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i like him so much it hurts
ok so theres this guy hes so cute but what i dont get is how to start talking to him i dont no how girls do it do i just start talkin to him a little but hes kinda shy so then what i realllllyyy realllyy like him i dont no what to do when i instant message him it kinda seems like im the only one trying to make conversation ahh i dont no what to do!!
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I know a guy exactly like that.
He's gorgeous and seems incredibly nice, but he is extremely shy and he will never start a conversation with a person and won't say something to keep a conversation going--he would just stand there and create some awkward silence.
Just say, "Hey, what's up?" or if you see him at the mall, say something. The next day, ask something about the mall: example: "Did you have fun at the mall?" or "Did you do anything fun after I left?" or something like that.
Don't try and force him to talk with you. Just say a short greeting or a short convo starter when you see him and leave it at that. Eventually, one day, he might say something to you first =)
Don't get too hung up on this guy, though. You don't really know him and if he doesn't want to talk to you very much, then lay off a bit and nonchalantly greet him once in a while. If he doesn't seem to make a slight effort to carry on that conversation you started and tried to maintain for ten minutes straight, well, call it a day and tell yourself that this guy isn't worth the trouble in your mind.
Good luck!
Emily 15/f
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just be yourself..if he isn't willing to talk then u know he isn't interested. i mean..he is a guy..all guys are dumb at times. If you feel you are working to hard at if just ask him simple questions so he can get used to the idea of you talking to him. Just try and be yourself and don't push it to much!! Good luck..and keep trying to make him talk to you but not to much!! have fun and good luck!!
~sealgirl~
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