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Me and my friends, (L), (S), and (E) are planning to perform in a lipsync. The song (S) picked out is highly innapropriate!! We all agree except her. We still haven't told her. We don't want to hurt her so what do we do?? I rate high!!! (link)
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I think you could try picking out several songs.
Then have a vote on which one you will use. Be sure everyone knows up front that majority wins!That would take of the problem without hurting her feelings to badly.
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Hey, my family might move from here in Wisconsin to Florida. I want to sooo bad for the weather. But I just can't leave all my friends here. i love em all to death. And my best friend and I are really close and it will be so hard for me to leave her, and everyone else. How can I not miss her so much?? (link)
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you can write letter. There is always email and IM.phone calls. You'll miss her even with all that though because good friends just do! Maybe she can come enjoy some sun on vaction sometime.
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it made me put text in, pls answer my question (link)
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ok, you can just visit.
if your wanting to take care of his problem you can use your hand with some lotion on it.he will let you know what to do! hand lotion will work ok. Is that what you wanted to know? I.m not sure. Hope so!
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im 14, and i dont want to have sex, i just want to know some things i can do with him? (link)
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Send me an email at karenrickel50@hotmail.com
You can just send a blank if you want to.Otherwise your question will show up on my column and I don't know if you want it too.I'm sorry I feel I keep putting you off but this is kind of a private question between us ok?
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This issue requires so background info: Long story short is that my best friend and ex bf (well call bob) broke up with my best friend (well call chica) to go out with me. She was hurt at first but now we are ok. One of my other close friends, well call Joe, goes out with a freshman. That is not the issue. The issue is that he is doing the same exact thing that Bob did with chica. He is dating freshman because she is safe. She is in 'love' with him and thinks they will marry. He knows it won't last and just lets her believe whatever she wants. he doesn't understand that the longer he waits to break up with her the more it is going to hurt her. On to of all that his best friend, well call ashley, likes him and he likes her. When I try to explain to him what he is doing he starts to ignore me and is like I really don't care. Joe and I are like brothers and I just want him to at least realize that he is going to hurt freshman more if he waits. And he is loosing Ashley as a best friend and even maybe a girlfriend the longer he waits to break up with freshman. I just want to know if what i am doing is right and how i should approach him. (link)
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I'm so confused...........Leave it alone.
I know you are concerned but stay out of it before someone gets upset with you.He's not listening anyway.
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well i like this kid ryan, but we never really c each other. he lives in Port Byron n i live in mastic. he likes me 2. hes turnin 16 nd im only 13. well he just broke up wit mii cousin nd i don no wat 2 do. he doesnt no that i like him but i don no if i wanna tell him. plus the cousin prob. well i just recently went upstate round were he lives 4 my cousins step sis' 16th bday. he was there nd he grabbed mii cuzins butt nd mii uncle saw him nd gave him a lecture n threaghtened 2 kill him if he did it agian. well l8r that night ryan nd mi cuzin broke up nd mi uncle said wow did i scare him that much? the point is that he wants to go out wit me nd if he duz there wouldb a big effect on the fam cuz of wat mii uncle did. nd that he lives so far away, just went out wit mi cuzin nd hez very popular so how would i no if he was cheating on me? i need help. well i m a female obviously (link)
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I'm sorry but at 13 you aren't going to be able to see this guy enough to waste your time on him.
Do what you want but I think it would be far more trouble than it's worth.
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my friend just broke up with her bf after 3 months and shes been reallly sad.. and i`ve been there for her the whole time listening to her say the same things over and over... but i just listen and tell her how bad i feel for her. but i also like this guy and everyonce in a while i talk about how he doesnt even notice me and it makes me sad. and she started freaking out about how i have nothing to be complaining about and its rele stupid and she gets rele annoyed that i talk about him "all the time". this was the first time i found out it was annoying her, and i dont even talk about him that much.. i was thinking that after listening to her complain so much, maybe i had a little room to talk about me for a second... isnt that unfair that she wont even support my problems??? i`ll rate high! x3 (link)
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Do you like her x? I'm a little confused about that.
If it's her x you are talking about then I can see where she might freak now that you're talking about him.She probably would like to keep off that subject for awhile.
If it's some other guy you like then she's out of line.
She's probably just kinda down in the dumps about guys in general right now.Give her some time and she'll listen to you.
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Ok, so I have been going out with this one guy since I was thirteen. Now I'm 16 and I know he cheeted on me. We're broken up but we're still in love and I know he's sorry, but should I trust him again. I mean three years is a long time. =( (link)
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I think if you can do your best to forget what happened.....No bringing it up all the time, that you can.
I see nothing wrong with giving a second chance.You will have to try and get pass thinking he's cheating on you every time he's a little late getting somewhere!If you can then sure give him a second chance.
It can actually make your relationship stronger,If you show him that you trust him and you both stay honest about things.
Third time though....He's outta here, let him know that right up front.
I wish you both the best of luck!:}
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My Boyfriend told me yesterday that if he doesnt have a girlfriend who loves him when he turns 16 he is inlisting into the army and i dont want that to happen. I dont want anything to tear us apart but if he does go i will miss him how do i talk him out of it!
Im 14 and He Is Almost 15! (link)
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You don't. If someone has the desire to join the army they will,In love or not.
If he goes and you are still together you will write and call whenever possible.Yes, you sure will miss him!
If you talk him out of doing something he really wants to do he may later blame you because he missed out on doing it.So you need to support him if he decides to go.
He's a long way from 16 yet so let him talk. A lot can change in a couple of years.I think you have to be 18 anyway.
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Ok, I have this friend and she really lies a lot and like I have told her many times before to be honest and she's like yeah I'm honest! But like 2 other chicks have also been her friends and she's also lied to them. So like now we have formed a group and like we talk to her but we make sure that she never talks to us alone like one to one. But we don't know hwo to tell her that she's lieing to us and to just fucking stop it. Help me please. (link)
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If she lies why give her the time of day.She probably won't change so, you'd be wasting your breath.Let her find someone else to lie to and forget her altogether.
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One of my best friend's brother died in a car crash because of street racing. Tomorrow I am going to his funeral with our friends and to be there for my friend. I really dont know what to wear and what I'm supposed to do there. Do I bring a gift. I feel really bad. He was onlt 17 years old. Please help. (link)
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You don't have to wear black but don't wear anything bright and cheerful either.You will mostly sit and listen at a funeral, just do what everyone else does.No gift.Just being there for your friend is all thats required.
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I have so much going on in my life right now and i feel like i dont have anyone to talk to and i found out all the people i thought were my friends are just using me or are just jerk and my family is always fighting and my parents are divorced and i had to live up to all these high standardands and i cant get over this guy ahhhh i dont want to go back to my bad habits...drinking...drugs...cutting...any of that can you please help me (link)
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ok lets try and break this down.
ALL your friends? using you for what? surley there is at least one real friend in the bunch isn't there? If not go find one and ditch the others.
There isn't much you can do about family fighting except to stay out of the fights as much as possible.
Do the best your can and set your own standards.
Getting over any guy takes time. soon you'll find another, just hang in there.
Thank goodness you realise that your former bad habits are not the way to go.If you beat all those things and survived, then you'll get over this rotten day in good shape too.Go somewhere and scream a lot, jump up and down, have a real hissy fit and get on with it!:}
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i'm 13 and a girl.i really need help.in 7 grade i went out with this boy named russ we liked each other since 6 grade but in 7 he asked me out. we fell in love with each other after 5 months we went out for 6 months. when summer vacation came we broke up. we did't talk for the whole summer untill in august he called. then when we went back to school we went back to talking like the best friends we were.then we both went out with different people. and he would come to my house to hang out but on day we kissed(we both were with somone).then he broke up with his girlfrined and i broke up with my man.then we went back out we promised each other that nothing was going to happen and we would be the best couple.so then i felt like i did't want to be in a nother relationship with him so i broke up with him. he never saw it comming and he felt soooo bad. then couple months later he went out with this other girl and he said he loved her after 2 months but i know he did't because the way he acted. i think he said that because he was missing me.then he cheated on her with me . he said he would do anything for me.and he still see me in his life for ever.now him and his girlfriend are not together. this boy named jay is talking to me now we have been talking for 3 weeks now and he wants us to go out. but i'm scared he might hurt me just like russ did.and jay and i are really close and i think i might fell in love with him.jay and i are going though changing . he gonna stop being a player. he just got of a relationship 3 months ago and he loved the girl. so i need your help please. (link)
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Just date them both if you want.Why be tied to one guy at your age? Sooner or later you'll like one more than the other.
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there's this guy i like but i don't know if he likes me and at first i hated him because he kept mentioning what his friend said about me( like saying i was ugly) but he said sorry and said he wouldn't say it anymore and now hes flirting with me. it seems like he does it to the 2 most popular girls in the school( me and Claire.) but i ddon't know if it means he likes me or not. because first he put his arm around me then touched my butt!! but he does that to my friend too sooo help please (link)
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If he does it to your friend too he is a real bold jerk.Do what you want but he'll probably do worse BEHIND your back.I'd be finding me a guy that thought I was special.
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I really need advice rite now. I have been going out with This guy for about 8 months (on and off) and I really love him. But all that I end up getting out pf this relationship is MORE drama and Hurt. I really like him but sometimes it seems like it wasnt meant to be. Ever since I met him and His buddies ITs all been He** and drama and HatE. I haven't cried sooo much in the last 5 years than I have these several months with him. He already cheated on me twice...and there is also this girl that likes him and He has Liked her Forever and I'm scared that he will go out wit her....she is such a bit** too...is it because I'm jelous of her...of what she can have or do?? i really dont know..MY LIFE IS jUST ALL Drama and I want it all to go away. please help me..
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Make it go away then! If he lies to you etc. he is not worth the effort, and it's making you miserable. You may love him but, you already know what you have to do. You have my vote. Get rid of him and find someone new.
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I moved to a new school and made friends with a lot of people but the ones I usually hang out with are Michelle and Mimi...well....personally, I don't really like them. We're just in the same homeroom and stuff. The other friends of mine, they are like a group and really close to each other so whenever I talk to them I always get lost and just sit there and listen to their conversation. Well, Mimi, she lies a lot, she's a copy cater, and a wannabe. Michelle, she acts really nerdy and a copy cater too. I've noticed that they copied me a lot...I don't really want to be friends with them but I don't want to hurt their feelings or anything and some other reasons like Mimi would starts spreading rumors about me...so What should I do?
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Don't put up with the rumor spreading and the lies any more. True friends don't do that to each other.So, I would hang out more with the other friends. The more that you hang out with them the easier it will be to keep up with what they are talking about.
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I'm really bad at starting conversations with people. I've been rejected by SO many guys because I'm "to quiet". I know i should be myself but the thing is that I don't want to be the girl that keeps her mouth shut all the time. If you could give me some good ways to start good conversations with people (Boys mostly) that would be great. Thanks!
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Find a common intrest such as music and strike up a conversation about that.If it's easier the first time take a couple of friends along to help get you started.Once you two are talking pretty good, have the friends move on. Be sure they know to do this ahead of time.
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ok well im trying out for a school called davidson Fine arts,Its a place where you sing do drama dance ect.well my friend tried out and she said you had to do drama and sing in front of EVERYBODY!well im already nervous about it and ill probobly be shy..how can i get over it??
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I am sure they take the fact that your nervous into consideration. Look off over their heads and pretend you are alone.Just try and zone clear out.
You could also start practicing in front of people whenever you get the chance to.
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this is kinda gross but does anyone know a good way to keep your armpits dry? i have even tried mens deoderant...i need something stronger HELP (link)
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Deoderant helps with smelly pits. If you want dry you need antiperspirant. A lot of times they come as a combo. You may want to try the anti by itself and see if that helps.
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I have to make a toy for a school project. It can be anything, and made from anything. Now I'm not too good with making something that involves electronics, so please nothing with wires. Does anybody have ANY good ideas that I could use? This project is due on monday! I also have to advertise it (but i can do that myself). It also has to be something original. OK I rate 5's for people who help in the least bit!
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You could make a puzzle out of wood,if you have some way to cut it.
I know puzzles aren't real original but the theme of the puzzle could be something diffrent.
That one is quick and easy. There are always the cars and other vehicles with the turning wheels and all that.I'm totally unoriginal I know.
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