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I'm really bad at starting conversations with people. I've been rejected by SO many guys because I'm "to quiet". I know i should be myself but the thing is that I don't want to be the girl that keeps her mouth shut all the time. If you could give me some good ways to start good conversations with people (Boys mostly) that would be great. Thanks!
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hey i used to be in the same situation with you. But guys didnt call me "too quiet" they didnt even notice me. Part of it is because i didnt really show that i was confident in myself. Guys love girls who have confidence. Walk into a room like you own the place not liek you HAVE to be there. Start with that and see if any guys try to start a convorsation with you. This quiet to confident change is gonna have to take time so dont rush and run into school liek a spaz. Just slowely start coming out of your shell. Thats what i did and i noticed a big change.
Hope i was of some help
~ kayla
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I used to be the same way. But now I never want to shut up! Just say something totally random and off subject! Think outloud. You'd definetly be able to start a conversation with someone that way. It always starts a conversation for me. Hmm, but sorry if I didn't help much! But I think you'll eventually grow out of it! I think everyone has their shy stages!
♥ Always,
Maria
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Start by just giving a compliment. Okay, that might work more with girls. Hmm, if your sitting with the person in class or hanging out with a group just listen to what they are talking about and just join in.
Sorry, that could have been better, but all I can really think is to just be like hey and let it go from there.
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Say stuff that they are interested in like ...
singers or, if u like this , sports.Sum guys just like talking about anythig so, just figure out what thhey like and be a BIG chatter-box, it might even help you to c what they like and if you like them!
=)=) luv ya t-28 old1
hey! it is definately hard to talk to guys. just be outgiong, find out what they like. dont be so nervouse, dont think, and go for it, trust me!!!!!
=)=) luv ya!!! t-28 young1
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Find a common intrest such as music and strike up a conversation about that.If it's easier the first time take a couple of friends along to help get you started.Once you two are talking pretty good, have the friends move on. Be sure they know to do this ahead of time.
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