Question Posted Saturday December 22 2007, 7:52 pm
Okay, I have two questions. One is this one girl is soooo annoying me, spreading rumors and starting crap. I have tried my hardest to be nice to her, giving her Christmas cards, telling her that I like her accessories (I have to wear a uniform), and many other things. But she still doesn't like me, calling me a bitch behind my back and saying things that were not true. One day I just lost it, 'cause she was saying that I couldn't talk to my friend Crystal because she was her friend. So now, if I even see here, I wanna punch her. What should I do?
Second question is about the girl's boyfriend. I am the new girl at my school, and I was hearing that her boyfriend was saying that I am cute and that he liked me. This is probably where things went wrong with me and that girl. Because, I didn't know that she was dating him, and Crystal said that he does still like me. BUT, he has been saying that he doesn't like me and he doesn't treat me like he likes me, in fact, he treats me quite the opposite. He hits me, and says rude things to me. I don't who to believe. What should I do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? bbyloveme94 answered Sunday December 23 2007, 12:02 pm: okay hi im going to give you good advice on how to ignore this girl. I had the exact problems as you for the past....FOREVER i used to care soooo much and thats what she wants you to care and it will just get worse and worse because she is looking for attention. As soon as you dont care anymore the rumors will stop and she might calll you a bitch still because your not paying attention to her and then a little later then that it will all stop.
NOw the boyyyy okay well i would lay off because he probably is not worth getting in more drama for and bruiseesss so just stay away and make him like you more be like the mysterious girl dont talk to him
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Matt answered Sunday December 23 2007, 2:53 am: Second to last sentence of the first paragraph.
ductape_n_roses answered Sunday December 23 2007, 12:01 am: Okay, the guy -- he is not worth worrying about. If he likes you and is too stupid to realize that being rude to you and hitting you shows that he likes you or won't stand up for himself, he is just a little kid that needs to grow up.
The girl that spreads rumors about you is just really jealous of you because the boyfriend ordeal. Just flat out tell her that you don't like your boyfriend and that he doesn't like you (whether or not either is true). If he does like you, then go take it out of him, not you. If she doesn't accept the fact that she's being a complete moron, ignore her. Just take her out of your life and she'll get tired of herself listening to herself talk one day because everyone's going to get sick and tired of what she's saying once they realize that she's a chain liar. If things really get out of control, just go to the counselor.
And in the meanwhile, just make a lot of friends. Be really nice to them and friendly and act innocent. If they say something like "I heard (the girl) says you've been a complete female dog to her" or something like that relating to the girl's rumors about you, just saym "I don't know why she's saying that stuff. I really don't. I've been trying to be nice to her but she still keeps on making up all these lies about me. I mean if people want to believe it, then fine. But I just want people to know that what they're believing is a lie." (Say it in a sad, sweet way. Nonchalant as well).
Anyone who will believe the girl solidly is an idiot. They're just believing the words of some girl that has no support for her lies.
ravin06 answered Saturday December 22 2007, 11:43 pm: These people are just a couple of unhappy people who want you to be unhappy like them... forget about them firstly confront her say i heard you where going around spreading rumors about me and thats not funny i dont like your boyfriend if thats why you dont like me not unless your just jealous of me but if she continues tell a teacher or parent that this girl is being so arrogant and unthoughtful of your feelings if your not that nice goody goody girl just go and spread bad rumors about her and see how she likes that..and then forget about her loser boyfriend if he likes you then he wouldnt be so mean to you and just flirt with some other hot guy and see how he takes it you are to good for them they arent worth your time ...REALLY!!!!! [ ravin06's advice column | Ask ravin06 A Question ]
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