diet", you'll gain all the weight back. Instead, aim for a healthier lifestyle. You'll keep you weight off forever and more =)
Google BMR calculator and click and link that will calculate your BMR for free. BMR is how much your body burns in an avg. day. From that, take about 500 calories. The remaining number should be the amount of calories you should consume daily. If you keep that number of calories for a week, you'll lose a pound per week. Keep doing that until you achieve your desired weight. After that, eat the same amount of BMR you have but never over. If cutting down 500 cals make it like 1200 or 1000calories, instead of cutting out the 500 from food, exercise those 500 calories off.
Also, stay away from junk food, including soda (even if it's diet), fast food, pizzas, fried foods, stir fried foods. Try to eat food in their most natural form. Eat healthy foods and avoid high fat foods.
Exercise daily if you can. Run every other day or something like that.
If you'd like, go to my forum and click the topics that says "Lose Weight" and "Carbs, Proteins, FAt" (Or something like that) and something about eating tips? Haha.
Good luck!
15/f
hi,
ok so this is a bit personal and awkward but i really need an answer...
i usually do personal examination by myself for breast cancer and also down under for any unusual signs...
recently i noticed that i have a light skin mole down there... the reason i checked is because i've been having an awkward feeling of pressure in that exact specific area and i thought it was just ingrown hair since i wax... then i noticed that the tips of the hairs are white or loosing color (my hair is black) and it's not just a couple....
could there be something wrong with me?
on a different note...
i've been diagnosed with PO and a slight mess up in my hormone levels (i get lazer treatments every two months for facial hair) since i've been having irregular periods ever since i had my first one (about ten years ago) but the meds didn't seem to work (after 2 years. i tried aldacton and birth controls) so i went to a different doc and he said to stop them ... my periods were still coming normally as they were with the pills but were back to being irregular in a matter of 6 months or so (a week late a month late a week early a month early .... you get the picture) anyway so now it's been about a month an a half or 2 and i still didn't get my period...
could it be my anxiety pills??
my weight?
cervical cancer? (i'm still a virgin btw)
the winter?
the change of countries? (lived in egypt for about 4 years then moved back home to vermont)
i am really worried because i think there is something seriously wrong with me but i don't want to go to more doctors before i have an idea of the possibilities are....
please help
As the columnist said below me:
There are no medical doctors on here that can give you accurate diagnosis. Most of us on here are teenagers and we usually do not know much about these types of thing, assuming that we know some at least.
Please go to the doctors and prevent possible chances of whatever you may have gets worse and spreads.
Best of wishes
15/f
Emily
I tried to charge my ipod but when i plug it into the computer, it isn't showing up. The ipod screen doesn't show the charging symbol either. I don't think it's the usb cable i'm using since when I do connect it to the computer, the ipod screen lights up. Someone told me to reset it. I thought you did that just by pressing the middle button, but that didn't work. Do I have to get a new one? By the way I have a first generation nano (i think, its the black glossy type)
You don't have to get a new one. Let's just clarify that first.
iPods don't work as well as they should, especially since the prices are so high.
Go to the Apple store online site, search for "5 r's" or "reset ipod" and follow instructions on there. Or try turning your iPod off and restart your computer. After about 5 min your computer has been restarted, plug the USB and iPod back in again. If neither works, I suggest you get a wall charger because that's what I had to do.
My computer didn't have enough energy to charge the iPod? (It didn't really make sense but oh well). I just use my wall charger and it works fine =)
15/f
Emily
okay so i pierced my nose at home using an earring stud. i left it in for 12 hours, but hated it bc it was so big. so i went out and bought little plastic studs.
i was reading up on nosepiercings and all the sites say you need titanium, or something hypoallergenic. so instead of a metal i have a plastic in my nose.. is that dangerous, or does it not make any difference/make it better.
I had a plastic retainer in my lip piercing from the day I pierced it. But I'm sure a nose heals differently.
My lip piercing took a LONG time to heal because of the plastic retainer and not having proper jewlery in (And from taking it in and out so much to hide from my parents).
Try to go find a suitable jewelry. I mean, after all, it is a nose piercing which is very visible and you don't want it to look like crap at the end, right?
good luck!
15/f
So.
I sit next to Adam in reading, forced to but if we had the choice I probably still would. Well for the past week of sitting together, we've flirted. I wasn't sure at first, but the nudges.. pinches.. Footsies!.. and just what were talking about. Becky even called it flirting. Then PJ Stamas, the most rudest ignorant JERK ever asked "Are you going out with Katie???" Looking directly at Adam, because im not the best thing to look at.. and Adam didn't say anything so then Pj looked at me and asked if we were and I said No were not because were not. So Pj said oo and looked away. And me and Adam went back to flirting.. =D Wellthat was Thursday. Friday at lunch because I sit next to Adam because we are friends.. some random girl I couldnt tell you her name to save my life asked HOW LONG we've been going out..! Then today DJ didffrent annoying kid asked if we were.. Well I dont see why Adams not going "Gross kid! No I am not going out with this Hella Fat cow!" But all 3 times he hasnt said anything.. i've had to correct them. The Steven goes around telling Adam that he's all I ever talk about which soo isn't true!
Adam said something to me I forget, about "us."kinda and I was like ahh not now Adam later.. just joking around and he was like yayyy now i have something to look forward to and It was funny and I laughed and stuff and I guess I have a laugh AND a giggle. Ive heard this from my Best Budd in the whole world Becky. Well I dont control it. because I dont know I even had a **gigle...
Well, Beckys made a huge deal out've reading and me and Adam flirting. I say its not.. even tho it kinda is.. I mean Im not the number one girl Adam could have! He's funny, Smells delish!!! no joke, and i donno everything about hims awsome. He has more options besides ME. I stayed back, im the Godzilla of the grade.. because im fat and im just al around not pretty. But people tell me other wise.. but ughh tuff subject.
Then today Adam at lunch was playing footsies.. and i was laughing and stuff when JJ tried making fun of him and started with my other foot COMPLETELY AKWARD btw when Adam stepped on his foot with FULL FORCE like as hard as possible!! Well all I can say is JJ wont do that again =) But the weird things is afterwards, Adam didn't stop. He continued holding me knee.. and playing with my foot. And in reading, he rubs knee\leg and we talked about how waffles are better then pancakes, lipgloss is better then lipstick (haha funny funny!) and if i looked better with or without glasses and he said eitherway..=) And I dont know what it's called but he keeps stepping on my hel when im walking and it kills SOOO much lol and Friday he hurt me and he was like Oh my god im sooo sorry and hasnt done it since.
Well, I didnt want to admit i liked him because he couldve been flirting with me on a bet or date, Ive seen those movie! or to just fuck with me. And I dont wanna make a big deal outa this if he doesnt. I dont wanna look like an idiot.
Well I kinda wrote this is my profile.
So Maybe I Do Talk To Much.
Expecially
About Him.
I might as well go to the tallest mountain..
And Scream It To The World.
"I Can't Lie."
After me and becky Had a talk about how I suck at lieing...
What do I do??
Wow. That was a lot to read.
From what I can tell, Adam is
a)Flirting with you
b)Flirty overall
c)Friendly
d)Are good friends with you.
I say that since he seems kind of shy and he has not said no to the "Are you going out with Katie" question, there's a big chance he likes you.
Slyly ask if he wants to join you and Becky for a movie or bowling. Just incorporate him into things you and your friends do. After you feel comfortable that he likes you, ask him out without your friends tagging along =)
15/f
Emily